Guys, where do you draw the line between average, curvy, chubby and fat?

[Anonymous]

Is a little belly and a round ass already enough to be called chubby? My boyfriend always says that he's into "chubby girls like me" while another friend said that he can hardly see anything chubby about my figure. Now I'm a bit insecure about the actual meaning of this terms 🤔

[Eagle1kenobi]

There was a time I would have said I didn't draw a line, and would be being honest. After several life experiences (and relationships) however, I have to say I draw the line at fat.

There are some primary reasons for this. Some common traits that I've noticed with women at that point are: Jealous, possessive, insecure (both admitted and not), and emotionally manipulative.

I don't think what you describe is enough to be called chubby.. frankly.. but that's just me.

[Anon-ymous1]

Depends. No way to know without seeing you. If your boyfriend is saying that, then he means it, and he also means you're definitely chubby but that he likes that. If you're okay with that, then okay, but if you want to lose weight, lose weight.

[Asker]

Well, I'm 177cm and 68kg, do you think that I should lose weight 🤔

[Anon-ymous1]

Depends. Do YOU think you should lose weight, or want to?

[Asker]

Not really...

[Miristheiss]

I answered above regarding the curvy shape with taught skin vs. rolls and lots of cellulite.

In the US that is 5'8" and about and 150 lbs. That sounds very healthy.

[Anon-ymous1]

@Miristheiss Okay, well the reason I was asking is you won't be motivated to lose anything if you yourself don't actually care about doing so, regardless of how your boyfriend feels. Your height/weight ratio suggest that you are chubby, but if you're okay with that then I guess you're okay with that.

[Asker]

So 21.7 bmi points is chubby in your opinion? o. O

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah of course. Most people would consider it to be.

[Asker]

Okay... and what would be "non-chubby" then? Anorexic bmi 17?

[Anon-ymous1]

A BMI of seventeen is not even close to anorexic. Like, not at all even a little bit even close. If that's really what you think, you may not know much about anorexia.

[Miristheiss]

I'm not the person you are discussing this with but I have no idea what 21% looks like. I Googled 21% bmi and saw lots of charts showing some body types of women with various bmi numbers. The body types around 20-25 looked amazing and were not overweight looking at all.

[Asker]

@Miristheiss I'm not talking about fat percentage... o_o do you guys know what a body mass index is?

[Asker]

Anorexia nervosa is diagnosed by a bmi under 17.5 by the way so bmi 17 would infact be anorexic.

[Asker]

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/anorexia/diagnosis/

[Miristheiss]

21 bmi is what I Googled.

[Zendrya]

chubby is when you have a little extra fat. You aren't lean. You can grab some tummy fat. For instance I think I'm a little chubby because I can grab myself and I have big thighs but I'm still a size small. I'm just not lean.

[Asker]

I see :) thank you. The thing is just if you search for "chubby girls" on Google there are only overweight/obese ones 😂
But Yes, by your definition I'm chubby for sure (even if my thighs aren't really big)

[Zendrya]

I think everyone sees is a little different. I definitely don't think it means overweight or obese.

[CuriousOrator]

Chubby is beautiful if you ask me.

I think the skinny women that have the strange looking... I don't know how to describe it... Bands on their sternum between their breast is just ugly. They look like they have been living in a death camp being starved

[TacosRAwesome]

Average - you're average. No one will call you skinny. And no one will call you fat
Curvy - the va va vvooom shape.
Chubby - fat in a cute way.
Fat - well fat, weights too much than they should.

[Miristheiss]

Hard to explain, I just know how I feel when I see it.

Thick and curvy is usually a woman with thicker proportions but the skin is still tight/taught and there are no visible collection of fatty rolls or too much cellulite.

Once there are actually fatty areas, rolls in the stomach and such, lots of cellulite on the thighs/butt I'd say it was no longer curvy.

[CuriousOrator]

I think chubby is good because skinny does not feel good when you touch a skinny body. Women are supposed to soft, have more fat cells then men. And if they are skinny, they probably have little or no breasts and a small ass. Not my type.

