I caught my crush checking out another girl while I was talking to him. Has he lost interest in me?

[Anonymous]

[TriTree]

I wouldn't think so. The mind wonders because there will be another that gives a sudden interest. There's too many people out here for that not to happen. The ones who truly like said person will realize what they have though and understand what has been built between the two. Why leave 5 star steak for cheap burger. Why have a nice great home built and then want to start building another from start and be there. Some would, secrets... trust issues will always be an issue until you're completely comfy with one another. If you're seriously bothered be sexy, erotic and make him remember why he's with you

[Fuentes]

We do that were still single so we still look around, if their is a good looking chick were gonna stare, now if u were dating itd be a diff story but no he is not loosing intrest

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[Fuentes]

Hmmm if you are bringing up other guys around him, and he's suppose to be your crush that you want well yeah your making him jealous wnd he will think your friend zoning him. And you like Mark.

[animus1988]

nah only an insecure guy would think that. a secure dude would see it as a challenge

[animus1988]

@Fuentes

[Fuentes]

@animus1988 a Simp would see it as a challenge a smart guy will ppay no games witj immature woman

[animus1988]

have fun dating men becuase every women worth pursuing gives chit tests to make sure she's dating a real dude. obviously im not saying to get all insecure right there. you shrug it off and then step up your game IF the girl is worth it. some girls are worth the challenge. im glad there's guys who are so insecure like you that they give up the instant a girl they like puts up any resistance. Just makes my job easier

[Fuentes]

@animus1988 lol clearly you get none bro i stay going through chicks so simp ass dudes like you can tell me how my dick taste later, if she ain't wit it, she get dropped haha u beta af

[animus1988]

"If she ain't wit it"

lmao you're a joke for more than a few reasons. ill say this, once you have the balls to actually put up a picture of yourself instead of some faggy anime come back and maybe ill read what you have to say.

[Fuentes]

@animus1988 anime wtf this isn't anime LOL u seen my last name a nigga a koo blaxican i dont gotta worry about girls my dude im sorry u do hahaha

[blutbeera]

You don't check out guys? I do. My boyfriend checks out other women. It might be a glance or a quick head turn. The point is, looking is a natural reaction for many. As long as it's not a drawn out disrespectful stare, don't worry about it.

But I am not getting enough information here. There could be a problem you're not mentioning or fail to recognize. Maybe he doesn't know you like him; maybe you're a bad conversationalist; maybe he's not into you... there are too many maybes. But checking out others does not necessarily equal doom to your potential relationship.

[Jaye234]

People look at other people. The only thing that stops that is by being dead.
He's rude for doing that but y'all aren't a couple and aren't married but even if y'all were he'll still look, but he'll be more discrete.

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[animus1988]

is your crush your "male friend" or the the guy who helped you on your hw?

[Asker]

Male friend.

Guy who helped me is an acquaintance

[animus1988]

you're 34 and still in school? lol wut

[Asker]

I'm not 34. Damn dude, judge much.

[animus1988]

my bad i was looking at the op of this question. you are still 25+ tho? lol sorry but its a little strange to be your age and still be in college thats all

[Jaye234]

Age doesn't matter for education.

[animus1988]

true. its just based on your question i thought u were in high school or middle school then i look up and see your age is 25-29 lol it was surprising thats all

[ciitruskiwi]

Has he said anything about liking you or being interested? If not then he can check out all the girls he pleases.

[Asker]

He's hinted a lot!

[RJGraveyTrain]

No. Noticing other attractive people is normal; though it is without tact to do it in front of a girl you like.

[J-Rock]

No, men cannot control the direction of where their guys go and even though you don't want to believe it, if a girl passes by with beautiful hair, nice breast, one of those adorable choke chains, a nice smile, cool freckles, or anything like that they will notice.

[naraku]

He is your crush so... to avoid this more maybe you should see about trying to make him more than just a crush.
Personally, I start looking away to other girls if I think I cannot THE girl.
So yeah try to see if he will go from your crush to your SO.

