friends with benefits suddenly stopped talking to me?

[Anonymous]

We were good friends for a while and he started to like me but I didn’t like him back so we started a friends with benefits relationship. Soon, I started liking him back and he told me he still liked me so we constantly kept talking on Snapchat everyday and everything was fine for about half a year. One day, we were talking a lot and then suddenly two hours later he just deleted me on Snapchat. He still kept me as a friend on his Instagram and finsta but still he deleted me on Snapchat which is our main way of contacting each other. Everything was fine and this was really random? Any idea what’s going on?

Updates

+1 y

Also; from what his bio says he doesn’t have a girlfriend right now and we’ve never had a fight or problem before which is why him deleting me is really random. I haven’t contacted him after he deleted me bc I’m worried if he’ll think I’m being annoying or clingy or something so I’m trying to give him his space

[XRabbitHeartX]

He likely is into someone new or thought you were catching feels and he is tired of leading you on or giving false hope.

[MrNameless]

she said she liked him first.. so he likely had feelings first.

[djmzes]

U r being dumb simple as that
Or he realise it is a waste of time

[MrNameless]

do you have an opinion of your own or do you have to keep posting random quotes you pulled from instagram?

[djmzes]

@MrNameless that is my opinion.
I am not here to just say "You are being dumb or etc..." I am trying to make her realise on her own on her actions and what contribute to that. What went wrong and why it went wrong.

At the end of any process that result to a failure, change is important or else the same failure will happen.

[MrNameless]

He's not a random person, and he had feelings for her at one point.

[djmzes]

He had but she did not...
Of course he will have...
Sex create bonding but the nature of friends with benefits does not allow bonding.
It can happen also he decided to be friends with benefits cuz of her appearance and he got someone else better so he left her cuz of better profit in a sense.

Thirdly she told us that the guy had feeling , but we do not know whether it id true or not as thr feeling csn be merely lust or a lie.

[Asker]

I didn’t believe him at first when he told me he had feelings for me but all of his friends who don’t even know we’re friends w benefits told me he had feelings for me

[Asker]

He would talk to me literally everyday and he’d constantly ask if I was seeing anyone else and he’d always say “you’re mine” like a boyfriend would so there’s no way he didn’t have feelings

[MrNameless]

You said you started to like him back.. Does he know that?

[Asker]

Yeah I told him I liked him back since he told me he liked me even more after being friends with benefits for one month since we were getting even closer

[MrNameless]

did you guys ever try to make it a serious relationship? Only reason why I can think of him deleting you one day out of the blue when you guys talk on a nearly daily basis is that he probably had feelings for you and didn't think it would work out/didn't think you felt the same way as he did.

[GingerGuy]

Doesn't sound like a friend at all.

[Asker]

Well what does he sound like to u then

[Anonymous]

Maybe found someone new

[Asker]

That’s what I was guessing but from what my friends who still have him on Snapchat have told me, he doesn’t have a girlfriend or anything which is why this whole thing is confusing