Will he eventually unblock my number?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend isn’t talking to me. He blocked my phone number without an explanation because I texted him telling him I am mad because he lied to me. Will he ever unblock me?

[Kitk888]

If you already told him you didn’t want anything to do with him, what did you expect? Mean what you say, and say what you mean. Sounds like you’re both pretty immature. Not to mention if he’s out with his ex, it’s not a great sign anyways. Whether it’s harmless or not, I’m sure she’s not out of your life if you’re going to be together, it’s not that simple.

[NoOne_Special]

How many days has it been since he blocked you?
He is probably just annoyed and needs some space try calling him on a private number and see if he answers and then try to talk to him if he does

[Asker]

It’s been almost 2 weeks. I thought that too. I was mad and said that I instantly don’t want to do anything with him ever again. I was mad and hurt. When I texted to explain I realized he blocked me.

[Asker]

He’s not an open book and doesn’t like to express feelings. It sucks

[Big_Tasty]

If you can't talk to your boyfriend without your phone then you guys probably shouldn't be together... not to hurt your feelings. But seriously.

[Asker]

I can’t go to his house because we work opposite hours

[Big_Tasty]

Then is there a time when he isn't working?

[Asker]

Yes but we both have kids so we are always busy

[Big_Tasty]

Then you should probably break up with him. Why stay with him if you work opposite hours and you can never talk to him because you have kids? Either you need make time to spend with him or just break up because everything you say doesn't make any sense...

[donnny2367764]

Yes.. but why would you be with a dude with bratty behavior... call me instead.. I can be of better use!!!

[Asker]

True! He’s not much of a man if he can’t even express his feelings at his age!!

[Presidentt]

Have you tried to apologize? And maybe beg for forgiveness?

[Asker]

How? He blocked me so I can’t

[MiamiMadness]

What did he lie about?

[Asker]

he said he wasn’t with his wife which I know is true because we have mutual friends. I ended up seeing them together and texted him telling him he’s a liar. Sounds stupid but it’s really complicated.

[MiamiMadness]

Under these circumstances, I would honestly think it's better you move on. This sounds like you're setting yourself up for disappointment

[Asker]

True. I’m annoyed that he doesn’t have enough respect to even talk to me. We were together for a year and he claimed to love me

[MiamiMadness]

The fact that he avoided communication when confronted and blocked you tells you what he thinks of your relationship. It's better to make a hard decision now to avoid bigger problems later

[Asker]

That is very true. I’m hurt by this but feel like he’s acting like a child. Why do I want a man child?

[MiamiMadness]

Exactly, you deserve better than that. I hope it works out for you

[Asker]

Thank you!

[bomotion]

I would take that to mean I'm single.

[thegr8lion]

He is ex, move on

[Asker]

Don’t you think he should act his age and explain? He’s 43 years old!

[thegr8lion]

Nope

[Asker]

Why is that? A year together, said we love each other blah blah and then just boom nothing

[thegr8lion]

That's a man

[Asker]

Not really if he doesn’t have the balls to say something

[thegr8lion]

May be he is pissed with you

[Asker]

Obviously he is but seriously in our 40’s you would think you could talk to a person. Is it that difficult?

[thegr8lion]

That's your view, he can have his own view