[Vampirelover_12]

If he's not looking at you, that means he's just gonna be a bop. Get a new wardrobe and work on getting rich. Men should know we like them pure, virginal, not fat, not a whore and a man who knows how to maintain a family.

[Justinaveragedude]

What where you talking about? Was she really hot? A lot of times guys will check out a girl, stare at boobs or buns and never realize they are doing it. It is not a conscious thing. We concsciously try not to. We still do.

[тЯsH_9669]

Men are like radar

Even if we fixed for a target we keep scanning the area

Or does he say something like "oh look at that hot girl there"

[Koyuki]

Show him you are interested and not just toying with him.

[SarahsSummer]

Did he HAVE interest in you? Why is he a crush and not a boyfriend?

[thisguy24]

Like you guys were talking face to face and he turned his head to check her out?

[Asker]

She walked in front of him

[thisguy24]

No he didn't lose interest in you. Guys just look. Women do the same thing. Your boyfriend just needs to hide it a little better.

[Asker]

Well he's not a boyfriend lol but I was thinking he liked me and that scared me

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[thisguy24]

Well there you go. If he is not your boyfriend and you guys are not committed then he can do what he wants. He could look, touch, anything

[Sam19XX]

Chill maybe he just thought she is attractive or something else.

[KaptainKronk]

Probably, he looked away from you while in conversation to check out another girl. I won't use the " oh he's just a guy excuse in this answer"

[Quintessence]

Why not? He's her crush, not her boyfriend. Therefore, he's not obligated to repress his attraction to other women, considering he may not even be aware of her interest in him. It also could have been one of those--admittedly misguided--attempts at testing his object of interest by instilling jealousy in them. Don't write the poor dude off yet.

[jacquesvol]

I looked at Porsche Panamera two days ago. Will I dump my Volkswagen?

[Fuct80]

He probably still has interest in you but if he ain't your boyfriend he has the right to check out whoever he wants

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[Fuct80]

Yes it was and for the record whenever a guy is nice to you, he's offering you dick

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Calm down. There are plenty of good looking women out here. He just was probably admiring her beauty.

[potentM]

No
He's keeping his options open as well as evoking your emotional desire for him

[burpzzzzz]

it's something new. Just like women like to go on vacation for see new things.

[TheUglyMonk]

Depends, are you close friends? Does he have a crush on you and how do you know he does?

[byusuri]

Checking out a girl doesn't mean anything. Guys can find more than one girl attractive.

[chandanmo]

No he hasn't... It's bit complex
Guys tends to gaze on every one in their way

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[chandanmo]

From the dialogue
It seems he is getting a little jealous and insecure

He wants to safeguard u

[Anonymous]

No he has not but since you are not his girlfriend you can't do anything.

[Anonymous]

I do this all the times with girls it's what we as guys are taught never just have one option especially if that one option disappoints you

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[Opinion Owner]

No he was just telling you how he thought a girl was hot

[Asker]

So that's him friend zoning me

[Opinion Owner]

I tell girls all the time when I think a girl is hot

[reptocarl]

At the minimum he's an insensitive jerk

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[reptocarl]

No but he is telling the truth

[mooky06]

Do you know if the feelings are mutual? On his end

[pakistaniguy]

No. He is just being a man.

[Uncut]

Most likely has. Time to move on

[Ari03]

Nope. All guys do it.

[Anonymous]

I did that intentionally to my crush once. So, no

[Anonymous]

He's looking at other women.. he's not dead

[Anonymous]

I do this to pretty much every girl don't feel bad

[disgustingweebtrash]

No..

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[Amchak]

Nope..

[Asker]

This happened yesterday:

I was telling my male friend about how I loved this guy in my class because he helped me big time in class. Here is the convo:

Me- omg I love mark. He spent all night helping me with accounting

Him- He's hitting on you

Me- nooooo he's being nice

Him- that's how I'd play it too -----have I told you about this girl I keep seeing around who is hot?

Was that him being jealous?

[Amchak]

It's just a way to keep you busy..😀😀😀