Ahh, this hurts to look at. Something similar happened to me, and I know that liking someone makes you willing to put up with anything. Here are things you have to realize:
1. He doesn't care about you. He won't take you out on dates or cuddle because he doesn't want to spend time with you 2. He isn't putting much effort into his texts, he doesn't want to get to know you 3. Once you give in and send him a nude/ have sex with him he will stop texting 4. I am guessing that the reason you are okay with him is because you are insecure and he makes you feel wanted. I'm sorry to say this, but he doesn't want you. He wants to see if he can make you give in with sexual favours. You are probably a beautiful woman, but his compliments are for his own gain 5. This in no way defines who you are. It doesn't mean you are unwanted or only good enough for nudes or sex. It's his problem, I can already tell what a sweet and trusting person you are. It breaks my heart, please find someone else
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Yes, I am insecure. There are guys that treat me better than him still I've been talking to him because he is a doctor and really handsome.
Hunny leave him, if he treats you this bad now he will treat you worse as time goes on, if he is indeed a doctor it means he has passion, determination and intelligence since he is a licenced professional etc. He makes time for you when he sees a opportunity to get sexual with you but never makes time or shows interest when you give him the opportunity to get to kniw you more or spend time with you
Lmao... that's your crush? Because it's very clear the feeling isn't mutual...
I'm afraid there isn't going to be a happy ending to this. The sooner you move on the better.
He is coming across as the use and abuse type. He just wants sex... see you naked... take what he can get and then make a quick exit...
And it's clear he wants a friend with benefit kind of relationship... like just string you along for as long as possible until he finds something better... so unless you're open to that possibility.. I suggest you wise up and cut him out of your life.
I don't just want to have sex. I want him to fall in love with me. He looks so good, is an orthopedic surgeon and has a lot of money. He called me beautiful too.
Sweetie, you are still very young. You have time to find someone better so why even bother with this jackass? Take it from somebody who has been there and learned the hard way. This guy doesn’t respect you. Ditch his ass, you deserve better
Drop this child like a hot potato, he does not respect you all he wants if to F**K you…find yourself a man who loves you and respects you.
Young lady, please listen to what I have to say and please take it to heart.
If I could my life over, I would never have sex outside of marriage and never look at pornography. It is said and in my case is true you take every sex partner and every fantasy to the bedroom with you and this adversely effects your relationship and sexual behavior with the one person you have chosen to be with until you die.
I know that seems unusual and extreme but please wait until you meet a man who is respectful, honest, loving and is worthy of your love. Trust me it will be worth the wait.
Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. You deserve a man who loves you for you, who respects you and wants the best for you. A man who wants to protect you and provide for you. This is why we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment. Without commitment it is not truly love.
Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.
he's talking to you and entertaining you till he gets to fuck you. That's all he wants and he's actually made that very clear. He dosnt want to talk any deeper if it's not about sex or superficial surface subjects because he is planning to stop all contact with you after. Dknt fuck him it sounds like u really like him and he's really not into you. Dont get hurt.
Because he is playing with you and has no interested in dating you. He is keeping you around figuring you'll let him fuck you if he keeps prodding at it cause he knows you like him. My suggestion drop him cause he obviously isn't going to be an improving factor in your life and will more than likely be a detracting factor in it.
You both sound very immature. If he's a doctor, which I seriously doubt, he's being condescending to you by speaking in vague, childish language. Again, IF he's a doctor, he must be pervert who trolls for gullible young girls to have his way with. Either that or he has a real life and is being rude in the hope that you will quite bothering him with text messages.
Find a real life boyfriend instead of a virtual "crush",
All he wants is to have sex with you and he’ll do and say anything to get it. He is a piece of shit. Stay far away from him. Me personally, I would bust his balls
Lmao is he an American teen boy cause he sound like one. Gosh why do you even bother responding such messages. He definitely want to use you only and he doesn’t really respect your answer. If you probably meet up he will try to convince you to sleep with him and such things. He sounds so childish and very stupid.
Drop him... He's not interested in you for you but what he can get from you, once you give in to him he'll throw you away like a piece of waste... You deserve better than that scumbag
He's a piece of shit, plain and simple. You can see that he only wants sex and pictures to best off to. You really need to find a better crush and leave this guy to his own devices.
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