Do guys listen to love songs?

If a guy listens to love songs a lot- does he listen to it because...

You are trying to get over a girl?
Thinking of a girl?
Imagining of it with a girl?
Just casually?

When I listen to love songs it's usually because I'm imagining about a guy or it's a lovely tune.

Do guys listen to love songs?


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  • I listen to plenty of love songs. But most of them are Metal songs. But I do like a lot of non metal love songs, it’s just more rare because if the music isn’t good I can’t listen to it.

    For me, I think about a variety of things. A girl I like. I might imagine it’s about her or I’m singing it to her or she likes my song and we connect over that song.

    Or maybe I’m just feeling lonely and wish I had someone. That’s a good trigger for love songs. If I get really lonely I’ll listen to more metal love songs and stuff like queen or other bands with great singers.

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  • It depends on a lot of things, mostly the song and my frame of mind.

    As a teen, I used to listen to "Falling" by Julee Cruise, over and over again, imagining what it will be like to fall in love. Now I listen to it more casually.

    There are songs that make me think of past relationships, love in general, past sex, future sex... there's no reason in particular, and the same song can elicit multiple emotions. Mostly I listen because I like the song 😊

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    • Falling has a soothing melody!

    • I find it extremely peaceful. Glad you like it too 😊

    • I was thinking about this post on my drive home.
      1. I Remember (deadmau5 & Kaskade) - makes me think of loves that never were.
      2. Bloom (Odesza) - makes me think of the progression of sex
      3. Hairy Trees (Goldfrapp) - just one continuous orgasm

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  • I was on a bus in London, sat across from a guy around my age. He was smoking, with saggy pants and gigantic boots. Playing from max volume from his earphones was love story by Taylor Swift. Whether he loved the song or was trying to p-ss everyone off, I adore him <3

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  • I'm not much of a music person in the first place but when i listen to some i don't usually care what it is about. I just listen to whatever sounds nice. Generally love songs don't sound "the best" to me but some of them are good.

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  • yes I do, I listen to get the emotion and connect with the emotion. Breakup time is esp strong time.

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  • Idunno, is "Crazy Bitch" a love song?

    Hey
    You're a crazy bitch
    But you fuck so good, I'm on top of it
    When I dream, I'm doing you all night
    Scratches all down my back to keep me right on

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    • Definitely! Haha

    • That's what I've always thought. True love is when the only thing that keeps you from fucking killing each other is how good it is to fucking FUCK each other. (If you get too old to actually fuck, then you move to batshit crazy head-games with each other.)

  • I usually don't liten to love songs. I prefer motivational songs lol. But if i like a love song it'll be bc ,
    -if it has a good meaning/ music
    -if it is relatable ( usually doesn't 😂)
    - if the girl I like ( non existing right now 😂) listen/like that song 😂
    - If it is from a movie that I love ( Sunflower- Post Malone )

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  • Well most of the songs I listen to currently, technically is singing about love. However it's a very upbeat and techno.

    So... I'm not sure if that counts.

    I mean like it or not I'd say the majority of songs are singing about love. Or a girl or a guy.

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    • The only love song I know you listen to is your girlfriend's exhaust engine.

      Jk, that's a very sweet song!

    • You are 100% correct!
      The song hits me in the feels everytime.

  • I don't like them as they remind me of what i never had.

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  • Depends on the moment, situation, feeling... I personally never feel like listening to any of those songs because, well, I just don't like them as my first choice.
    If for any reason I feel in love (let's say after a date), then yeah I may listen to one or two, but nothing too much. Also, never in front of other guys lol
    If I'm honest, most songs are about love. It depends more on the rhythm. For example, I would very very rarely listen to Ed Sheeran, but would probably listen to You Be Love by Avicii every day.

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  • yeah. I just listen to songs because I like them. i like the beatles and they had love songs which i listen to just because I want to.

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  • seems like most songs ever made are love songs anyway. I listen to them sometimes but I try to avoid them because the sheer volume of songs about love is annoying.

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  • I know I definitely played Lauryn Hill Ex Factor when I was recently broken up but I do casually like to listen to love songs. U can't go wrong with Bobby Caldwell every once in a while

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  • Not really... it's just boring compared to other songs I listen to. Songs I listen to needs to get me heated up for action.

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  • No they only listen to hardcore music, they never listen to anything else

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  • Most songs tend to be about love. We're bound to listen to them.

    For me I listen to it just casually if I like the tunes

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  • Yeah but...

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  • Yea I do. I also listen to a lot of breakup songs , mainly R&b but love and breakup songs are good. They are also artist best work

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  • The majority of songs out there are love songs, so they’re bound to listen to them, and it doesn’t have to have a deeper meaning.

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  • No thats weak as shit when i feel down i listen to 50 cent boi I'll have you cryin starin down the barrel of my nine ooooooo FIGHT ME NOW!!!

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  • yea cause some songs are good or breakup songs like fuck love by xxxtentacion and trippie redd

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  • Like any other song, I listen to a song because I like the song.

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  • I listen to a lot of love songs but o my cause I like them. There's no hidden meaning to it.

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  • Yes I know some males who listen to their favorite Country Love Song

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  • Yea like Twisted by Keith Sweat but I just like the song

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  • yes, i know one guy who has a love song on his ipod. i was surprised

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  • Only the love songs from my chemical romance or similar bands. That's for me anyway

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  • I don't listen to love songs generally. Sometimes I listen to sad music when I'm sad but that's it

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  • Yes.. The lyrics i listen to reminds me of my friend.

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  • For Me is Leave Get Out.

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  • I do but they just get me sad.

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  • What kind of love songs?

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  • Thinking about a girl he’s in love with

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  • Yes, there are romantic men out there

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  • Yes they do

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  • No. They only watch porn

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  • Yes...

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  • Yes... Lol.

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  • Yes we do.

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  • Simple answer: No.

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  • I'm usually not a fan

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  • Not really, it would have to be really catchy.

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  • Most of love songs are written by males

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  • Rarely anymore

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  • No Lol

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  • No, I don't listen to music for it's lyrics.

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