Do romantic thoughts or sexual thoughts go through that a guy's head when he always stares at a girl?

[Anonymous]

So if you stare at a girl pretty hard all the time and eye lock here and there, what goes through your heads?

Obviously you find the girl cute / pretty but do you think of romantic thoughts or dirty thoughts or just no thoughts?

Give me your experiences and opinions?

[GingerGuy]

Not really either. Like you would probably, we're trying to gauge your interest or wondering if you're single etc. Or maybe how to approach. Unless we just think you're hot, then we might just be taking in the view ;) We're visual.

[Asker]

So you're saying a guy constantly staring and eyelocking means he's interested. The block look right onto my eye for a good 15+ seconds... and he would stare hard and long

[Anon-ymous1]

Only if she's pretty. Then yeah, basically every time. We also imagine general romantic ones, like laughing together or holding hands or just kissing, but then we also immediately imagine her on her knees in front of us.

[Asker]

As they were saying all leads to the same road!

[Anon-ymous1]

Maybe I'm overgeneralizing; we don't think about all that stuff literally EVERY SINGLE TIME but yeah, we usually do, especially if it's a girl we've noticed a lot in the same space as us, like at a cafe or something.

[Asker]

I just wonder like at uni or work, how do you guys not get boners if you're sitting their in the office or at a lecture thinking these things. Great job guys for self control with mini- you

[Asker]

There *

[Anon-ymous1]

Well, actually, sometimes we do get a boner from thinking about her. Just not always.

[Asker]

Really! Damn. That must be hard though. If you're at work or uni that would be hardddddd

[Maryam1333]

Romantic thoughts or sexual thoughts? Well, they're the same for a guy dear.

[Asker]

Romantic as in doing cute shit together like dating and watching movies etc. how can that be the same as fucking? 🤔

[twizzy4life]

Every road leads to the same destination my dear... don't be so naive.

[Maryam1333]

For more than 90% of guys doing those cute shits is the road to fuck... I wish I could give you some hopeful-romantic answers, but my 16 years of experience tells me the opposite.

[twizzy4life]

All roads lead to the same destination. Don't be so naive.

[twizzy4life]

It's all a matter of perspective. Either you can be more open to change and the ebb and flow of life or you can keep trying to swim upstream and get nowhere. Don't blame others for the choices you make and the way you live your life...

[Maryam1333]

No one's blaming anyone. Just describing the situation to help her decide.

[twizzy4life]

You're absolutely right.

[Asker]

@twizzy4life @maryam1333 Oh wow!! Okay! So they go from thinking about cute shit towards sex, all the time? Okay! Wow. I knew guys thought about sex a lot of the time but I don't know I thought if hey had respect for a girl it'll be more romantic than sexual but I guess you guys are saying even if he has romantic thoughts it'll most likely lead to sexual. I wear like baggy clothes because I'm a comfort clothing kind of girl, so there's not much curves to see. But this guy stares long and hard

[twizzy4life]

Guys are always thinking about sex because we want to have what everyone wants... a family, to feel loved and appreciated, to feel needed. Nah it's not ALWAYS sexual... but it's always about sex.

[Asker]

@twizzy4life your last line confused me AF! 😂 Not always sexual but always about sex , right!! HAHAHAH. Okay. ILL just take it that if a guy likes how a girl looks there's no doubt sexual thoughts would've creeped up

[twizzy4life]

Always remember: everything is reciprocated. So he likes you because of those sexual thoughts and you dislike him for the same exact thoughts ;) emotions are absolutely piintless... consider the thought instead.

[Asker]

@twizzy4life I don't dislike him for it. I guess it's natural. It's immature to hate someone because if it. Like if I was honest I've had both thoughts. But in the moment of staring at him, I would just be thinking "God you're beautiful" "like I just want to kiss you" "please don't stop smiling" "oh god he's staring and he won't stop I don't know who'll break eye contact first". When alone a lot the time I think about making love to him or fucking him sensless ✌🏻

[twizzy4life]

Then the thoughts are reciprocated, such is the nature of metaphysics. I often wonder if two people really do share the same thoughts and ideas at the same exact time... one will never know I suppose... It's all theory. Like the theory of gravity, but here we are... unable to float away, our atoms held together by theoretical concepts ;)

[Anon-ymous1]

I mean, you're not wrong, but your speak of it in such a disdainful fashion... Does it bother you that it's that way? Do you not want the sexual stuff? Personally?