Just be happy with your body and not with someone else's opinion of what your body should look like

[C2000]

Would have to see your body to know for sure. Generally though , if you have any rolls in your belly that are thick then your probably chunky, if you dont have rolls but are above say a size 4 then your most likely thick. And at size 6 or higher you a most likely heavy.

Again this is all assuming and guessing. No way to judge unless see your body.

[Ezpzlmnsqiz]

It doesn't really matter but the girls have to look at their bodies and train there are a lot of "chubby" girls who just doesn't train and complain about their bodies but if u ask me i think girls should train not to get buff but still to keep their bodies nice

[Wolframium]

I hate words like “curvy” and “chubby”. No. It’s just nice word for certain reality, which people don’t like. Fat, that’s it.
Besides, it is individual.

[Tony_1693]

Well, curvy has nothing to do with bodyfat percentage and everything to do with bone structure. Not related.

[Asker]

And what about the other terms?

[Tyberius]

Average: slight inward curve at waist
Curvy: "hourglass"
Chubby: no curve at waist
Fat: outward curve at waist

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Average- what most normal chicks look like
Curvy- got a tursel (however you spell it)
Chubby- at 1 sandwich too many
Fat- ate 5 fried chicken wings too many

[Browneye57]

None of those women are FAT. I think you know the difference.

If you are fat then eat less, or better, and move more. It's really not that complicated.

[Anonymous]

Average is average, a normal almost flat belly. Pudgy is just a little extra fat belly that maybe hang over 1 CM or two. Chubby is the biggest category, it starts to be chubby when you can grab a significant amount of belly fat but it is sexy. Fat is when the fat is not just stored in the belly but it starts going into your arms and legs, and it starts seeing grose. You can weight 230 pounds/100 kg but if your fat is in a big round belly I still find it atractive and sexy.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I just let her decide unless she's superiorly obese. If she wants to be chubby, then be chubby, if she wants to be BBW, do that, the odds that there is a real physiological difference are zero.

[Asker]

I always thought I'd be average... I'm not overweight or anything I just do not have a perfectly flat belly.

[Opinion Owner]

Well that's the thing about the whole situation not having a physiological basis; the fact of the matter is your not having a flat belly and perhaps your breast size could be considered "chubby" by mere size of fat deposited across the body in such concentrations! In other words you and person Y weigh the same but have different distributions; Y is some other descriptor than you simply based on that alone. It is worthless to worry over.

Not that I can't see why you would.

[realworld2017]

I guess belly and cellulite on thighs. If girls are lucky the fat will go to their boobs not stomach. Just like some guys have big arms naturally. Russian women tend to have big boobs and small waist.

[Gedadia]

You are what you are,, are far as body size you can alter the person inside is totally different...

[silvabak]

You sound curvy I think but hard to say without seeing what u look like

[MrHungwell]

Definatley gotta have a nice thigh gap. If they rub... to fat.

[Twinkles88]

Dude I squat a lot. My quads are developed due to this. No thigh gap here, I have an hourglass shape and I am a UK size 10. Definitely not overweight and even confident men stammer when they talk to me. Perhaps you should educate yourself.

[CarpetDenim]

Lmao you want someone u healthily skinny then. I'm thin as hell and according to my BMI I'm actually underweight, but my thighs still touch.

[CarpetDenim]

unhealthily*

[MrHungwell]

That's gross. But just my opinion.

[CarpetDenim]

Thanks lol

[itsjoshua]

I don't know size isn't an issue as long as she's happy whatever size who are we to change that person

[Douglas69meat]

No love big girls i tear them up. they love this phat cock

[Anonymous]

Guys draw the line right underneath your belly button!!

[StanleighK]

Chubby is a good thing!

[Asker]

But if you search for chubby girls on Google there are only obese ones... I do not look like that... and my boyfriend calling me chubby makes me a bit insecure that he might think that I'm fat (I'm not overweight, 177cm, 67-68kg)

[zagor]

Post a pic and we'll decide.

[LastNightmare]

I love HER.. she can be anyone

[BMWE92M3]

I don't know what u look like

[pleasureisbless]

Dm me a photo?