Why do guys call average or skinny girls fat?

[michellebeyonce]

i am a size 7. I consider that average sized. and it's mostly because I have wide hips. I have a little flab but I'm not fat. my sister is a size 4. she is skinny and deff not fat. but guys have called both me and her fat. the other day we were walking down the street. both wearing a tank top, shorts, and flip-flops. some guys started honking their horn and called us fat bitches out the window. wtf? I also get teased at school and she used to get teased when she was in high school. there are lots of girls who are bigger than us so why are we singled out as fat?

[Anonymous]

Young guys are stupid. You do not want any of those guys, so just ignore them. They are mean because they probably have small penises. You can be sexy and hot as hell no matter how big you are. Size 7 is a very good size and you are so average compared to all Americans. Maybe even on the smaller side. Next time someone calls you fat tell them they have a small d***. If they say they don't tell them to prove it. They won't and you will win. If they decide to prove it, than when they pull it out start laughing and saying stuff like you could not satisfy an ant with that little old thing. I was pretty shallow when I was young and I figured out a lot of stuff over the years.

[anynymoooooose]

I have no idea. Here's the thing, the world is populated by dumb asses. They are more likely to get pregnant, and equally likely to f*** up a child's up-bringing. If you are not fat, and some guys holler that sh*t out a window, then to hell with them.

I don't know if this is appropriate, but if we're taking crass statements as legit, then I think you're totally doable, even very pretty :) A little young... though.

Btw I found this link for size 7. If that's what you look like, those guys are stupid for insulting you, they should have tried to say something nice instead.

[michellebeyonce]

My thighs aren't that big but pretty good representation

[Anonymous]

i think they were just saying that to be mean, not that they really thought you were fat. don't take their stupidity to heart, at your size you look great and deserve to feel wonderful

[Anonymous]

seriously I wouldn't be suprised if they yelled that JUST to be d***s knowing that girls are all sensitive about that sh*t or they could have just been talking out their ass not having any idea that youd take it seriously. Got a little story lol I have a cousin that lives with me she's 17 now but a couple years ago I used to always call her fat and not to be weird but my cousin is pretty and not fat at all I'm actually pretty fat and always joking so I had no idea id been f***in up her self esteem for like 2 years lol its messed up but eventually she told me it hurt her feelings so I stopped but if you kno your not fat f*** what people say you are what you are no matter what somebody calls you

[currannaaach]

ok, so, this is just my opinion, but also how my friends operate.

a little flab is definitely fat.

we like thin and fit girls.

words like chubby, thick, curvy, and healthy (cuz you know that if someone is saying healthy or curvy they're saying thick but in a nice way) are definite turn offs.

[michellebeyonce]

So this is fat? https://s988.photobucket.com/albums/af5/superXXXmodel/?action=view¤t=l_00f8189486b34619880682ed55a77164.jpg

and this? https://s988.photobucket.com/albums/af5/superXXXmodel/?action=view¤t=38738_1552144966436_1319504001_31472711_6991276_n.jpg

[currannaaach]

I can't tell with the top one, but the bottom one is called skinnyfat. That's where the limbs are normal, but there is bellyfat. That is completely due to a lack of working out, so to my friends and me, that's a big turnoff.

[michellebeyonce]

Except she meets with a personal trainer 5 times a week

[michellebeyonce]

Also, don't talk the talk if you can't walk the walk. I just looked at your pictures and you look absolutely disgusting! if you expect a girl to have the perfect body then you should too, and your body is such a turn off.

[currannaaach]

Meeting with a personal trainer doesn't mean you work out properly.

I have a body like that because I have to cut weight each week for my sport.

I'm not expecting a girl to have a perfect body. What people call too skinny, I call good. It's just a perspective shift. And I'm fine with the fact that you think my body is disgusting, I can accept that as a valid opinion.

[currannaaach]

I trained with a few girls who had a little flab; after several weeks, it was almost all gone, and they arms and legs had gotten stronger and it showed. Everybody has their own opinion, their own perceptions of beauty...to be cliche: "beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

I don't know why you're taking your anger out on me when I'm just providing another viewpoint.

Other people clearly don't think that you're fat, so why not just go with their opinions?

[JustMoi]

wow being curvy is a turn off? you probably one of those nasty guys who like my kind of body. no boobs, no butt. weight 86 pounds and am 5'1. I think curvy means boobs, ass, and hips. but oh god nope that's gross and fat to you! go date a 12 year old or an anorexic woman if you hate women with curves so much.

[lonelysadguy]

cause some jackass guys get girls attention that way I think...i won't do that though..i don't bother girls cause they don't want me... and there's nothing wrong with your body... the people in school tease you about your good looks cause there jealous of you

[Anonymous]

Thats because girls are expected to be like 5'6" 110lbs and size 2 and pack a C cup. Pathetic and sad? Yes. Everyone care so much about looks and has become so picky that there is a crazy amount of single people in the world because everyone is just too damn picky. I think you look fine. High school guys will say things to get your attention, I wouldn't worry too much.

[Bizzaro_Elmo]

They are probably just rich-bi!%$ch marks who have seen nothing but the women their fathers pay for to come to their monthly men's club "card games."

[Anonymous]

maybe fat is being mistaken for phat. Or fat is the new insult even if you aren't fat, what next insult fat people by calling them skinny bitches...

[snackeyg]

Because they have extreme standards. Which is really retarded.

[Desires]

I don't know but I'd probably do you

[michellebeyonce]

Only a probably? ha ha jk