My older brother (27) taught my little brother (14) to keep an eye out for the guys I date. I don’t get it, why are brothers so protective over us...

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It's my job to look out for my little sister and keep her safe mentally, physically, and emotionally. Last person who messed with her I got involved and he picked a fight with me... I put him in the ER
Because they're our sisters, and we love them, and we know that the world can be a terrible place.
Well not all brothers are that protective - my brother isn't.
Though I kind of think it's cute. Bit I guess it's because none of my family members have been protective like that.
I had to put up with 5 older brothers.
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We know the difference in physical strength and we know what it is like to be a man.
You have likely never felt a man's full strength. especially not when aggressive.
It is painful to say, but as a grown man, grown women seem like children in terms of strength most of the time. Obviously there are exceptions, but as a general guideline it is very true.
So they are worried an unscrupulous man could hurt you, as it would be very easy for him to do so.
They care about you and don't want you to get hurt.
So logically, they protect you.
It's because they know how a large percentage of guys are: they use girls for sex and then dump them. There are plenty of good guys too, and your brothers are trying to protect you from the bad ones.
Would you rather they didn't care, and let yo learn the hard way how bad some guys can be?
I dunno. I dont think that’s necessary. Its basically saying just because she’s a girl she’s an idiot
I mean what makes a male choose a partner better than a female. They dont. Its bullshit
Its just male superiority complex and stupidity
The amount of idiots that lose their shit because a sister banged some dude is jokes
I assume because it is how they show affection to them, or because they are worried about them, or possibly both. I have two older sisters, but they lived with my father most of my life, so I never really had this situation happen or I would be able to explain better.
Humm. I'm gonna have to think on this one... I do know I'd break the BF's legs if I found out he was physically abusive to my sister.
As males, they know what goes on in the minds of their fellow testosterone-fueled peers, with some being worse than others.
Believe me: If you knew what the male mind is capable of, you would be thankful for their protective eye.
Because they love you, they understand the behavior of other guys better than you do so they understand what to look out for that could potentially cause you harm.
Because women are terrible at knowing how men think and behave so they are terrible at spotting lying scum-bags or no-good guys. Brothers are guys so they are good at that sort of thing.
Well cause women are physically weaker than men.
And young women make tons of stupid decisions.
Like most of the women I knew and still know love to drink. But they're light weights...
Same reason why girls are overprotective about their brothers. It's a matter of caring and responsibility and of course the younger one always have "over protective" as their idea.
Cause they care about you. So that you will only get the best and this shows their affection in a kind of very odd way.
The real question is how come girls need so much fucking protection all the time.
1 - I am 17 would you count me as Kiddo?
2 - 18 would you count me as Kiddo?
It's instinct to protect family, I'm as protective for my brother as my sister
They don't want you to get hurt physically or emotionally
We guys consider every girl a sex object except our sisters who are considered as most protect-able, delicate and innocent creature.
I pre-screened them niggas for bullshit, courtesy for me sister. Most failed except for the one she eventually married. 😉
Cause teenage girls who are in love are emotional and naive
Guys are the defenders of what is good and righteous.
Because they assume other guys think about women the same way they think about women.
Because they don't want you to get hurt?
They care and know what guys think of girls
I think it's mostly just a natural thing in guys we are like protecting our family
Male instinct to protect women, I guess.
i'm pretty brutal. you don't fuck with family
family over everything my man!
First of all, That's controlling not protective.
If you dont want family by all means
Ofc I do. I just don’t want my brothers to be overly protective
Bc it's their sister
I don’t really interrogate my brother’s girlfriends lol...
I think it's cute
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