Why are men afraid of strong and feminist women?

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CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Geez.. the shitstorm here..
If I didn't know better I'd think questions like these are trollings to trigger people.
But I also know it's not obvious.

This is my superbiased opinion..
Ofc I assume you mean, Not all men.
Surely there are a few men both taken and trying. Some of those are attractive physically/mentally and some are not so much, but still strong. So some seep through your life unnoticed.

Many weaker men that don't blindly hate (me included), might feel that someone that is strongly femenist may be too risky because it's usually harder to get away with mistakes.
Or maybe we decide that treating you like a potential friend and/or just never make a move is the best way (keeping the door open). Thinking that if you are interested you have just as much of a responsibility to make a move as we do but since we're fine being friends too it'll be up to you.

As for the flipside..

Feminism is broad and nuanced (like all views and ideologies), it's like I usually say.. "There's nothing wrong with feminism, it's always the extremism".
There are some points I do agree on, there are some I don't.
Unfortunately the loudest voices are the ones that stick and usualky they are seldom thought through. Because of this and also because of some disregard from parts of the science/statistics and some conspiracy tendences by some.. femenism is stigmatized.

It's easy to jump on the hate-train. Especially since many men also get targetet falsly for being clumbsy, inexperienced or misunderstood. Femenism get a lot of blame for many of these new trends and changes in how society works.

It's usually also associated with very leftist ideologies. Thet have their own stigmas and nuances.. they are also (in my opinion) the cause of a lot of havoc in society now-a-days. OFC.. not all.
Besides, everyone that disagrees are just letting it happen, we're all at fault.

Not to mention..
Internet and youtube-culture coupled with algorythms in social media and cookies tracking our preferences also skews the views of us all, feeding us the content most likely to confirm our own views.
This means if you have trouble on the dating-market as a man chances are you'll be clicking a lot of red-pill-videoes.

Then it's also the dating-apps adding to the problem. There are way less women on them than there are men and they promote massive biases and accessabilities.
This is where we have the 20/80 rule. Most men, even if they are hot and swiping right on 80-100% will only get a few matches per week. Out of which some never respond and some are bots/scammers.

Dating-apps are toxic to many men and makes us troubled.

I think it's very easy to end up on a hate-train making excuses when our lives suck and modern life is filled with instant-gratification and bad learning habits.

And finally, I think many vocal online people don't reflect the masses that are refraining to visit these types of forums like GAG.
I am saying it takes certain types of individuals to sit and argue in the comment-sections online. So the broader assumptions are skewed.

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

"Afraid" is not the word I would use. We just don't like a headache. Most men already deal with enough bullshit from the world at work or in school that they really don't have time to take immature behavior from a woman. That's what modern feminism is, immaturity and lack of awareness. What should I be forced to date someone I don't agree with and we clearly cannot see eye to eye on many issues?

Then they have the audacity to try and "change" men. Last time I checked, I don't tell girls not to have trains ran on them, I just avoid those girls. Wow, common sense right? Maybe you should use that more often.

I don't like feminism because men and women have different privileges and setbacks that they have to deal with because of their gender. Men are less agreeable, more assertive and dominant, so we are more qualified leaders, are taken more seriously and run society. On the flip side, nobody gives a damn about out emotions, we are more likely to be punished harsher for the same crime, and we really do not have a "plan B" approach for if we didn't make enough money like girls do when they sell their feet pics, so we are more likely to be homeless. Women are more protected physically and emotionally, are more likely to be given the benefit of the doubt, and are less likely to face severe punishment. However, they are less assertive and more agreeable, so they are less likely to have greater control over society.

These differences are natural, and exceptions do exist, but exceptions don't make rules. Now have you ever seen a man complaining about having to be a bread-winner? About having to fight for his country? About protecting his wife and kids from an intruder? Why do women then complain about the perks of being a man, but have nothing to say when the ball is in their court and the benefit is theirs? Also, why do "independent career women" require their spouse to make more money than them if they are independent? Men don't care about a woman's money, and a man with money has more options, so he doesn't want a controlling woman with attitude problems, when he got many others waiting for him that are more agreeable and ready to join his program.

You have to take the good with the bad. You get the kids after a divorce in 90% of cases and can get away with murder on some occasions, so I don't want to hear any complaints about "unequal treatment in the workplace".

