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Guys, Why don’t attractive men approach/hit on me? (Page 2)

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  • TheUglyMonk
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    Explorer Age: 26
    +1 y
    377 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I don´t know you so I´d say body language. Just be more confident in your skin and keep a smile on you then you´ll see the men rushing towards you.

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  • Uhhjsshshdh
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    Xper 7 Age: 31
    +1 y

    What makes the guys your age that approach you unattractive? I feel bad for them

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      They are never my age. Always much older.

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    • Uhhjsshshdh
      Uhhjsshshdh
      +1 y

      Ohhh okay

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    Don't really know. Beautiful eyes, cute and in shape

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  • iFarted
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    Guru Age: 36
    +1 y
    916 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    If it makes you feel better, I'd totally approach you if you showed hints of interest.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      So again... I would have to show hints or put off a certain vibe? Would I have to talk first? Make eye contact? And what are things that would turn you away?

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    • iFarted
      iFarted
      +1 y

      Well, if we made eye contact and you smiled then id approach.
      If you just sat or stood there and we made eye contact Id think nothing more than simple eye contact.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      I see. I didn't think guys read into that as much. Thanks!

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    • iFarted
      iFarted
      +1 y

      np, but lets say a random guy approached you in a non fuckboy player way. Would you be open to that?

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Absolutely! I am always happy to have a genuine conversation. I would rather a guy ask me what I did outside of work or what my interests were or what type of music I liked then comment on my looks or what I am wearing.

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    • iFarted
      iFarted
      +1 y

      Aww dam, I was just about to say you're a total cutie

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    • Charleslvajr
      Charleslvajr
      +1 y

      Simply don't act hostile to all human life and you might get approached more often. That would help.

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  • Wwwyzzerdd
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    Yoda Age: 39
    +1 y
    543 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    I wouodn't approach you but then again cold approaching never worked so I stopped.

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  • keaycbizz
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    Xper 2 Age: 30
    +1 y

    You like a bitch that's my first impression... Harsh but maybe that's why

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  • anametouse
    anametouse Follow
    Explorer Age: 29
    +1 y

    You are attractive, has to be either body language or personality

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  • shubhi43
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    Xper 4 Age: 28
    +1 y

    Because they fear if they hit you you would be hurt badly

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Depends on how hard they hit. I bruise like a peach but I really do attempt to make the sandwich right.

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    • shubhi43
      shubhi43
      +1 y

      Now am afraid of you

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    Everyone is beautiful in there own way. God made us and its what's on the inside that counts not the outside. Shallow thats you.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    No offense but the nose ring doesn't suit you. Jus my opinion

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      I've taken it out several times. No difference.

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  • reptocarl
    reptocarl Follow
    Master Age: 64
    +1 y

    The nose ring is a turn off for me

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  • HamAndCheese
    HamAndCheese Follow
    Yoda Age: 28
    +1 y

    What about you as a person?

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      I am not sure. I try to be nice to everyone unless I feel disrespected. But I am a very shy and socially awkward person.

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    • HamAndCheese
      HamAndCheese
      +1 y

      Yeah but what makes you unique. What's something about yourself that would make someone go, "whoa, cool!" Because a cute face and a great body is good and all but...

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      You are right. I feel like I can get along with almost anyone... What I am gathering is that its up to me to break my own stigma.

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  • LegateLanius
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    Master Age: 35
    +1 y

    I think you are hot and i would approach.

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  • greNader
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    Xper 7 Age: 27
    +1 y

    I don't know tbh. You're hot.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (30-35)
    +1 y

    Nose ring instant turn off for me...

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Totally fair! Everyone has preferences. I got it because I like it. Although I've realized studs suit my face better.

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  • RocTheNationalSoc
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    Xper 5 Age: 26
    +1 y

    The nose ring

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Thats a preference but I doubt it applies to a high percentage of the guys.

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  • Nahid1234
    Nahid1234 Follow
    Guru Age: 27
    +1 y

    Nice nose ring.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Thank you!

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      5th nose piercing was the charm! 😭

      Reply
    • Nahid1234
      Nahid1234
      +1 y

      You’re welcome. Looks nice on ya

      Reply
  • Anonymus2017
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    Xper 6 Age: 31
    +1 y

    I'd hit on you.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      I feel like you're missing the point.

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    • Anonymus2017
      Anonymus2017
      +1 y

      Probably. I didn't read the description. It was too long.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      I commend your honesty!

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    • Anonymus2017
      Anonymus2017
      +1 y

      But I guess you could be seen as intimidating appearance wise. Which is not always a bad thing.

      Reply
  • krishh0805
    krishh0805 Follow
    Yoda Age: 33
    +1 y

    You look gorgeous!!!

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  • Smegskull
    Smegskull Follow
    Yoda Age: 36
    +1 y
    588 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    You have too high a standard for attractive men.

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    • TheUsername27
      TheUsername27
      +1 y

      Agree ^ Her version of attractive is probably guys within the top 5% mark on looks... anything below i bet is ''average or below''.

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    • Smegskull
      Smegskull
      +1 y

      Her language is almost trollingly conceted too. Unattractive = scummy.
      I'm not sure which is sadder, her attitude or the fact I'm not surprised by it.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      @TheUsername27 Actually as I have said I am more critical of myself then any guy. Attractive
      To me is when all things work together. We all have preferences. I find one who puts effort into themselves, has intelligence, and is true to themselves most attractive. Little flaws that people hate about themselves... large eyes, strong noses, crooked smiles... I adore if they know how to work with it. Unnatractive to me counts as no self worth or dignity, lack of hygiene, close mindedness, disrespectfulness, and cockiness. You can be the most “physically” attrative man in the room but I would still find those things unnatractive. You can ask before assuming.

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    • Cici3917
      Cici3917
      +1 y

      Smegskull... sorry Infond disrespectful people who treat women/men as objects scummy or unnatractive. Guess that must make me very conceited. I am so conceited that I have accepted the fact that I gave up putting in my own effort to seek out others and that some men really do lack confidence and fear rejection and other things I was not aware of. Also just to give you a little heads up... I used to be 180 pounds and have always had low self image so I would never assume a persons worth on looks alone. But moreso how you treat others. It is not my fault that you assume by “attractive” I meant only looks.

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    • Smegskull
      Smegskull
      +1 y

      Hmm I wonder why I made that "assumption".
      I guess in response "it's not my fault you don't know what words mean"
      at¡trac¡tive
      əˈtraktiv/Submit
      adjective
      (of a thing) pleasing or appealing to the senses.
      "an attractive home"
      (of a person) appealing to look at; sexually alluring.
      "an attractive, charismatic man"
      synonyms: good-looking, beautiful, pretty, handsome, lovely, stunning, striking, arresting, gorgeous, prepossessing, fetching, captivating, bewitching, beguiling, engaging, charming, enchanting, enticing, appealing, delightful, winning, photogenic, telegenic.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (25-29)
    +1 y

    confidence is key

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