Are men visual creatures?

[Anonymous]

What are the elements that make you evaluate a woman? If you're not interested in someone, is it primarily because they're not your type to begin with or because of anything else?

[serious]

Yes of course men are visual creatures. For a man it is very important how a woman physically looks and how appealing they are to their eyes.

As for me, yes I am highly visual. For me a woman has to be drop dead gorgeous in physical looks but that does not mean I will ignore the personality aspect. For me both are equally important and with no compromise.

1 " What are the elements that make you evaluate a woman?"

If this is only regarding to physical looks, then the first thing I see is the hairstyle/hair length. The next is the dressing sense, make up etc.

If it is related to personality and inner beauty then there are plenty of factors here. Some of them are if the woman is easy to make happy, if she loves soft and cuddly toys like teddy bears, pandas etc. If the woman is sweet, nice, kind, caring, supportive etc.

2. "If you're not interested in someone, is it primarily because they're not your type to begin with or because of anything else?"

Yes of course I have a type and as I mentioned both outer looks and inner personality are equally important to me with no compromise.

I think this answers your questions

[Asker]

MHO!!!

[serious]

Thanks.

[Asker]

So if i'm not his physical type, there's no way around it/ correct?

[serious]

Well, the answer is both YES and NO.

I will explain

[serious]

It would actually on how strict and how much importance he is giving to the physical beauty aspect.

For ex if he gives lots of importance to your skin, I mean if your skin is clear with no pimples, no spots etc. If he gives lot of importance to your hairstyle/hair length, if he likes long hair then of course these things you can correct, change. At least to a good extent.

Even if is your smile, your teeth that can also be corrected by wearing braces.

If you know what I mean.

I am not referring to your skin color so don't misunderstand me, if you read my point you will know.

[serious]

Even body weight factor can be fixed, by eating healthy and going to gym.

[serious]

Now the answer is No, if he is one of the guys who gives importance to the height factor, your skin color and if he gives lot of importance to how your eyes are, how your cheeks are etc etc.

In that case, these things are not really changeable or cannot be corrected.

[serious]

Hence the answer is both yes and no.

[serious]

Does this answer your question?

[Asker]

Frrrr you just helped me BIG TIME! I am Egyptian (white), who got set up with someone who's half Swiss half SA. (He's typically white and drop dead gorgeous). I've never felt insecure tbh. Yet I kind of get that vibe from him. And now I'm kind of insecure around him. He's being weird over text. Sometimes would ghost- & then come back. He apologies and then goes MIA.. I don't know I feel like a clown

[serious]

Well, see if his behavior is inconsistent and if he goes on and off (like ghosting) then you should seriously consider if you should pursue this man or not.

Believe it or not you don't want to end up getting heartbroken in future.

It does not matter if he is drop dead gorgeous or not, the personality, the way he treats you and how he respects you is important as well.

My suggestion don't overlook compromise on personality aspect just because he is very handsome or drop dead gorgeous.

[Asker]

I'm in a weird situation tbh. His mom set him up & I kind of politely want to get out of that spiral.. or at least leave on a high note. I know I'm attractive. I kind of get that a lot. So that's not the point. Point is how he makes me feel about myself when we're talking. Super not cool. I don't think he's being consistent, and I don't like how insecure he's made me feel. Culturally, ghosting is super disrespectful. I deleted his number, and he came back & apologized. & it's been a day he hasn't responded yet (so he's doing it again, and I don't know how to react to that--- kind of my first time being ghosted)..
I'm right there questioning my self worth tbh. For no apparent reason..

[serious]

"I don't think he's being consistent, and I don't like how insecure he's made me feel. Culturally, ghosting is super disrespectful. I deleted his number, and he came back & apologized. & it's been a day he hasn't responded yet (so he's doing it again, and I don't know how to react to that--- kind of my first time being ghosted).."

This part that you have mentioned should be good enough indication that what you need to do. This is a disrespectful behavior.

You know what you need to do.

[Asker]

Are you a GAG god or what? You're totally right! Thank you💯💯💯

[serious]

"Are you a GAG god or what?"

No, I am not. NO way!.

However, I am always logical and rational while saying and taking my decisions. Whatever I say is always logical and rational.

[serious]

You are welcome.

[Asker]

You're perfect 🩵 thank you serious 🥰

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[Anonymous]

I think it is all about what do you percieve from the appearance.

Personally speaking here:
- If a girl was so hot / attractive but happens to be more of a template. Then a big ❌.
How do I say so?
Her facial expressions and gestures.

Another ❌ is the one who is forcefully being cute or pretty or hot. Desperate or/and empty.

Another could be just perfect looking, yet all beauty is just in looks with an empty childish/innocent/immature personality. That's a no as well. Not a feminine enough.. still a child. And you aren't sexually attracted to children.

What if one is average.. the you just ignore until a sign shows. Maybe dresses someday and I measure.. or just keep ignoring.

Does this fully answer your question?

[Asker]

Please elaborate on the less feminine/childish part

[Opinion Owner]

A female colleauge for example, looks perfect and attractive. Yet, in the meeting at her first presentation said smth like: "I'm going to laugh.." while it is not the mood at all.

Also thanking a lot for every tiny bit which sounds like someone very ignorant and deprived.. or weak.

Someone you pity or help and take care of, more than someone you deal with

I think you got the idea.

[Astarlessnightsky]

There is more to it than just looks. Ofcourse looks are the ones you noticed first, but once you are start getting to know her looks become less and less important.

[patrick994]

We men may be attracted at first glance by aesthetic beauty, but we do not base ourselves solely on this, with a woman we like to have character affinity, mutual interests, etc.

[robhazelnut]

In large part, though red flags tend to be important to men.

[Anonymous]

Everyone is visual. Women too wanna date attractive only. However, settling is different.

[Apple1996]

Both genders are visual creatures

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes but it's not all visual for all men

[Asker]

But it does give them the push to actually spark interest, no?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes, think of fishing, physical appearance is the lure and your personality is the hook and he is the fish, you gotta lure him to hook him.

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah