24 y/o boyfriend low sex drive?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my partner for a year now (6 months officially). At the beginning we would have sex a lot, every time I would see him we would have sex even a couple of times a day, so quite a few times a week. Recently his sex drive has been quite low, the most we’ve been having sex in the last few months would be once or rarely twice a week. This isn’t a massive problem with my confidence at the moment (starting to naturally question it to myself a bit though) but my sex drive is a lot higher than his, so it is quite sexually frustrating for me sometimes. A lot of the time it will be me attempting to start something and him not really wanting to. I came back from a 2 week holiday a week ago and he desperately wanted to have sex with me, couldn’t wait and then after that one time he’s not really bothered to.

There is a 5 year age difference (19, 24) I just want to know if it’s normal and what sex drives are like for his age.

[RockStarBob]

Generally, a 24y. o.'s libido is still as high as any 18 or 19y. o.'s. The problem might be stress related, due to work, study, financial issues,... it's also possible that he's lost interest in you, tbh, so you should GENTLY try to get him to open up. However, once or twice a week is way more than most unmarried folks get.

[TShot]

I wonder if he is just losing interest in you, no sorry. But you have to do things to keep it fresh, gotta role play or act like he's cheating on his girlfriend with you. Just fun things to keep it fresh, talk to him find out what he really lists and use it, but don't beat it into the ground.

[Anonymous]

He could have low testosterone or could also have some mental issues like depression, anxiety or exhaustion.

[Miss_missy77]

He might be depressed and/or stressed.

[heyyyyy69]

Ask him what he honestly wants maybe you don't give him what he wants or maybe he's too embarrassed to ask. Or maybe he's lost attraction. Or maybe you're not that interesting in the bed. Or maybe he's being careful because he doesn't want a kid. I mean these are all things that can only be learned from him. If he's not mature enough to answer you will never know especially not from the internet

[funguy90]

Sounds like he might be getting bored? When people have sex like that constantly in the beginning they tend to get bored quicker. You might just need to spice things up more and try exploring different things. Keep it exciting. He clearly likes it so I wouldn't worry there. Do you guys try new stuff now already or mostly the same routine?

[Anon-ymous1]

Why do your ages matter.

And Girls-- If He Doesn't Want Sex, Something is Wrong. ↗ read this.

[X_Unknown_X]

you need to ask him to be honest if he's getting bored of the sex, or could be him stressing. I just hope for your sake he's Not fucking someone else that's why his sex energy is always low

[adolescentswede]

Try encourage chaste berries and or muscle training if he gets fat of the berries then get something against estrogen

[PrettyRegular]

Say him when you want to do it. Don't be shy to take him when you feel like it.

[wade120582]

he's got a woman on the side

[Anonymous]

Well, 19, 24
What are you surprised by?