Girls, how clueless are guys?

[Jjpayne]

[Hapinus]

Guys can’t read our mind even if we sort of expect them to. I feel like every girl acts a bit different. So one girls cues might be different than another’s. I feelike most guys are clueless when we first meet. They don’t know that when I say leave me alone, I actually want them to stay or that when I say they are an idiot i mean that I love them. But after a while they’ll start to learn and become less clueless

[Hapinus]

Thank you

[Jjpayne]

No problem!

[Blunique]

Girls always hint on things and guys mind just doesn't seem to go there and pick up on the hint. That's why I'm direct, if I like a guy and we are talking, I'll tell him I like him or invite him to hangout. I don't like games. It's like I know what I want. I like it when guys say what they want instead of playing games as well. I appreciate it when guys are direct and don't bullshit.

[Jjpayne]

Good for you!!

[debi2622]

Guys just don't pick up on cues about female behavior real quick. Sometimes have to hit them over the head with a cast iron skillet. :) What is obvious to females is not to most men. But to be fair, there is male behaviour lots of women just don't get either.

[Jjpayne]

I can testify to the iron skillet!

[debi2622]

LOL. Now you've got an excuse. Those things can cause damage!

[Jjpayne]

True

[Yumii]

Clueless about what or generally speaking clueless? I'd assume it depends entirely on the guy.

[Jjpayne]

Clueless about girls...

[Yumii]

Naturally a guy, who've never been a girl, should not know exactly everything about how being a girl works (emotionally, sexually etc). Calling them clueless sounds a bit harsh, I'd rather say they simply differ from girls and therefore might have a hard time understanding everything.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would say they aren't that clueless. The ones I know aren't clueless at all. They seem to overestimate how attractive they are rather than underestimate.

[Ariarose121]

Very