SkyCastle90 · Accepted Answer

From what I've heard from some men, it's exhausting. At one point I even asked my fiancé what dating was like for him; he describe it as having to do a speech-check almost everyday and there's no peace.

Feminism should be about the belief in social, economic, and political equality of both genders; yet it devolved into misandry, aggressiveness, and a need to feel in control; this weird think and act like a man, #Ifiwereaboy. In a way, I feel it's necessary. Wait, what? Yup, think about. Yeah, it's annoying, but thanks to these extremist and misguiding women falling into that mindset, it's making dating extremely chaotic for men. They have to worry about #metoo allegations, alimony, child support, etc; it forces them to think more carefully about who to date/marry or appreciate the good woman they currently have (or once had).

Sadly, it's a double edge sword because you got men who get so angry they begin to hate women completely, or MGTOW; then you have the women who finally recover from their grind/etc and realize they're 36+ with no family to call their own and wondering why they can't find a good man.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

Well, the natural way is that men should be stronger than women in relationships... but nowadays girls are raised to be strong and boys are raised to be weak. There's not that many strong men anymore to be able to put a cheeky woman in her place even if that's secretely what she wants :P Instead they'll cry about feminists and be intimidated by them... don't get me wrong, I think feminists are just hurting themselves in the end. But then they're the ones who raise their sons to cry and teaching them that they're special just the way they are and promote mediocricity XD And men instead of being the powerful force of change in a society just spend their life moping around and complaining about anything and everything. It's just a messed up situation all around.

Lliam · Answer

Because 'some' women who describe themselves as strong feminists have chips on their shoulders. They have inferiority issues, which makes them bitter. They want to prove that they are stronger than, not equal to, men. They try to dominate and make men feel small. In many ways, they are trying copy what they 'think' is male behavior because that's what they think it takes to gain respect and succeed. In doing so, they lose their femininity.

I fully support equal opportunity for women. And I insist that they be treated with respect. I love confident, competent, plucky, motivated, hard working women who believe in themselves and who strive to achieve financial independence. I support sexual liberation for women. But having the ability to survive on their own doesn't have prevent them from celebrating their femininity or preclude their desire to bond with a man.

Women can be all the things I described and also be feminine. Smart women can get what they want without acting like men or walking around with bad attitudes and sticks up their asses.

It's not a matter of being afraid of feminists. It's matter of attraction. Odd as it may seem, men are attracted to femininity. They want a woman to look pretty; be soft, cuddly, and unaffected; do girly things like cry, giggle, smile, bounce on their tip toes when they are excited; put their little hand trustingly in his; press their body against his and lean her head against his shoulder; look up adoringly into his eyes; and feel safe and secure when she is with him. She will allow him to open doors and help her into their seat at a restaurant, even though she is perfectly capable of doing those things herself. It's the lady-gentleman game. She is graceful and demure, and enjoys being treated like a delicate flower. She appreciates his masculinity.

A couple should have mutual regard, respect and admiration for each other. They should be a team who work together, support and trust each other. They can't do that if one of them distrusts or resents the opposite gender.

Guys want a girl who is comfortable with her female body, is erogenous, loves to give blowjobs and get fucked silly by a man who makes her feel small and helpless. One doesn't get the feeling that "strong", militant feminists would ever submit themselves in such a way.

In the end, why would a man be attracted to such a woman or put up with her shit?

VanillaSalt · Answer

Did it ain’t that we’re afraid. It’s that we’re better off avoiding women like that. Feminism lol. What kinda man can’t get behind treating women like people? Their our mothers, sisters, nieces, aunts, grandmothers…

The problem I have with todays feminism is… it’s a lie. It’s not about equality it’s about women’s rights. If you take 4 ways men surpass women and 2 ways women surpass men a feminist will fight for women's equality in the 4 ways their less then men and ignore the other 2 ways their superior. That’s the difference between being equal and being only about women's rights. If you can name one thing feminists fought for and won for men they didn’t benefit from I’ll take back every work I typed…

I’m tired of women having every equality in existence and still expecting the luxury’s their afforded being women. If you ain’t watching the home rather then working you don’t deserve alimony. If a man gets arrested for hitting you then you should be arrested for hitting him. If men must register for the draft then so be it women can follow as well. We can die together! Too much equality?

