You are trying to get over a girl?
Thinking of a girl?
Imagining of it with a girl?
When I listen to love songs it's usually because I'm imagining about a guy or it's a lovely tune.
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I listen to plenty of love songs. But most of them are Metal songs. But I do like a lot of non metal love songs, it’s just more rare because if the music isn’t good I can’t listen to it.
For me, I think about a variety of things. A girl I like. I might imagine it’s about her or I’m singing it to her or she likes my song and we connect over that song.
Or maybe I’m just feeling lonely and wish I had someone. That’s a good trigger for love songs. If I get really lonely I’ll listen to more metal love songs and stuff like queen or other bands with great singers.
It depends on a lot of things, mostly the song and my frame of mind.
As a teen, I used to listen to "Falling" by Julee Cruise, over and over again, imagining what it will be like to fall in love. Now I listen to it more casually.
There are songs that make me think of past relationships, love in general, past sex, future sex... there's no reason in particular, and the same song can elicit multiple emotions. Mostly I listen because I like the song 😊