It seems like the most insulting thing you can say to a man is to call him a woman, or girly. I don't think women are that bad, so why is that so insulting? I think that shows some pretty messed up ideas in our society.
Most Helpful Girl
I guess some people are still hung up on obsessively conforming to so-called gender roles. It's stupid. There's no rules about what someone has to do to be a man or woman. People should just do whatever they want and not worry about whether it's "masculine" or "feminine" enough.1
Most Helpful Guy
I really don't feel comfortable expressing my feelings to other people. I hate when someone tries to help me out, I'd rather do things on my own. It's naturally my personality and of course I have some feminine traits like patience, empathic, thoughtful
It's insulting to call men like us as feminine because we still hold traditional ideas and it's nothing wrong with that.
Few months ago, I did cry so much as I place my head on my sister's lap. It's embarrassing and it's her first time seeing me cry but she was so caring and nurturing me even though she's 17! She really reminds me of my mother.0