Guys, if you deleted a girl's follow request on Instagram, does it mean you don't like her?

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... But maybe he's nervous about me seeing what he posts? Or scared that I'd judge him?

It's weird he deleted my follow request, cos i was getting a few signs that he likes me - he was always checking me out (staring at my entire body & face, & giving me intense eye contact) & seemed nervous.
Sometimes he was really smiley
(but he might just be like that anyway).

~ And when i caught him staring at my face, he looked away immediately!

But maybe i was 'reading' him wrong?

I'm also friends with him on facebook. He sometimes watches my facebook stories.

SexyAshh · Accepted Answer

Guys can stare for other reasons then attraction... just like people stare at car crashes.

I have a flirty personality, its continuously taken out or context when im not in fact flirting.

In my mind there's what i mentioned, and then there's the fact he may have a girlfriend that he only posts about on one platform and not the other. I do this too.

Second, he may be very private and not want to share with you something that may be very private to him like his insta.

Honestly those are the best scenarios im reading

PrincessGrail · Accepted Answer

He may have stuff on his insta he doesn’t want you to see.

Tylord92 · Accepted Answer

The way I see it there are two options.
A) He didn't recognize that it was you so he deleted it because he doesn't like to add random people.
B) He's nervous that you'll judge him for what he posts or his sense of humor or whatever. His facebook might be his "safe" account where he keeps his humor or pictures to a minimum because he has family added on there so he doesn't mind adding people he doesn't know very well.

gym4ever · Accepted Answer

i rejected a lot girls not cuz i didn't like them but i cuz i post a lot shit stuff on private acc, and i was actually attracted to them but i dont want anyone to see stuff i post.

SjE78 · Answer

depends on the girl, i mean i denied a couple of follows the other day cos they were from Russian porn scams, you know you accept and moments later you get a spam inbox message about clicking a link to some dating site etc... often saying about seeing their nude pics

I want someone genuine, i wanna settle down... i am getting tired of meeting fake or scamming people so most the time I refuse unless i either know them or are part of the cosplay/fandom i follow

smg99 · Answer

I experienced exactly what you posted here ;) today I’ve lost my interest though he does exactly the body language cues yours exhibits.

They are so scared these guys of everything!! Like their life depended on it and not carefree at all though they crave that. Ironic

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I usually was always the one getting girls to follow me
or message me and i never would unfollow them or delete
them from social media it was always them that did it
I just think people get issues and they delete us from their
social media it could be their involved with other people so
they leave us swaying in the breeze cause they found some-
one new to talk with or they got someone new on the hook
i wouldn't let this bring me down cause girls did it to me.

Anonymous · Answer

To be honest I’ve done that to a guy on Facebook I was super attracted to, but only because I don’t rep I knew him well enough at that point. I prefer to get to know people in person rather than see their whole life history of ex girlfriends etc all over Facebook before we’ve even been on a few dates personally.

Logorithim · Answer

Given what you mentioned above, I think the most likely explanation is that he doesn't want you to see what he posts. He doesn't seem to be disinterested.

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

l don't know much about Instagram l am on Instagram l am called Mr Edwin Maver but l am not following any one and no one is following me l can't remember your Instagram details l think l last saw you playing your guitar on Instagram l am not on facebook if l liked a girl there is no way l would delete or unfollow the girl maybe he does not want you to see his posts he might have things to hide?

SarahsSummer · Answer

It could be several things. Before you get concerned, these 4 rules may help you  Especially #’s 2 and 3

spartan55 · Answer

Do yourself a favor and stop believing any actions on Instagram mean anything when it comes to real life.

Mikey_Ramone · Answer

Usually I would delete one's account on IG because I don't trust them. Part of my "trust-no-one" policy. There's a lot of spammers and scammers there - you know that. I even report them to IG team.

5yrup · Answer

people are private for all kinds of reasons, maybe its because he doesn't really know you and only accepts trusted friends?

Liam_Hayden · Answer

For me, it would mean I don't know her and thus am not willing to share that much of my life with her. In your case, it sounds like he might be posting things he does not want you to see.

IlyaTheImpaler · Answer

It means I do not want to be watched because of the contents I post 😂

Browneye57 · Answer

You're wasting your time on instagram. Don't put any stock in any of that bullshit.

Pejtu · Answer

if i remove someone from my Fb instagram or other it means only one thing - i dont give a fuck about this person i dont even wanna talk to her/him

Noodle_fan · Answer

there is a chance that he probably mistap and ended up rejecting your request too.

CT_CD · Answer

I'm scared that she'll judge everything i post / she'll make fun of me... etc.

BigMash572 · Answer

Maybe it’s a topic or subject that he don’t feel Comfortable with you seeing comfortable Shit in my heart your feelings

GWhite_22 · Answer

For me, its because I don't like her and don't want her seeing my post.

ghostingz · Answer

it means my social media is none of her business so yeah prob don't give a shit about her

TallAnon · Answer

I wouldn't want to be associated with her or talk with her.

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