Guys, why is my guy friend/fwb acting like such a nut job? I dont get why he is being such a pain in my ass?

snowwhite29
My friends with benefits & I are in complete anti-relationship agreement, but we are close friends. he constantly accuses me of liking him more than a friend, which i dont, but whatever. I told him to get over himself! Lol. In a recent convo i had w/my friends with benefits , i casually mentioned something that his best friend & I spoke about. I really didn't think much of it.( I have always gotten along well with his best friend & we instant message each other from time to time.)

Just recently, our mutual friend suddenly stopped talking to me. I asked him what was up & he told me my friends with benefits kinda confronted him about us messaging each other and he was kinda upset about it so he wanted to keep his distance from me now, just to avoid unnecessary drama, which I respect. Later, I asked my friends with benefits if he was ok with us talking and he swore he was. Uh, okay.

he also does weird things like texting me passive agressive texts like, "so what u aren't talking to me anymore? Lol," if i dont get back to him. Or I apologize for missing his call & not calling him back and he will joke around saying,"suuuure you forgot! Haha!" Insinuating I am ignoring him. Are these like supposed to be defense tactics to protect his fragile ego or what? He is acting so weird & hot & cold... I don't get it! He really does not act like he likes me as anything more than a friend... actually the thing is, sometimes he can really act like a crappy friend!

So I give up!!! if someone would be kind enough to maybe clarify this sort of behavior, I would be grateful.

Guys, why is my guy friend/fwb acting like such a nut job? I dont get why he is being such a pain in my ass?
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