[Asker]

@twizzy4life hahaha I wonder ! That would be creepy! Hopefully they never find any evidence for that. YEah I am a hopeless romantic so I would think a lot about cute shit that we could do together (70%) of the time. Then you have the 30% where his wishes are my command and it's just... wild.

[twizzy4life]

It's gravity ;)

[twizzy4life]

Love and hate, push and pull, up and down, too and fro. That's what makes the world go round...

[Asker]

@twizzy4life Deep and hard - making him forget my name. Goals 😏😏

[twizzy4life]

Now you're getting it.

[Asker]

@twizzy4life oh yeah! Thanks for making me long for it now

[twizzy4life]

Any time ;)

[Mitch6192]

Sexual, but sometimes (If a girl is really hot, with nice eyes) It's almost like looking at art.

Usually it's sexual, though. Like if a girl bends over in leggings or whatever, I think about what her ass and vag looks like, from the bent over angle haha ;p

[Asker]

What if she's not wearing tight clothes? 😂

[Asker]

Or short hahah what then? 😂

[Mitch6192]

Just look at the ass in the pants haha ;)
The main thing always catches my eye is the eyes, though. I like green eyes.

[Asker]

But eyes make you mesmeised not horny right?

[Mitch6192]

Ye. If she's got nice lips, I imagine what a blowjob would feel like from her.

[justsayDrPhil]

I think of the things I want to say to her and what we could do together and just like looking at the beauty of some but doesn't mean my thoughts go straight to sex

[FemWorship]

It's possible to have aesthetic thoughts coincide with all the other thoughts you have imagined & listed
staring can be a prelude to fights or aggression/passion/emotions
also signs a mind has been blown

[thknlong]

"Wow I so wanna do her"... And if its somewhere at work end up sitting close to the desk hiding boner.. Lol

[Asker]

You're probs starting to think hard about work to get rid of the boner so no one notices 😂

[thknlong]

Damn.. You noticed it already? Hope you are not the one I am starring at the moment.. :D

[Asker]

Hahahahha!

[philipph]

Not necessarily with me. I can just look at a beautiful girl like I look after a beautiful flower.
I also look at girls when I am horny😇
And at other times I am simply looking who looks really nice, so that I may possibly approach to date her 😅

[twizzy4life]

Lots of things... you'll never know until you ask him.

[Asker]

What kind of thoughts do guys usually have? This is generally speaking, if you like her / find her pretty?

[twizzy4life]

It depends on who you ask... personally it depends on who I'm looking at or talking to... If you find guys are staring at you figure out why so you don't have this uncomfortable insecure feeling anymore... Try talking to them.

[Asker]

I was trying to say like in the moment if him staring is it is just like "wow she's beautiful " or "wow I'd like to do her"?

[AlphaStyles]

Yes it does
If I find s girl pretty and sexy thought goes through my head including sexual thoughts

[Asker]

Romantic thoughts? Or cute thoughts? And if so like what?

[AlphaStyles]

Yes like holding hand, cuddling, holding her from behind, singing for her, touching her face and so on with kisses
Both romantic and cute thoughts

[Asker]

based on all other answers seems like guys go from thinking about holding hands/ cuddles / hugs to sex in the same thought. How do you guys control getting boners if you're in public and having these thoughts 🤔

[AlphaStyles]

Just try to stay away

[Anonymous]

No not always sometimes sometimes it's just an empty mind

[Anonymous]

usually how she would be in bed to be honest and what she looks like underneath her clothing

[zombiebabe]

i think its mostly dirty thoughts

[imprince]

I just admire her eyes. no thoughts

[Asker]

Coool that's cute !!!

[Insanyx12]

No I think about protecting her or comforting her

[chai2]

Depends on our mood, place, & a girl

[Asker]

Pretty girl, work and okay mood?

[chai2]

Then yes, sexual. I'll proceed & ask for hookup directly.

[Asker]

Oh wow look at you it wasting time hahaha

[Asker]

Not **

[chai2]

Yeah, can we've a private chat?

[chai2]

It's your wish, nothing compelling.

[Asker]

it's okay hook up guy, I'll leave it here 😏😏 but thanks for the invite ✌🏻

[chai2]

Haha, what's up buddy?

[soufianedrfish]

If u are that sexy to turn me on without...

[billmymane]

That's called lust.

[CT_CD]

Sexual

[Asker]

Examples?

[Skandhan]

I do

[Dantheman101]

Naughty thought

[Asker]

Wow. Okay no romance in your head what so ever?

[Dantheman101]

Nope

[Asker]

Good to know! 😂

[Dantheman101]

Haha

[weaverman]

sexy thoughts