My crush raised his eyebrows?

[CallaLily3]

What does it mean when a guy raises his eyebrows? Someone who thinks you might like him, too (like, he might know I like him). He did this before and I found out later because he asked me if I liked him. I didn't answer his question really. But he did it again with the eyebrows what does it mean? It happened because I looked at him and he saw me and I smiled, he smiled back. I looked away and looked back he was still looking at me and smiling and I smiled and then he raised his eyebrows. Help?

[coolbreeze]

The raised eyebrows is part if his expression and reaction when he looks at you. Raised eye brows normally mean a good thing.

[CallaLily3]

if he ever catches me looking at him, usually he wouldn't raise his eyebrows. usually a smile or neutral face. he only did the eyebrows once, and then again this time

[coolbreeze]

The eyebrow thing I think was to get your attention That is good he smiles when you look at him.

[CallaLily3]

its weird because he is hot and cold. sometimes he'll look back and sometimes he won't. some days he says something to me but not always. recently past 2 weeks he hasn't talked to me i think my friend said something about me, but he did mutter hi a few days ago, and smiled at me and raised his eyebrows the other day

[coolbreeze]

Guys act hot and cold. Maybe he was doing it to play hard to get. I agree your friend said something to make him change and act weird. Im glad he is saying hi again. He probably missed you.

[CallaLily3]

do you think he would realize that my friend shouldn't have said something, and come back? or will he just keep avoiding me kind of?

[coolbreeze]

Your friend was wrong for that. Karma will fix your friend because what goes around comes around. I think he might come back since the school year is almost over for summer. He would have plenty of time to think about thing's over summer vacation. He might come back to you little by little.

[CallaLily3]

Right. But I only have a few weeks left, do you think he could come around by then? Because what if he just looses interest during summer because we won't even see each other at all?

[coolbreeze]

Yes I think it's possible. Just be positive. It's a risk summer vacation can change him and make him act weird. It's possible in the coming weeks he can come back to you. Never give up hope.

[CallaLily3]

I guess :)

[coolbreeze]

Yes 😀 thing's will be ok and everything will work out. I feel he is opening up a little so far so that is a good sign. I hope more good things to come.

[CallaLily3]

he used to talk to me more, like little jokes if he walks by me. he raised his eyebrows once before

[coolbreeze]

Uh ok that is good. I hope he picks up how thing's were before.

[chriscdi]

Oh he was being cocky and confident, its kinda like a "do you like me? Hm 😏" like that

[CallaLily3]

Is it? It was last time, but would he try and ask me AGAIN?

[chriscdi]

He most likely will, mostly if he didn't get a answer last time 😂

[CallaLily3]

It has been about a month since he asked ^e^

[chriscdi]

It doesn't matter he could decide to try again lol

[CallaLily3]

What do i say if he tries again? I don't want him to know I like him, but I don't want him to stop liking me if I say no. The past few weeks he seems to have stopped liking me so when he smiled at me and raised my eyebrows it was like what? (for me)

[CallaLily3]

seems to have stopped liking me, like, i think my friend said something to him?

[chriscdi]

Well dont tell him if he asks again just reverse it, after he does it just smile chuckle and reverse it like "*chuckle* hm do you like me?😏"

[chriscdi]

And he would either change the subject, lie or be honest

[CallaLily3]

Do you think it might be kinda desperate if I say that, like oh do you like me back pleassseee? Kinda like that. Or what if I say that and he's like I'll tell you if you tell me kind of thing. I don't do that stuff. :> What if I'm like, "*chuckle* why do you want to know so badly?"

[chriscdi]

That would make it kinda obvious that you like him if anything chuckle and say "why do you want to know so badly, do you like me😏" lol

[CallaLily3]

wait, how does it make it obvious I like him by asking why he wants to know so bad?

[chriscdi]

Cause you are denying to answer like you are shy to tell him that you do, by throwing the question you are making him feel guilty and if he does like you he would be like "oh shit, she's on to me" and he would panic and change the subject

[chriscdi]

You would see if he likes you by the way he acts after you ask him

[CallaLily3]

I see what you mean. Would it be even more obvious if I say, "Maybe..." ? My friends say I should say that, but I think it's a bad idea. But I feel it would be desperate-ish if I ask him if he likes me. It's like, do you like me back? Almost

[chriscdi]

Maybe would give it all away lol, its not desperate if you do it how he did it, cocky and confident

[CallaLily3]

im not confident like he is, im very shy. the last time he asked me, he couldnt even hear my answer. I said,"i heard the same" (because my friend told me he likes me but i wasn't sure) and he was like, "what did you say? I hate sand?" and im like noooo and he's like you're SOO quiet. but would it be good to give it away so he knows, except i dont have to say yes? because if he likes me, it would be good, but awkward if he doesn't like me anymore

[chriscdi]

Well you can do that, my advice is kinda mixed cause where im from when you admit it just boosts their ego and they find it desperate, you are still young so you can tell him that and he probably wouldn't think much of it so yea try that

[CallaLily3]

so I could probably say, "*chuckle*maybe.. why do you want to know so badly? do you?" or something like that?

