because since they said they love you, theyll be able to have sex you at anytime because, really or sarcastically, 'i love you, baby'!
old trick in da book
once you or the guy realize the love is bull or it gets boring, THEN the break-up happens. sometimes they still say 'i still love you', but that's to see if the guy still has the girl sprung on them at least a bit. if you're still sprung a bit or more, then the process may recycle once or twice, then he will put the icing on the cake by just destroying the relationship period.
OR
you say you fell out of love with them and we can be friends or not. with this, its bad enough you pushed him in the friend zone but he also knows that getting sum from you will happen a couple times, (because sex is just sex mostly) or won't happen at all. he will also try to get rid of you because he knows 'aint nothin happening here with her'. so they move on to the next girl.
the phrase 'i love you' is mostly horse-hockey if said before the age of 23. 13-23 is our insanity years.
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So your saying you've been out with a few guys and they keep saying they love you, then when you get back together they treat you like trash..
I suggest you get your act together. You sounds like your such a easy girl, I better be careful about what I say in this.
You know there's the thing called the dating game where a desperate guy chases a HOT looking girl and she acts hard to get. I think your being the guy.
In other words your not being desirable to us GUYS, God I hate easy women..
You let guys in easy and let them run the show. You let them treat you like trash and your on here looking for why. Well here's your answer.. the problem is your low self esteem.
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Because they never loved you for real.
Easy to say but hard to mean.
When someone loves you for real he/she will never insult you,never disrespect you wateva you did to her/him,always tries to make you happy or be happy for you.
But unfortunately some guys "not all of them" don't know how to love they only know how to fk bodies.
When some guys "Not all of them" say "i love you" to you,they meant "i love your butt and hell yea I want to f*** it.
After a break up " I still love you" Meant " I still want to f*** that butt.
That's the truth.
But don't take it on all of them,just the 1 who treat you like a piece of sh**.
some guys don't mean it when they say they love you. a lotta guys know that the best way to get a girl to be vulnerable and do what they want, is to make them believe they love you. after they get tired of you and bored then they start treating you like trash because they never cared in the first place. I'm sorry to say this but the majority of guys who you will run into that tell you they love you most likely don't mean it. that's why you have to guard your heart and be cautious because there are a lot of unsavory guys who have no conscience when it comes to treating girls like this.
met this guy just overe a week ago- see I've been single for over 7 months now and meeting someone just gives you hope that maybe "he" does exist somewhere. turns out he has a girlfriend and expecting a baby soon. now when i call he pretends its work calling- that way i know the lady is around. never want to experience that ever again! feel so unwanted.
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Guys don't mean they love you if they say it too early, they don't really understand what loving someone is.
- The same thing happened to me.
I was confused too. My boyfriend told me ( ex at the time ) that he was just following after the
"crowd".
I think some guys are just, stupid and just use the word "love" to get what they want.Is it possible that you may be playing a little TOO easy to get?
That's happened to me at least three times, and I'm thinking it's because I played too easy.maybe he is hurt after the breakup that's why he is like that
Honestly, because that's the only way you respond well. If they adored you, you'd leave them. It's a fact.
they're scared.
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