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

This is a loaded question, and not even an original one.

For starters, what you define as a "strong feminist" woman is entirely subjective, and likely not a perception shared by the majority of men.

Secondly, you're framing the question as of men being "afraid" of *your* defined version of "strong feminist women" is already a foregone conclusion.

And thirdly, you're framing it as if "men" are a single homogenous group with this same so-called "fear" as a common denominator.

For these reasons I consider you're question to be entirely anti-intellectual in its construction, and sp ai won't engage it directly. Instead, why don't you re-clarify the precise nature of your contention, and express that contention in a way that's not so loaded? Ask an original question, coz every feminist thinks they're oh so strong and independent and that men are afraid of those qualities; yet in reality they're often the most fragile people who crumble emotionally when faced with any dissenting opinion. My nan was one of the strongest women I ever knew, and she'd be laughing right now if she saw the state of modern feminists.

MrOracle · Answer

Most men aren't afraid of them at all - just completely disinterested. They literally have nothing to offer a man but hassles and drama, something most men go out of their way to avoid.

If you want to be "strong and independent", great. But if you want to have a relationship with a man, you will have to compromise and sacrifice, just like men do, and since feminists refuse to do that, they can go be strong and independent alone.

The insane notion that women can abandon all compromise and responsibility and civility in the name of Feminism, but still enjoy the privileges and benefits of a traditional relationship is laughable. Men don't want relationships with such women - except for the weak, submissive feminist men, but we know damn well that you want nothing to do with those men anyway.

You were sold a package of lies, and by following them, you will end up alone. Sure, you can still get male attention as long as you are young and bangable, but once you hit your mid-30s, you will find that even that attention is drying up. I have a godmother and an aunt who are feminists, and they have both been alone (and miserable) for 40 years. No one enjoys their company. Both survive on the backs of their children, who they guilt and manipulate into supporting them, and would be homeless otherwise.

This generation of feminists have no children, so they will truly learn what it is to be alone...

TwinTonyz · Answer

Some earmarks for typically feminist women:
Men have privileges and women don't.
Men are a threat to women.
Women are brave, strong, and powerful.
Women are deserving of implicit trust.

There is a clear imbalance in how men and women are perceived by typical feminist agents. Dig deeper and it's easy to see why men tend to be disinterested in, and threatened by, feminism. Plainly, it offers them nothing but a harder time in life.

Women largely assume life as a man is a cake walk. Why? The only men visible to them are those useful for their ideology. By those terms, feminists tend to do next to nothing to improve men's situation. They see men as being needing to be fixed, not helped. On the other side, they use any means necessary to help women. What's the difference? Framing. Fixing a man means telling him how bad he is and threatening him with fiscal or social ruin if he doesn't change. Helping a woman means teaching her that anything bad she's doing is because of the male-gaze, gender roles imposed by men, systems built by men. This application of equality points to one sex for all their problems.

I am in a relationship with a woman who calls herself a feminist, but the more I've discussed the idea of feminism with her, the more her beliefs are waning. She was completely blind to the idea that men and women have benefits inherent to their roles in society. As much as she loves the idea of doing everything herself without my support, because women don't need men, she'd rather I don't just ignore her struggles the way her movement ignores mine. Supporting her when she needs it is just about the least feminist thing I do. To be a good feminist boyfriend, I really should neglect her more.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I’m not afraid of them I just find most of them annoying and toxic and am just mainly disinterested in them.

And before someone brings it up I do know the difference between what genuine feminism is and what most people who call themselves feminists are. The problem is that most people who identify as feminists are the latter and not the former.

also someone who constantly has tell the world that they’re strong and independent is neither. If your genuinely strong and independent people will see that through your actions and how you carry yourself as an individual. You don’t have to say a thing.

if you have to always explain and tell that to people it’s because your trying to reassure yourself that it’s true. Instead they just complain and make themselves out to be victims. Instead showing themselves for what they are weak victims.

If your not a victim don’t act like one and if you are one then stop bitching and become strong enough to not be one. It’s that simple.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Modern day feminism is an extreme ideology. I have gone to feminist protests and when I saw young women bashing men and booing men, I left. Since that day my mind was made up. Any girl reading this can dislike my comment. But girls/women if they have one bad experience it can change the outlook of their perspective as well.

