He said ' those guys so hot , do they make you wet?'
so he isn't gay or anything
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Women tend to be very suddle and it can confuse men... most men are not sure how to or shy to approach women... Men are more direct and don't hide their interest where as more women tend to hide their interest and it makes men question what signals they are getting and back down to avoid rejection
I haven't got a clue do you two hug? Kiss? Have sex? If not and he is checking out guys may be he is gay. Who knows. Yes you can ask him. As a matter of fact you have the right to ask anyone you are starting a relationship with anything you want. They also have the right not to answer
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Wait did he say two guys were hot? Could he be gay? I don't know just a thought. Anyway I think he's not interested. When you go great lengths for someone and they don't appreciate it or return the kindness I think he is selfish or not interested. He could be gay, never know 🤔
But you don't want a relationship that's a one way road right? You want him to show appreciation as well right? Show that he likes you, give you little surprises that you do for him, be there for you, show interest in you, talk to you on his own, show that he cares about you, and the list goes on.
If that is all on your part and not his then what are you gaining from the relationship? You are basically taking care of him all the time like you are his slave lol not to exaggerate. You are jumping through hoops for him yet he doesn't do anything for you.
I mean how shy can he be? It's obvious you like him and if he is seriously unsure and let's you do all the work because he is that clueless is probably not possible.
But of course don't let me rain on your parade. I am just being realistic. Definitely ask him out that's the only way to know if he likes you. I hope it works out for you. Maybe he's just really clueless?