Fuckboy or immature?

[Anonymous]

He liked me but she had refused to hang out with me when I asked him out once.
I asked him if he was free but he said he was not and had things to do.
He ignored me largely and came to meet his female friends , would hang out with them but refused to hangout with me.
He would take them out too.

But if I stopped talking to him, he would start getting aggressive and angry and would become rude towards me.
I dont understand. He can ignore me, refuse my offer and never start a proper convo on his own but expects me to do everything for him? Do i not have feelings?

He kept hurting me yet I kept giving him chances, tried to clear the confusion yet I'm the one whom he hates.

I tried to talk to him after he started giving me glares and he got defensive and rude claiming i was ignoring him when i never did.

He would say hi and walk away and i felt he didn't want to talk and after that he started giving me angry looks.
He also left this country and moved away after he cut me off and refused to hear me out

What do I do?

[aspiringasparagus]

He sounds like a total self-centred jerk. The fact that he makes effort to meet and hang out with female friends and not you is also quite dodgy. Also, he gets mad at you for ignoring him but then doesn't realise he started doing that to you first?

Honestly, he sounds both immature and a fuckboy. You can do way better than him. Cut him out of your life. Forget he ever existed. If he contacts you again after cutting you off, tell him that you will not put up with his disrespectful behaviour anymore.

[Asker]

Dodgy?

[aspiringasparagus]

British slang for someone being suspicious or something not quite right.

[Asker]

And i never ignored him. He would say hello, whistle and walk away. I would say hello but hoped he would stop to talk but he didn't. I thought he didn't want to talk but after that he accused me of ignoring him.

[Asker]

Do you think he was afraid of commitmemt or was hookinv up with other girls and was unsure if he wanted to give all that up to be with me?

[Asker]

Pls respond

[aspiringasparagus]

It sounds to me like he was keeping you around as a backup option whenever one of his 'female friends' was too busy to hang out with him. It is likely he might have been hooking up with other girls. He probably liked the ego boost he got whenever you gave him attention. Honestly, just move on from him. If a man likes you, he will make effort to see you.

[Asker]

When wd first talked 2 years ago he asked me have we met before and i said no and he stopped talking to me.

[Anonymous]

You need better communication.
This person obviously thought all the things you are saying about them about you too. Both of you all pissy and stuck up thinking the other is ignoring you or being rude. You both are! Communicate.

[Asker]

He refused to clarify

[PondyPand]

Both, doesn't have to be exclusive. Just stop talking to him regardless.

[mynesterion]

Sounds like an attention whore. You can do much better. Forget him.

[Furuok]

Out of sight, out of mind.

[arun934]

Move on.