[chriscdi]

Yea ig you'll choose on the spot 😂

[CallaLily3]

on the spot? i would say all the things you told me but mixed together

[chriscdi]

Well try and process it before then 😂

[CallaLily3]

I always think and "plan" how things I want are going to happen, even though a lot of the time it doesn't happen at all or not the way I wanted :> But I'll probably say, "Maybe...*chuckle* Why do you want to know so badly? Do you?"

[chriscdi]

Well its your choice missy 😂

[CallaLily3]

yes. im inexperienced, so thats why i needed help :p but thank you

[chriscdi]

no problem, goodluck lol

[Reem12345reem]

there's a guy who did that to me but he doesn't have a crush on me he was just joking and messing around

[Moimeee]

Just say what if I did like u and see what he says. Or just ask back that does he like u

[16jaar]

He is trying to sign you, smile back. Let him know that you have noticed him.

[CallaLily3]

I did smile back. Sign me?

[16jaar]

He's letting you know, he likes you.

[CallaLily3]

but recently for the past like 2 weeks he seems to have been avoiding me, probably because my friend mightve told him something

[16jaar]

Are you going to tell me what that "something" is?

[CallaLily3]

Yea. When she told me, "He said he likes someone else" she's like are you okay? I'm like, I dont care (even though i do). She might've told him I don't care, or she lied about me, or I could be wrong and she said something else.

[16jaar]

Well, all you need to know for now is that he like somebody else. So make sure you are not his second choice.

[CallaLily3]

my friend once told me he likes me and someone else

[16jaar]

Just make sure, if you you really like him: ask him out.

[CallaLily3]

I've liked him for almost 3 years but I don't know

[16jaar]

Talk to him more frequently. And slowly "claim him".

[Andre_it]

He likes you, go and get him! ;)

[CallaLily3]

But the last time he raised his eyebrows at me, he was wondering whether I like him

[Andre_it]

And he was hoping.. say yes! ;)

[CallaLily3]

I dont want him to know though, because I'm still in school and rumors and gossip won't do good to my life..

[Andre_it]

I learnt that sometimes what you have to do is not think! :) Do what you feel is right and go on tgat way. And often the right thing is also the most fun ;)

[CallaLily3]

okayy

[Anonymous]

Ask your parents. You first study. Any guys won't love you. We just play. And use for sex. Don't be like a slut. You will lose your true love If you don't listen go fuck yourself. Raising eyebrows means nothing. I think it's exaggeration.

[CallaLily3]

Im not trying to date anyone, I am just curious about what to do or what it means

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't mean anything. It's just an young age gesture for either anger or shy. Or it may be even meaningless. It's more common.

[AWGriffin86]

He knows that something is on your mind. May as well tell him the truth.

[oimate69]

He likes you. Go get him girl!

[Kandy-Kane]

It means absolutely nothing

[angrysalmon555]

Watch out. He knows...

[CallaLily3]

He already knows, he said someone told him when he asked me before. Do you think he would ask again?

[angrysalmon555]

I dont see the point in him asking again unless that was like a month ago or something long like that. Do you know how he reacted when they told him?

[CallaLily3]

I don't know for sure if my friend told him anything, its just that they kind of started to avoided me about the same time. She told me he said he liked someone else, but i suspect he said something about me and she got mad and said something about me

[CallaLily3]

and he asked if i liked him about a month ago

[angrysalmon555]

Well I think that if the person you like knows that you like them it kind of spoils it. I would just hang onto it for another month or two and if he isn't in another relationship by then, by all means go for it.
If you need anything other advice you can always DM me. 😉

[CallaLily3]

spoils what?

[angrysalmon555]

I mean if he knows then he is going to have an expectation that you are going to ask him out

[CallaLily3]

Boys expect that? what

[angrysalmon555]

I didn't mean it in that way. I mean, for example, if you knew that someone liked you then you would know that it would only be a matter of time before they asked you out if that makes sense

[CallaLily3]

Oh i see. But i wouldn't do that, I am very shy. So what would he do if he expects that

[angrysalmon555]

I presume he would just keep doing what he's doing, minding his own business until you make a move

[CallaLily3]

he is more outgoing and confident than me, im not. would he do it?

[angrysalmon555]

He might end up feeling impatient with the expectation for something to happen but that may take some time

[CallaLily3]

oh and then he'll stop liking me?

[angrysalmon555]

No I mean that he will ask you since you took longer to ask him that he wanted you to

[ultimega]

Not sure how to handle this @Kandy-Kane

[Kandy-Kane]

Oh lawd

[ultimega]

I just can't

[Kandy-Kane]

Looooooool

[Revolver_]

Amazing

[CallaLily3]

Amazing how?

[Revolver_]

Your crush raised his eyebrow

[CallaLily3]

how is it amazing? is it good though

[Revolver_]

It's good

[CallaLily3]

is it like, phenomenal that he did that

[Revolver_]

Yeah

[CallaLily3]

is it like a super rare thing

[Revolver_]

Yep.