What would you do if you accidentally brush against your friend boobs or she leans them on you?

[Anonymous]

She is a good friend. Would you say something, enjoy the moment or move away to avoid further contact?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to this girl I know and as I gestured showing her the length of my... mini allotment, I accidentally brushed against her boobs. I didn't say anything, and neither did she. I did note that she did not suddenly jump or appear uncomfortable though.

I remember one day this girl I wasn't really into, accidentally touched me and I moved away instinctively. She said it made her feel really bad.

Another time this accidentally happened, the girl told me that it was very much welcome. She was blushing like hell though.

[Asker]

I would expect all reactions you said (since they are friends and both married), but none of them have any reaction on the said actions. They both act like it is something absolutely normal.

[Anonymous]

This happens all of the time. Inadvertent contact is no big thing. Move on.
I had some female in a bar walk past me, possibly on a dare. She flopped both boobs against my arm like I hit two massive speed bumps in succession. If it is that type of contact, then something different is going on.

[Asker]

When he brushed her, first time he streched his hand to take a guitar from her hands and second time to leave some paper. When she touch him, she leans on his arm/shoulder when they are whispering something to each other.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope the guitar reach was accidental
The whispering moment, perhaps not?
Inadvertent contact is fine. If you want to make something out of it, I guess you are interested in something. If the guy has a SO, it doesn't sound cool IMHO.

[coachTanthony]

I yell BOOB GRAZE! That kind of takes the pressure off a bit. LOL

[Gavyn]

Good friend? Feel awkward, apologize, and try to move on.

Acquaintance? Depending on who it is, more than likely pretend it never happened as our relationship requires no apology nor does it allow things to get awkward (as it would be if I apologized).

[aa180]

Obviously I'd try to prolong the moment for as long as possible.

[Asker]

Even if you don't like her, or you think of her as only friend?

[aa180]

Of course, it's boobs! I'm not a demisexual so I don't need to have feelings for her in order to feel physically attracted. I'd feel women's boobs all day if I could.

[Shark_61695]

Minimise duration and reduce chances of reoffending by increasing separation.

[Asker]

And if man does none of that, what could that mean?

[Shark_61695]

A few options.

He is comfortable with physical contact and isn't worried about accidental contact
He didn't notice
He just wants any contact with someone

Just some guesses, I can only say how and why I'd act.

[spartan55]

@Shark_61695
Dude, he noticed.

[Shark_61695]

*shrug* I can be completely oblivious to the rest of the world, it would take more than a brush to distract me.

[Asker]

He brushed it (twice but on different occasions) but she lean on him while whispering something. He never moves or even flinch or say anything.

[Evil_Chuck]

Obviously, she wants me. CHA-CHING!
But really it's just a coincidence. Not necessarily unwelcome, but not intentional.

[Asker]

How would you know if it is intentional?

[CURIOUShErE1]

If I’m single and she is single and she is sure she is okay with it. I’m going in;)

[Asker]

They are both married and friends

[CURIOUShErE1]

That would be little weird. I guess it would depend on intent. If it’s just accident. I would giggle and move on.

[Anonymous]

Definitely enjoy the moment. I'm pretty sure most guys have gotten raging erections from this happening to them and can vividly remember the details.

[adika63]

Tell to tig ol bittiies off me

[Asker]

Would you do it even if you like her?

[adika63]

Especially if I liked her I’m just a silly person

[HereIbe]

Enjoy the moment but don't go beyond the moment.

[Asker]

Meaning

[HereIbe]

Meaning I feel the loveliness of it and don't move away but it is up to her whether it goes anywhere from there.

[spartan55]

Pass a free boob brushing? Not even when I'm 80.

[killmejerusalem]

I'd apologize

[Asker]

You would apologize why? In what circumstances you wouldn't say anything and wouldn't move away?

[StickStickity13]

Just accept it