I am not intimidated by a strong, independent woman. But just like how guys can be physically strong and have a cocky persona. Girls/women can be “strong” with life overall and have a bitchy/rude persona, and that’s something I won’t tolerate.

Someone can be mentally strong in life, hard working, or physically strong or all 3 of those traits. And still be nice, honest, calm and civil. I’m done following ideologies…capitalism, feminism, and other ism-based ideologies. Just because people think it’s 2022 and we need a billion ideologies of what defines this world. If we have evolved so much then why are more people miserable then ever before? Why are marriages and relationships something not seen with high regard, the list goes on.

Julie4 · Answer

Are you talking about "modern feminists?

I don't understand today's feminists. what is the end goal? Do they want equality or benefits for being just women.

Let's take an example of companies going to choose a woman for a position just because she is a woman, there is exactly the same thing with sexual minorities, ethnic minorities, etc. In this case the feminists did not obtain equality but a superiority just for being born a woman. If this is the society that feminists want, then they deserve nothing but contempt. It doesn't matter how much they will make it seem like their fight is right.

In the end, for me, such a society would be a regression for women. I prefer obtained a work or rewards compared to my qualities and not with my sex.

NovaCourier · Answer

It depends what kind of feminism you're talking about. Proper feminism = equality = good and I have nothing but respect for the overwhelming majority of women I know. Almost all of my classmates are female and they're all genuinely lovely people.

Now, there's that common saying that modern feminism is just man hating and is making women entitled and toxic. I do think that extreme feminism has increased, largely thanks to social media, but there is a caveat there. It usually works the other way around. Women who are already toxic people use feminism to disguise their entitlement as activism, and so justify their own behaviour to themselves. Young, impressionable women see this sort of thing and some may be subconsciously influenced by it. Meanwhile, young men see it and end up thinking that this is simply what feminism is, so they end up being fearful of women who seek or have power because they've learned to associate them toxic behaviour.

ering987 · Answer

I don't think they are afraid of feminists. I think maybe they hear feminist and that translates to drama and guys are simple. My boyfriend was called a male pig because he held a door for a woman he was verbally abused by her in public and all he did was shrug his shoulders and tell her he hopes her day gets better. I asked him "didn't that bother you? doesn't that make you feel bad?" He said "Nope, I held the door for the mom and her kid, the old couple, and the guy with the cake, It's not about anybody's personal crusade for whatever they believe in , it's just called being polite, The only way to equality is through ignorance, we must ignore color, sex, and looks and just be decent to each other and take each other for who we are. I do hope her day gets better but I think that me telling her that probably pissed her off more."

Oigit · Answer

A strong person does not need to show or tell people they are strong. That is something that some feminist women and alpha men don't understand. People who have to show or tell people who they are tend to do it to cover up character flaws or insecurities. Hoping that people will be so caught up with how strong they are they will not take a deeper look at them. So it's not that I'm afraid of them. I'm simply do not like to about people who can't take ownership of themselves. Because it means accepting their flaws.

TANMAN55555 · Answer

If im being honest
Guys collectively see these “strong women” as not being easy to talk to and often quick to jump to arguements.
I dont care if you believe in this or that
But if someone says “im a strong woman and a feminist and guys are afraid of me because of that”

Its a huge red flag that we generally have learned to stay away from these people because they often pull out disrespectful talk during disagreements. The view guys have is that these people are not very nice when you have differing opinions and they may also be controlling.
Men aren't afraid they just know that women that declair themselves these political identities are often people they want to be around. A lot of toxicity surrounding that phrase. Plus the ideal woman is one that is ambitious and tough
Its not being strong nor caring about ones rights thats the problem
Its the people that incorrectly define themselves as strong rather than being an asshole

globetrotter22 · Answer

Men are not “afraid” of strong and truly independent women. When I say “truly” independent i mean she didn’t take advantage of any special entitlement programs and/or hiring quotas that are available for women but not for men.

We actually respect and appreciate such women. It’s attractive. I have a former girlfriend who was like this and I loved her for it. I still miss her to this day.

