It's not even like I try to compete or have him all to myself, and I don't get jealous when he hangs out with girls. But these girls... it's like every time I say ANYTHING about me and him hanging out or spending time together... they always rebuttal with something like "Oh well, he and I went to this concert together..." or something that refers to a time THEY spent time with him.
They act like they have the biggest crush on him, but they have great boyfriends of their own that they live with and love a lot. So what's the fascination?
Granted, he's never had a girlfriend and he's never had sex. One of these girls mentioned to everyone last night "Well he and Claire hooked up last summer but I was not gonna let him have sex with her because she's a dirty whore... he hasn't had sex and he's waiting for the right girl, and she obviously hasn't come along yet..." and she looked me right in the eye when she said it.
They constantly flirt with him and treat me as if I'm a threat. Sometimes it seems like he likes me but I don't know...
Why are they so protective of him? I have guy friends that I am extremely close to but I don't treat them like they're my property..
I just don't understand it. How can I make them stop? They're acting like they're in highschool when we're all adults now... I mean when you're 22 there's a certain level of maturity that you should have and these girls obviously don't have it.
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From it sounds like to me is this poor guy was someones emotion husband, basically his caregiver felt alone so she basically made him fill in the void in her heart. And anytime he tried to establish independence she smothered him even more, when he no longer wanted training wheels, to stop kissing her and hold her hand she felt betrayed and made him feel like shit. Every girl he liked was a whore, not good enough and the ones she did like smothered just as much as she did. Because of this, he learned to connect with women emotionally on a superior level and physically it pretty much never happened. So he goes through life connecting emotionally with many people who develop the same feelings for him as caregiver and it has ruined his life because he becomes someones best friend without realizing it, the rock to lean on and another girls emotional husband. I bet you 1,000 American dollars if this guy fell off a cliff and broke his neck your friends relationships would end within a year. Because their boyfriends are dicking them every way from Sunday and this guy holds their hand and calls them pretty, has fantastic memories with him and all the emotional stuff their men can’t do. I went through this in my life, I think your best bet is to make him realize he’s in a 3 way relationship with these women, the only part that is missing is sex, they are having an emotional affair with him. Because if they didn’t like him, they would have just cock blocked him and went their way, but the fact they do this and drag him back into their lives is proof that his mom did the same thing to him and made him feel guilty and now when he wants to do things like have sex and a relationship they make him feel guilty for wanting it too.