Do you think a wife must be able to cook well? (Page 2)

Question

I'm surrounded by people who still believe to an old mindset that demand a wife must be able to cook. It seems like a wife has an obligation to cook well for her family, do the housework. And they still believe that a husband doesn't have to do the housework, because it's her wife's responsibility. A Husband's obligation is just working hard for his family (i mean, earning as many money as he can). If a wife can't cook well or do the housework, she'll get a bad perception for herself because she can't organize her family.

Meanwhile, i don't believe that old mindset. I believe that if someone loves me, he should love me the way i am. He won't love me because of bla.. bla.. bla... He will love me for who i am. And he'll accept all my imperfections. Because that's what true love is. I believe that cooking and do the housework are the responsibility of both wife and husband. Not only wife's.

That's why i ask you guys here. Do you mind if your wife can't cook or do the housework well? What do you think about A Wife? And girls, what do you think about this?

Jarrison · Answer

No my faverite hobby is cooking great hobby to learn though im fine cooking everynight with my ex i had a deal she cleaned i cooked both were happy

coralee · Answer

Everyone should be able to cook well. It's a basic life skill that everyone should have regardless of gender.

steveguitar · Answer

No, but I'm not eating out all the time, I can cook a few things, and am willing to learn more. Not that I've ever dated to be in line for marriage, but I can definitely learn to take care of myself.

Iwasthinking · Answer

If the man doesn't know cooking why should he blame the girl for not knowing too. THey better take some kitchen courses and learn both and share "the cooking".

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

This is the reason I'm not getting married, most women can't cook nowadays and get offended when you expect a spouse who has a similar skillset. They think I'm sexist when all I want is to not have to cook every meal for myself.

nina2992 · Answer

If we both are working outside I think my partner should definitely help me in house chores. We both should know how to cook even the basics. But personally I like to cook for him every day it kinda feel cute that iam putting a meal on the table.

AlphaStyles · Answer

If you are a woman and you can't even boil water then you are off no use to me
They say the key to a man's heart is true the belly its a shame most women nowadays can't even boil water

What is the world turning into

Prof_Don · Answer

Cooking is a life skill and a family bonding experience, but if she can't cook I don't mind teaching her!

wankiam · Answer

it could be because of where you live. here in the west peoples choices are different

Karebear75 · Answer

My ex said he wished I was a better cook and house keeper. I told him hire a chef and maid. I do know the basics. He was very picky to cook for and would rather eat TV dinners.

jeremythedrummer · Answer

No. I will split the housework with her and cook together (always goos bonding time). I currently live alone most of the time so i do the housework and i sometimes cook something simple for myself.

Glass_Cat · Answer

I’d like to be able to cook well for my partner but I don't know if my partner ends up being a lady and she can cook then cool. 👍🏻

themaskedx · Answer

It's not an obligation but somebody should be able to cook cause frozen or microwave don't cut it so no I don't believe that she cook but she should find a partnership with somebody who can

PondyPand · Answer

Every person should know how to cook basics. who cooks meals in a relationship is up to them in the relationship

killmyinnocence · Answer

Absolutely not.. I'll appreciate if she cooks good.. I'll not demand anything... I think both should share responsibilities equally.. Women has lot of things to do in their daily life... so giving some support to the wife is husband's responsibility

jamesouellette · Answer

Im already pretty good at cooking and i dont mind cleaning. Fuck the system!

MrMilti · Answer

When somebody says, they cannot cook, I think they are just too lazy. Because cooking is simple, you just have to get your ass off the couch.

Pastuccid · Answer

Not everyone knows how to cook that's why I have an maid to cook for me and plus have a husband who knows how to cook

Ayer93 · Answer

All adults SHOULD (not must) have basic cooking skills. It's definitely not a requirement for a wife. But any additional skill will benefit you and make you more attractive.

kamash · Answer

Yes definitely... she should satisfy my appetite... with amazing dishes... but I do feel that even men should try cooking sometimes, to lower her stress and give her a break...

chameleon3081 · Answer

I think everyone should learn to cook, male or female. Basic life skill. You don't need to be a chief, just know basic things like cooking meat, making a basic dish, how to boil an egg, etc.

Pluto4prez · Answer

Yes, a wife should be able to cook. As should her husband (or wife). It's not a gender role thing as much as it is a being an adult capable of taking care of themselves and others thing.

sam3324 · Answer

I wouldn't say it's a must so much as it would help. To be honest I can't really cook and I don't want to eat fast food all the time. That being said I'm willing to learn to cook

Vicky157 · Answer

I think that everyone should be able to cook, but it's only fair that if someone can't or doesn't want to, you don't push the matter.

