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Human nature. For every hot girl there's a guy that's tired of fucking her. You drive a Ferrari around long enough you start to wonder what else you can try. Some people are content to do the same thing day in and day out but most people naturally crave variety and change.
He's bored. The only things that would make him interested again is...
A) competition, if he sees a rival is trying to get his lady, he will perk up.
B) Some couples swing and that helps to alleviate any pent up sexual urges.
C) get a total makeover, change your appearance enough to look like a new you.
D) break the repetition. Sometimes it's a lot of things. The monotony of the same work every day and same routine can make people bitter and dull. When was the last time you were on vacation? Did something alone together? Do you guys have hobbies together? Bond over something.
But do NOT
make him feel guilty
Make him feel bad
Forcing people to do things usually just pushed them away.
Do your best to manipulate him in a way that makes him think it was all his idea.
Anyways. Good luck.
You probably don't notice. When a woman has gotten the slave chains on a man, she stops noticing anything good he does and starts looking for tiny shit she can pick apart.
Another possibility, though the two aren't mutually exclusive, is that you've stopped trying. My now-ex wife once said to me "When was the last time you told me I'm pretty?" I responded with "When was the last time you got your ass off the couch, put on pants that weren't sweats, and ran a brush through your hair?" Not long after I told her to get her shit and GTFO.
We assume you know after a while. We don't understand how important it is to remind the woman we love of that. I am guilty of it as well. My girlfriend will bring something up off topic to get me to say it. I always catch it and I will and in some creative extra compliment. She will say "Wow! I know you think I am beautiful, but that other thing.. I had no idea!"
Sometime let him know how it makes you feel. Tell him that hearing him say it feels good because it only really matters coming from him. Then suck his dick... lol. Or make him a treat. If he associates saying with good things, he will say it more.
Compliments are a courtesy but to maintain a high frequency of them is a burden. He's probably just too comfortable with you to find point in doing such. Just like how someone could write someone love letters all the time but after awhile, the letters will become less thoughtful and eventually the person might just stop writing them. It's one of the many flaws of long relationships. It's to be expected
It is possible that you have a negative confirmation bias. Maybe you legitimately are forgetting when he says it because you believe he doesn't. Or he's simply gotten complacent. Definitely sit down and have a (longer) talk though. Especially if it's negatively effecting your self image.
Marriage is work the day you said I do you took on a job more or less. Yes love has everything to do with it but after time the newness wears off and it's back to business as usual. There's really no right or wrong answer except the one ass hole. What I would be more interested in is whether or not you two communicate if the first thing he does is come home and wants to talk about your day and then his. You might just forgive his forgetfulness and realize he is truly your best friend and lover. I think terms of endearment are great but I think that they are said to much and it can take away meaning. Besides actions speak louder than words and you guys are pretty young to be married.
I would call u beautiful everyday , but I'm in the same boat ypu , are in , my partner barely ever compliments me anymore to the point I feel like my marriage is over , I don't know what else to do , , your husband is probably interested in someone else and isn't making you his priority anymore
Boredom in relation, try to have little excitement, try new things. He doesn't feel it anymore
Have you gone on a date just the two of you and you get dressed up? Have you tried complimenting him? You are in a relationship it goes both ways. Also as time passes you get comfortable and what happens on the daily is just that. He needs to see you as he did back then. My best advice is just go on a date dress up look bomb af like you use to. You'll hear it again
Probably it's because you don't notice... Or you've slacked off in some areas in the marriage and as a result, he unconsciously slacked off as well... Pick your game up and figure out where you slacked off and maybe that will inspire him to do what you like again... Is just my opinion.
He needs a reminder about his vows and responsibilities. You’re his wife so your happiness is his obligation.
Just remind him
I have been married 3 times for a total of almost 30 years now. I have always told my wife how beautiful she is each day. Some men get complacent and feel they have said it so why say it again. Others just do not care or think you have changed from the one they fell in love with. They are jerks. Hope your husband realizes the real beauty he has in you before it is too late.
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