However men are ANNOYED (not afraid) of women who take advantage of the victim card to get special societal leeway, leniency on being antagonistic/disrespectful towards other men/women and last but not least hypocrites for taking advantage of traditional male chivalry (accepting free meals, favors, friendzoning, etc) while still crying victim.

jabariw18 · Answer

I don't think men are "afraid" of them. It's just that they tend to make mountains out of molehills and have unrealistic expectations of what men can say/do without immediately being stamped with the "misogynistic womanizer" banner. It's kinda the same thing when dealing with LGBTQ community. I remember someone got offended when I said "A penis is a male organ." Claiming it was an overgeneralization. Feminists tend to do the same stuff. I remember a girl asked me to send her nudes and when I did and asked her to send some in return she refused and when I got upset about it, she thought that it's misogynistic of me to try to tell her what to do with her body.

LogicBomber · Answer

“Strong” women are very rare. It’s easy to claim you are strong in a society that caters to your every whine. Provides for and protects you. Removes all major obstacles from your path and assists you how ever it can to make your life easier.

Feminism is simply a hate group of misinformation and false victim narratives.
EVERYTHING claims exists can easily be proven false when you look outside it’s echo chamber.

So to answer your question;
Men are NOT afraid of strong women. They rarely exist. But when they do, no one has an issue with them. There is also a huge difference between entitled ignorant bitch and strong. Which many “strong women” think are the same.

Men are also not afraid of feminist. We simply see the parasitic nature of their actions (not their words) and know they are poison. So we avoid them.

lrina · Answer

ok you, or one of your alts or whoever else, made like 10 posts about this already. no one's afraid of them lmao, i think most people who just like them to shut the hell up.

BluishGaze · Answer

Feminism had a good run.

We either need to allow it to rest in peace, or someone has to reclaim it from the mainstream and restore it to its former glory. Even then, women today already have their rights, and they are prospering. At least in most places of the world. If feminism insist on existing, they ought to focus their attention on countries where women are still suffering sexism and quit trying so hard to keep the movement on life support by making it intersectional and throwing in the "wage gap" and the "pink tax."

And It's not that we're afraid of them, generally speaking. It's just that their idea of what a "strong woman" is... kind of hurts women.

jestergent · Answer

Afraid isn't the right word. Sounds.. feminist.

We just aren't into it. You need to be a desperate man to bypass the feminism filter and hookup with her. I'd say more along the lines of extreme feminism.

If your womans rights, that's okay. Might want to change feminism to womens rights supporter. (it just sounds better).

'Strong' /.. Independent woman.. because strong means attach the other two words even if you left it out..

What that means is you don't want to listen and be right 'all the time'.

whispering: its a big turn off.
hint: doesn't activate our turned on glands.

Dburns1268 · Answer

I'm a woman and TOTALLY disagree and preach against feminism. A woman has a place in the relationship... but she's not a servant. She's a team mate and should act as such. I've got a whole soapbox but won't get on it here!!!

TonyV · Answer

New age feminist aren't really feminist, they don't want equality, they want to be better and on too cause they hate men.
Literally everything a man does is an issue to them, hell we can't even sit down without them yelling patriarchy. They letter get mad that we "man spread " sorry sweety but men have balls and I'm not crushing them just so can see my knees touch.

SnakeBoop · Answer

meh, they're more afraid of the feminazis who give the movement a shit name. that and some are just over sexist pigs who can't handle a woman being able to say no to them.

jasco · Answer

I don't fear you, its just some of y'all remind me of dudes and I just don't feel comfortable around someone who acts more like a man than an actual woman. I am perfectly find if that someone has control of their aggressiveness and can use it to their advandtage but I don't want a man as a wife. Usually the ones who call themselves strong and independant are kinda bitchy. Why do you need to say it if you know its true. You don't need to prove it to anyone but your boss.

Wester1967 · Answer

They're not "afraid" , it's just not appealing. Most modern feminists have too much masculine energy. WAAAAY too much. Too much dik envy or worse. There's nothing to be afraid of, just not attracted. Unless she's a butch and might beat me up. Then maybe I'd be afraid.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

This stupid annoying question again?  We're not afraid of you. There's nothing "scary" about feminists. They're mostly self-obsessed, unintelligent, biased, sheepish, bull-headed, ignorant, and weak.

DermalPunch · Answer

I think they just find them annoying and a bit deluded.

