Why is he so insecure?

[Anonymous]

A stock image of a girl having the exact bikini

My husband (28) and I (25) were at the beach yesterday in Sardinia, and I was wearing this exact bikini (One of my favourites for years, even before I met him) when he noticed some random guy apparently having a raging bulge. He pulled me aside to ask if he was staring. I said he did once or twice, and I held his hands and walked a bit further than that guy. He literally wanted me to go back, but I insisted on choosing a spot further away. He appeared so pissed off, and told me how he didn't like that guy having a bulge. It wasn't under my control, and according to him, me showing off my hot figure (acc. to him) caused this. I reassured him and was in a problem-solving mindset, but he ain't ready to understand. Have any of you faced a similar situation? How do I deal with him?

[jahaims]

It has nothing to do with insecurities. It's normal to not want your partner to attention seek via their sexuality. You dressed in something revealing to get attention.

[Asker]

I've always dressed like that, and I reassured him in every possible way

[Emmytexrex]

Yh do you like the attention other guys give to you

[Asker]

I don't seek it. I mean it is a confidence booster but his attention is all I want

[Emmytexrex]

Thanks for the mho

[Anonymous]

Maybe because he thinks you are trying to seek attention from the guys.

[Asker]

I tried explaining that I don't actively seek it. I did everything I could to reassure him.

[Wise4myage]

Tell your husband to stop being so insecure. You look great by the way!

[Wise4myage]

** She looks great, lol

[Asker]

I like how she looks lol. I did say it blatantly, but he's putting all the blame on me

[Anonymous]

That's a great bikini--particularly if you have a really nice ass. How big are your boobs and what's the coverage like up top? Which view (front or back) did the guy with the boner have?

[Benlovegs]

I’d take you to a nude beach

[Chase_1234]

That’s cool

[Anonymous]

Sure