I've always felt women are creatures built for appreciation of their form and themselves appreciate function. Conversely, men are creatures built for appreciation of their function and themselves appreciate form.
But instinct and culture are a part of it too. Instinct is why men have to chase the nicest cars and best jobs and keep themselves looking toned and strong so they can look the most attractive, and why women still wear revealing clothes and makeup and shaping garments despite how uncomfortable they are so they can look most attractive.
But culture tempers those needs. It's why women are ready to become equal in the workforce. It's why men are becoming better fathers than ever. It's why the dad bod is becoming a thing, and why
women are insulted if you claim their garments are for anything other than to make /themselves/ _feel_ sexy.
Point is, yes, men are visual "creatures", but that's only for first appearances, they can make connections that are beyond the physical too, if the culture in them is stronger than the instinct. And yes, women are "creatures" that look for the most useful potential mate for their future families, but they too can make emotional connections with guys who aren't quite the pinnacle of fatherhood.
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Dont let anyone fool you, i would say 99% of the initial descision that a man makes is visual. You dont have to be a stunner but he must have seen some aspect that he wanted to see more of. Only once he starts chatting to you does his descisions become based more on your personality. This might sound harsh but men are definitley visual creatues, just look at the way everything around us is advertised these days. I can say in my experiences i have found many women that i was turned off of as soon as a spent 2 minutes chatting with. This is not to say i dislike them but that attraction i initailly felt dissapeard.
True... It has been asked many times in this forum as well. Guys are shallow creatures
If a man doesn't have a handsome face or muscles or height he can still compensate with his humour, personality, money, intelligence, style etc.
Research has shown however, that guys are attracted to pretty girls more than anything else. It is also socially accepted and not challenged that this is how things are/ should be. Guys don't care if a girl is a billionaire, graduated from Oxford with a degree in nuclear science, won a Nobel or Olympic medal. They care if she's blonde, has an hourglass figure, tall, blue eyes etc. Personality comes next (by personality they obviously mean not being "annoying and being obedient").
Yes in the sense that they get aroused and easily stimulated through visuals, but it matters very little. Look at the women a lot of them would still cheat on you with, and I don't mean average girl. You'll get cheated on with someone who put effort into being ugly.
Looks do attract a men. But if you meet a man where a woman’s looks is high on his list of preferences. Stay clear of. You want a man with more substance!
yes they are. Men are visual. BUT to keep a man.. there has to be more substance!
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In honesty, men start by visually looking at a women and if they find them attractive and would like to get into a relationship with them, then they start to pay attention to how they act and their personality, but on the other hand if it is someone they are not looking to be in a serious relationship then they base it entirely off of looks.
If you want the scientific answer behind it, yes. Men have better visual-spatial memory so this effects how we see not just objects or places, but women as well. In general, men remember visual characteristics better so that's why we're known to look at women in public and pornography
Looks are what we notice first yes, and looks alone can and does make us horny sometimes, but not "just", especially if we want a relationship. Personality can very much affect attraction.
This is true. The main quality that attracts men are the looks but depending on the actions is what determines if the guy may find you as relationship worthy or not.
everyone is visual... looks matter to all of us but we all have different tastes
you cannot bang someone you dont find attractiveIt all depends on the guy. Some people prefer personallity over looks. I believe how fun the girl is to be around helps to.
Absolutely true. That's why more men like porn in pictures and video and more women will read erotica instead of viewing porn.
It is true that men are more visual but that doesn't mean that they only like women for looks so men are also into personality as well.
Men and women are both very into looks but men are especially into looks even more so than women.
No, Men are visual creatures in terms of hookups and flings. If the man wants a long term relationship, looks matter less to men
Yes , sorry to say men look first then action later. Looks is like saying ok you caught my attention and then action is to decide if she's a keeper or not
I think it's a mix of how they look and how they act. At least for me, It is.
🤔 Men are more visual as we were the hunter part of hunter gatherer
Thanks for calling me a creature, but yes, most of us are visual "people"
Yes, because many men still think with their eyes.
Nope it's just your illusion
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