I don't know if my opinion is going to help you because my experience is the opposite.
I had a guy bestfriend too and I knew the fact that he liked me but I never view him that way. He helped me so much and always been there for me and I never wanted to lose that friendship of ours. I always laugh around him and he makes me smile with all his stupidity. But then the day I made a boyfriend I kept it secret from him. Don't get me wrong but I didn't like or anything. Only thought him as a bestest friend I ever had. But I thought maybe when he finds out I have a boyfriend then he might change or u know be different I was scared of that so I never told him till the day he found out himself. He was hurt but then we still had the same connection going on strong friendship but later he made a girlfriend and yeah that's the day he started changing like being there less for me and more time to his girlfriend. Well now we don't even have any connection lol
Wow. Maybe consider your friendship with this guy? If he can't respect his girlfriend or who he with, what makes you think he respects you as a friend? All he has to say that he is involved, and doesn't think going to the movies alone is appropriate when he already has somebody. Seriously have a talk to him about it and find out who he is dating. The only reason why I said find out because if he doesn't have a girlfriend then he's playing you. If he DOES have a girlfriend, and she finds out that he's been talking to you, while it's bad enough you don't know what is going on, she will accuse you with cheating with him. You have the right to know that he is taken so you won't get a bad reputation as a man stealer. Especially when it already shows he doesn't care about his relationship with who he's with. He's thinking selfishly about himself and not your own safety.
It seems as though he is trying to play it off like he doesn't care much for his girlfriend to make you feel more comfortable or the time with you takes priority over her. It's strange... usually guys are all about showing off their girlfriend... It's possible he could have feelings for you if he didn't want to mention her to you.
When my ex and I first started going out, we didn't tell anyone because we were taking things slow. Not even my best friend knew about us
He either 1) means exactly what he said, and just doesn't want to talk about her very much, or 2) is actually attracted to you as well and wants you, so he doesn't want to talk about her for that reason. There's no way to know which it is unless he broaches the subject. Good luck.
What's up with all these girls that have guy best friends?
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He means exactly what he says, he doesn't think it is necessary for him to tell others about him having a girlfriend. Maybe he just wants to keep things private.
Maybe he likes you and hopes that one day you may date.. or maybes girlfriends really don't mean much for him, though I doubt it
He wants you, he doesn't want to wait around being single, he doesn't want you thinking he's not available to you.
Do you like this friend... As in more than friends?
He thinks of you as more important in his life than his girlfriend is.
he dont trust in you or he feel scare you can stole his girlfriend ;)
He says just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean that he won't go out woth u
he probably didn't tell you because it's either none of your business, or he was waiting until you asked him about it.
He might be playing hard to get or something like that
its personal. he is not oblidged to inform you.
Because he doesn't know you will approve.
He s private about his personal life
He s right
he didn't want to tell you
Ask him and don't seem demanding to know
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