DudeDiligence · Answer

It depends what you mean by "strong". Men are not scared of confident and capable women, but they don't like women with bad personalities and bad attitudes who have a chip on their shoulder and don't know how to or don't want to treat a man well. A lot of women seem to think that is being strong. It's not.

My girlfriend is a strong (in the true sense) woman and she can't stand feminists. Need I say more?

Manab · Answer

I like them but most of the time have bad experiences with them, so probably will try to avoid them from dating.
1. A proud feminist who sleeps around with many men but always blames men for failed relationships
2. I have met a proud feminist who posts strong independent stuff on Facebook but puts false rape cases against men..
3. Proud feminists who hate men and blame men for everything as one ex was bad to her. She was complaining to me how all men are pathetic and want the same. I didn't even have one relationship back then.
4. Proud feminist who thinks badly of women of color or with low income.
and more...
Actually, very few strong independent feminist women are genuine. Somehow older women use hose keywords more for their restrictive dating choices than before...

StuMan1990 · Answer

Because they feel intimated by strong and feminist women, but in all honesty I like such women, they bring out the best out of themselves and others, they're not afraid to speak against any stereotype men who try objectifying women, and they are pretty decent people.

My advice to people who find strong or feminist women intimidating, don't feel that way, they are still people and you can have a positive relationship with them if you work on it.

marish01 · Answer

Strong and feminist? Lol most feminists are weak, bitter and insecure bitches

Andres77 · Answer

Strong women? Not afraid at all. My mom , wife, daughters are strong women. I'm all for equality as well. If I love them why wouldn't I want the best for them? And that goes for any woman.

Femenists? Also, not afraid.
Do you mean the manhating militant bullies?
They're just clowns that feel entitled to more than they've a right to. Disgusting parasites. Just like long-term welfare leeches.

RealMarek · Answer

There is a difference between a strong woman and an ideological woman. I avoid women, whether or not they call themselves feminist, who have ideological beliefs motivated by resentment of men. I’m not afraid of them, I just want a healthy relationship.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would call it afraid guys just tend to avoid them because they make us feel that they need and want to have a man around them. So what´s the point of being in a relationship with a person that shows and tells you that she neither appreciates nor acknowledges what you do.

Kaamraj · Answer

I wouldn't say afraid, but avoid, then yes sure. What you claim as "strong" and "independent" are opposite of feminine, something which is innately desired by men. Secondly, the modern definition of "feminism" has little to do with the original feminist movement, which advocated the freedom of choice. The modern interpitation of feminism is something which is inherently against the best interests of men.

genericname85 · Answer

Again this same Frasing... Every time women use the word "afraid" in this context. Don't you think there's other reasons for not pursuing something in life other than being afraid of it?

Or is it that you are scared to find out that men just don't like boss ass women very much and you would prefer to be liked by men, so you basically project your emotional state on men?

Berethor · Answer

Because they consider her too masculine and/or because she prefer career over family.

MCheetah · Answer

That's like asking "Why are people afraid of dog sh*t and vomit on the streets?" You're a troll and this question has been asked before.

Petermorgan3434 · Answer

Afraid. No. Don't like yes, Men like to be gentlemen. Not yelled at for being a gentleman. There is a reason most men dont go for feminist women, Because lately it has gone farther than equal rights which are well deserved, and to the point where a man can't have chivalry without being shamed for it

alice55 · Answer

They're afraid of the headache they're going to get if they date them cause feminist spend their time arguing all the time.

supercutebutt · Answer

Because some are kinda scary looking.

NailPolishLover · Answer

Men don't like evil, because to christain men and women. Feminism is based off an evil woman named Jezabel. She was an evil woman who lived, and died as a spirit. This scaries many men away, from truly equality. As they don't want to become, Jezebel herself. I honestly can't blame them. I know there are women want equality and this is good for both men and women. I love doing some things that girls do.

David_Kek · Answer

Who said feminist women are strong? They're the mentally weakest and most paranoid women you'll find. The men which are afraid of feminists, are afraid of them because they're mentally unhinged women that hate and fear men for merely existing. Mentally unhinged people that are full of hate are dangerous.

Squaresquirrel · Answer

I'm a woman and I'm afraid of feminists. Why? Most of them I encountered were batshit crazy.

