If my ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend now, why does he still feel the need to find out whether I'm over him or not?

[Monalisamaryangela]

He jumped right into a new relationship with some random girl he just met when we broke up. Now he's trying his best to get my attention and he's rubbing this new relationship to my face and see my reaction. What the heck?

He's trying to get an ego boost or feel he won the break up

He's moved on but doesn't want you to move on

He's trying to figure out if you're over him so you two can be friends

He knows he screw up and he's trying to make you jealous so that you'd go after him and he gets out of begging you back

He's still into you and he wants to know if he's still got a chance

He wants to keep you as a backup plan

He's hurt and wants you to hurt too

A total of 30 votes were cast: 21 girls and 9 guys. See detailed results

[C2000]

Your ex may still want you but he is also a jerk. If he is rubbing the new girl in your face, he is trying to get your attention that's all.
He may or may not want you back but he definitely wants to have a life line in you or he wouldn't care what you do or if you know about his new relationships.

[Thinkthought]

sounds like he might want to still connect with you. he's just getting his rocks off with this new girl but he wants to know if you still want him.

[Monalisamaryangela]

Well, I would've but the intentionally hurting me -part is something that makes me just wanna get rid of him. I don't need that kind of drama in my life!

[Thinkthought]

did he do it just to hurt you? or did he just need to be sexually satisfied?

[Monalisamaryangela]

I have no idea what goes through his head. But he has never gotten any from me outside of a relationship and never will. He does these jealousy stunts always after he's first tried to get me interested in him, then if I haven't disappeared anywhere he tries to make me jealous and watches for my reaction. And he clearly wants me to react. I don't know what it's all about.

[Wonderer89]

Most likely option A if he feels the need to constantly contact you and talk about his relationship. Really, the best thing you can do is block his number and let him burn himself out. People who choose their actions just to get a reaction from someone else rarely grow up

[Missterio]

Depending on how mature of a break up it was, he may be wanting to be the one to come out on top in the break up.

If that is it, then you good riddance on your part lol!

[Teenage_Elmo]

Wow. Im honestly impressed by the choices you offered. These are all really good possibilities, I can't make much of a choice without knowing what kind of person he is.

[Monalisamaryangela]

He is a shy, insecure, sensitive guy. He took the break up really bad and totally broke down even though he was the one ending it. He tends to send indirect messages and play these stupid games rather than communicating clearly what he wants.

[Teenage_Elmo]

probably a mixture of all but the second and third

[Brokenheartedx]

Narcissist
Delete block and be thankful you're not with him anymore

Evil thing to do is rub someone in an exes face

[Monalisamaryangela]

Extremely rude and selfish! I've tried to spare his feelings and not hurt him cause I'm not that kind of person and I wouldn't intentionally hurt another person for my selfish purposes!

[Brokenheartedx]

I've had a guy do that to me and the girl was in on it too... they've had a baby now from what I heard and he was tryin to still get with me told him to Fk off

Delete and block him off change ur number make urself inaccessible to him and keep him out or he will drag you down

[Monalisamaryangela]

Wow! That's a top low, what the heck? Why on earth would someone do that!! Sounds like an total asshole! And the girl was in on it too! Can't understand. What could SHE possibly get out of it? People are crazy! (It's possible, even propable this girl is in on it too... I'm 80% sure she is. Don't know why though. And if she's not I feel sorry for her)

[SnapTsch]

he is just trying to make you jealous so that he can feel better by seeing that you want him back which gives him the upper hand and allows him to keep you as a back up

[Anonymous]

Some immature people have the habit of doing that. Just ignore it

[Danny_dan92]

That relationship is gonna crash and fucken burn. Trust me

[Danny_dan92]

This new girl is gonna catch on to his behavior and sense that he is clearly not over you.

Another poor girl that fell victim to fuck boyish behavior. She saw that he was desired by another female so she pounced on that dick. But the dick is tainted.

When will females learn...

[Anonymous]

Are you sure that he is or maybe it's all in your head?

[Monalisamaryangela]

Oh he is. First I thought it was just my imagination, but figures out it wasn't and I'm no where near the only one that's noticed it. He does it and then watches for my reaction and it pisses me off

[Regular1]

Threesome?