0Kenny0 · Answer

Yeah, A woman should know how to cook well enough for food to taste good. Thats a basic thing people need to know

AshKet · Answer

I think that someone in the relationship needs to be able to cook.

Anonymous · Answer

If a guy worked hard and earned enough to support the family then I wouldn't mind doing all the cooking and housework. But if we are both working then housework and cooking should be shared.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

If you consider yourself an independent person and you can't cook, you're wrong. Don't care who you are or what your martial status is.

Matt57 · Answer

It would be nice, but it's not necessary. I love to cook, and I want to be with a woman that can cook, because I wanna cook things together with her.

CT_CD · Answer

Must be able to cook well. If she can't cook me dinner everyday then what's the point of having a wife?

DANGO88 · Answer

Both should. Not necessarily well but at least have notions

DualityGreen · Answer

Everyone should learn to cook. It is a good skill to have.

Lionelmesssi · Answer

Both need to work together and help each other, I prefer a girl to know how to cock and make q taste food, because she needs to surprise me and make a great breakfast when I wake up 😁 sorry girls if this sounds bad...

MidnightCowboy · Answer

Nope, not into the traditional gender roles. They are bullshit lol

skyblue_superxd · Answer

Hell na if a guy can cook that is hot and if both can't cook so what you can learn together

SeanNotShawn · Answer

Yes, along with the husband. Both should be able to cook.

Torte · Answer

It's a shame if a person can't cook in general. Doesn't matter if man/woman if you can't cook you have a huge lack of Education

Kiran04 · Answer

Absolutely. Everyone should know how to cook. What do you do when you're single? Go out every freakin' day? That isn't cheap.

ShiaSun · Answer

Well I dont mind, since i actually enjoy cooking myself. Would it be great though? Yes. But not a must have.

Greatcat · Answer

Wife needs to be able to feed the kids well. Doesn't have to taste amazing but has to be safe and nutritious for them

Dartzlink · Answer

I don't mind and I have a better Idea: cooking together to reinforce the bond. And because, it could be sensual.

Howells · Answer

If she doesn’t work to help with the money... at least she must cook. If she works then no, she could do it or not

MomoBuni · Answer

Absolutely not! Either sex can cook, it’s not just up to the female to prepare meals. I’m a relationship, effort and work should be balanced between those within the relationship.

Agulay2 · Answer

I don't think so, mostly my boyfriend cook for me, I maintain my body being sexy for him

cobra2879 · Answer

Look Ladies this isn't the 50-60's anymore and more guys need 2 understand that. Now if a Woman can cook then wonderful if not and that is a deal breaker, well then that is a Red Flag and go find a more understanding guy like me

EGR22 · Answer

Yes I do but the husband should as well in my opinion.

icanthinkofauser · Answer

If she works too, then we share the housework. If I'm the only one working, that's her job.

Anonymous · Answer

no my future wife just needs to love me as much as i love her and if we never eat again oh well (i can't cook either lol)

Gingerguy33 · Answer

No doesn’t matter to me I’ll learn to cook with her if she doesn’t know how

AquaBoo · Answer

I mean it'd be great if she could cook. But usually my s o and I would share responsibilities

RedThread · Answer

I think adults should know how to feed themselves regardless of sex.

SandNigga · Answer

I think that at least one of the people involved in a relationship should be able to cook, it doesn't matter which one.

dafbloke84 · Answer

No, a wife must have a sexy slender body. Good looks are all that's relevant. Besides, I eat a takeaway nearly every day/night anyway.

munky40 · Answer

Nahh as long as one of us does it would help. Or possibly we could learn together. Good thing I'm a phenomenal cook lol

NormanL · Answer

It is totally up to then if they cook well or not. Do they enjoy cooking and if so are they good at it. Thst is a bonus.

blondfrog · Answer

Yes, she should but if she can't its okay I will still be with her. She will get better eventually :).

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not, in modern times it's men who must have all the skills, while women's only job is to supply pussy when SHE wants. That's why relationships are on the rise, women are getting so much better

prnv49 · Answer

No! I think the wife should have a good heart. Cooking well can be learned even after marriage if the love is real

Scarletbard · Answer

Of course not. I wouldn't care if neither my wife, or myself could cook. It'd just mean we'd have to eat out a lot more frequently.

Seppelson · Answer

If she don't works she have to do homework. If she worksand I don't work I do homework. If we both work both do a part of homework

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