Alright it's obvious that this question is somewhat cliché when it comes to sexuality and insecurities from guys. It's probably been asked on this very website thousands of times. But I want to word it in my own way and get your opinion. So if you're a girl and you're reading this, thanks in advanced for the response.
First thing's first, I'm increasingly insecure about my height now that it's stabilizing and I won't be growing anymore.
I'm more curious about general physical attraction as opposed to "if she really likes you, your height won't matter". It's clear the love is founded between two people on a MUCH deeper level than physical attraction. I mean, if you see a guy in the streets or at school if your a student, and he is below the average height for males, will you even acknowledge and consider him as an attractive person? Would you find a short guy hot, and would you disregard his facial attractiveness solely because he's short? I'm so insecure about my height that I feel girls, even when they're shorter than me, will not even look at me. I'm between 5'7" and 5'8" by the way, and people tell me that I have a good looking face all the time. I have a good physique as well, and I'm a very social person. But despite all my good qualities, I feel like girls won't ever notice me if they don't know me on a personal level.
Anyway, there's really only one way to ask this question, and it's pretty straight forward so I'll stop rambling now.
Girls, in all honestly, what does the height of a guy mean to you? Just how significant is it?
Thanks again! :)
First thing's first, I'm increasingly insecure about my height now that it's stabilizing and I won't be growing anymore.
I'm more curious about general physical attraction as opposed to "if she really likes you, your height won't matter". It's clear the love is founded between two people on a MUCH deeper level than physical attraction. I mean, if you see a guy in the streets or at school if your a student, and he is below the average height for males, will you even acknowledge and consider him as an attractive person? Would you find a short guy hot, and would you disregard his facial attractiveness solely because he's short? I'm so insecure about my height that I feel girls, even when they're shorter than me, will not even look at me. I'm between 5'7" and 5'8" by the way, and people tell me that I have a good looking face all the time. I have a good physique as well, and I'm a very social person. But despite all my good qualities, I feel like girls won't ever notice me if they don't know me on a personal level.
Anyway, there's really only one way to ask this question, and it's pretty straight forward so I'll stop rambling now.
Girls, in all honestly, what does the height of a guy mean to you? Just how significant is it?
Thanks again! :)
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One more thing. I know, as a short guy, that a lot of short guys feel like, next to a tall guy with equal or even less attractive facial features, we stand NO chance. I feel like I speak for a lot of us vertically challenged men when I say this.
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