Has my crush lost interest?

[Anonymous]

So we were texting everyday consistently before, but now that we told each other our feelings he kinda stopped 🥲 ( feeling is mutual)
I know life gets busy but what's your opinion on this guys?
We also have a date setup for the weekend but no messages as too what we are doing etc, he did say he was nervous and that he hasn't done this in awhile so he's scared, but I am too! Do I bring it up? Or just give up 😔

[Anonymous]

The issue with modern dating is that it's been made cheap and pointless due to the causal nature of everything. What exactly are you dating for? what are you looking for? Is it just a thrill? After all of the spending time together, you will probably sleep with him... then he will become distant... you will feel like you've been used for sex, and he will try to comfort you. The reason, there is no direction and most of you are just going through the motions. You said 'I kinda wanna see where this goes'

I can already tell you where this is going to go. Dating has lost it's purpose. The guy will stop communicating up until the date because he fears being found boring during the date. You worry it means he's not interested despite knowing this...

[Sam_The_Savage]

Darling it's all about priorities...
No one is busy...

[Asker]

Yeah ik 😕

[Sam_The_Savage]

Baby are you ok? You sad?

[Asker]

Umm sorry pls don't call me baby, and I'm not sad just disappointed I guess, I read on here another girl had the same problem, they had plans for a date and he stopped texting her as well until the day of the Date , a guy explained that he would do that too so they have something to talk about when the date comes around 😕 so I don't know if I should bring it up or just wait and see

[Asker]

Also not same guy lol but same situation

[Sam_The_Savage]

I think you girls should don't trade self-respect just for a dick. . don't be a someone back up plan.

I'm sorry if my words hurt you. ✌️

[Asker]

Like I get what you're trying to say! But I usually would be like okay I'm over it w. e. bye , but I kinda wanna see where this goes, but yeah ima just not message them and if they actually do remember the date we had plan and such and they message me ima bring it up to them, that way I give them my thoughts about how I felt before I decide to cut it off

[Sam_The_Savage]

You have heart of gold 😘😘

If I were at your situation I already block her n find new one.

[Asker]

Lol I don't know about that I'm usually called an ice queen by guys 😅

Damn you would block them? Why?

[Sam_The_Savage]

I would love to spend time with you in pm... you're true gem 😘

[Asker]

Sorry I don't use this except for advice but thanks !!