Exterminatore · Answer

It’s not a matter of fear it’s a matter of disdain. I don’t know any men who are afraid of 300 lb lesbian hogs. They’re easy to loose. If you walk more than 25 yards quickly they can’t catch you. Not being able to walk more than 25 yards quickly without hyperventilating doesn’t inspire fear.

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

As far as I can tell, they are not afraid. They are just not psychologically attracted.

lightbulb27 · Answer

there's something to being femine that feels good.

nothing wrong with strong and confident, nothing wrong with fighting for your rights and equal pay.
but there's got to be some roles to play, give and take. Without that... who are we?

ODC2112 · Answer

If women were tuly strong, they would not complain and would not constantly make victims. However some women think they are strong when they are actually assholes and act like assholes when assholes are men.

Feminism is a collectivized narcissistic movement that talks about equality when it wants domination, is made up of girls who have never grown up. If feminists were for equality they would be anti-sexist, but they are not. Thery are only sexist against males.

Guanfei · Answer

We're not afraid, only annoyed. Because they're gigantic bitches who live through their hate of men. All they do is complain, make up issues and blame it on men, and consider themselves superior.
Why would I like someone who openly shit in my face?

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Too much naging , judging and lots of drama.

Every move even which is not misogynist or something is still seen as crime unless the guys do as they are told to.

No freedom also don't want to hit my head to walls for the self conditioning people no use they chose there paths.

Strong women are very much respected and appreciated but not the women who think they themselves are strong but really are only arrogant and ignorant and think every guy is beneath them.

NamerOfStars · Answer

For the same reason they're afraid of KKK members. An organization openly expresses its hatred of you and desire to see you dead, if not kill you itself, and not only doesn't get social censure, but outright applause? You'd be afraid, too.

t-8900 · Answer

Feminists are a joke. They're not scary they are a political punching bag. Quick someone call Steven Crowder for another feminist change my mind. 🤡😂

TexasRed95 · Answer

I'm not. They are simply annoying and I don't like to be around them. They lack reason and the ability to discuss a topic logically. They also misinterpret opinions as facts. You have to be willing to listen and change your mind about opinions. And lastly there is no reason to harbor hate simply because someone thinks differently.

AydenHazor · Answer

I think most guys are afraid of losing the advantage they have from the patriarchal society we live in, which advantage they will proceed to deny whilst being paid more than their female colleagues with the same experience and getting away with sexually harassing whomever they want amongst other disgusting behavior they chalk up to being masculine.

zyxacb · Answer

Cuz they often ridicule men - "strong" itself implies force & my experience is many of these women aren't as eager to learn about disagreeable (to them) points of view as to lecture & use for to "correct" those they determine in error, exposing latent arrogance - not that this is every woman but, addressing your question, men are scared of the stereotype/common habits of strong feminist women.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

As you can see here people here confuse feminist with, putting it mildly, a horrible person who wants to chop our dicks off.

Any woman, feminist or not, that isn't submissive and doesn't need us for anything besides love care and companionship will be threatening to some men.

Now if you add feminist, their brain will go into overdrive because they confuse feminist with misandrist.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

My girlfriend is a strong girl. She has to deal with feminists harassing her non stop on facebook and in real life about being a homemaker to a man 16 years older than her. Smh.

Feminists aren't scary they just have no dating value, at all. They aren't good girlfriends or wives or mothers. I mean bang one for a one night stand if you must but they aren't good for anything else.

Hardman23 · Answer

Feminist women are intolerable to be around. Entitled, disagreeable, and constantly suffering from an inferior complex, only other feminists can stand them. Nobody's afraid of them. They're just really fucking annoying.

HighValue · Answer

Feminist women are the weakest women mentally. They can't handle actual "equality" and only want preferential treatment. They are also very sexist and dishonest. Nobody should want or respect any of them.

connemara_crocodile · Answer

Because (most of then) are so into their cause they will never be happy and will fight every single thing they can, even if it's not there. We're not afraid, we just don't want to lose our time.

Xhuy_006 · Answer

Not at all. Its just most females that label themselves as feminists are usually cringey af. Like yay good for you, its 2022 look no one gives a shit. Be happy, be healthy, just don't shove it down anyones throat, you're not a dick. Lol get it? :D

FreyaRed · Answer

Men love responsible and feminine women. Strong feminists don't really fit in this definition.

Why are men afraid of strong and feminist women?

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