If a girl wears long, baggy clothing & covers herself up, why do men still stare at her creepily?

[KezHarris]

I don't mind a quick glance, it just scares me when men (and women) much older than me, glare at me and can't take their eyes off my ass - it seems aggressive and threatening!

Its weird that i get even more negative attention, when im making an effort to cover my body up, so that men dont stare or harrass me.
(especially at the gym or in town)

So today, i was wearing a baggy denim jacket & long grey jogging bottoms, cos i just went to the gym, then i go to a kebab shop, then a few men (and women) kept glaring at me, rather aggressively, they were complete strangers and the men wouldn't take their eyes off my body! 🤮 and men were still staring at my ass, despite it not being on show.

Cos there's something wrong with them.

It's the way men are.

Other

[TheUniqueOne96]

I think when a person covers up, people like to look and imagine what's underneath.

It kind of seems like a girl will get attention anyway, like if she's wearing tight clothes, like leggings, people will stare, because they can see a lot, but if they're covered up well or wearing something loose, people will try to imagine what's underneath and I guess some like the idea of that.

Looking is fine, but if someone stares aggressively or something, then I understand feeling uncomfortable or something - looking is one thing, but no one has the right to just touch someone like that, completely uncalled for and I hope you don't and haven't, experienced that.

[JDavid25]

I think you think about it a little too hard.. People sometimes stare at me weirdly, and Ion care for the most part.. Although there was this one guy who wouldn't stop starin at me.. He didn't let up.. I kept thinkin he was gon follow me.. So, I get where you comin from at the same time.. Some guys are just too comfortable lookin at people Especially women.. Older people are not as censored as young people.. So they usually don't have a problem doin certain things.. Plus in they eyes you could have a nice booty..

[PrincessGrail]

I voted B. You are unusually hot, and unfortunately that leads to a lot of unwanted attention.

[KezHarris]

Aww!! Thanks

[KezHarris]

And yeah, i do get harrassed a lot

[PrincessGrail]

Used to happen to me sometimes in college. Part of it is your age. You're only 18.

[Dav1ss]

If you hide it it looks like you have something to hide

[TripleAce]

Ya unfortunately looking is not illegal
I definitely understand what you mean. Its an uncomfortable situation

I think sometimes seeing a girl in comfortable baggy outfits gives more ‘homeish’ type of look. They start to get that ‘how she looks at home comfortable’ type of vibe

Which might even become more attractive to some. They also get to mentally undress you. Which many enjoy

Sucks ya, do agree
I guess best thing is really dont look their direction. And move away out of view if possible

[constant_freeflow]

Well it could be your face is also very attractive and your build and height are being visually teased to them , unfortunately this will happen regardless of what you wear or age as well you seem to be quite beauty. I will say not all men do this, I don’t stare at girls let alone at gyms but I do have a quick glance but prefer not to as I am sure it is not the place for such admiration as some will say.

[Bluebot]

Maybe you have a nice ass that shows through baggy clothing. Its just how we humans work, if we see something we like we stare.

[GD360]

I have powerful imagination. I can see you naked 😏😈

[KezHarris]

Noooo! 😂😂

[asd_nasa]

Dafuq

[GD360]

I'm an artist I draw the human figure a lot

[asd_nasa]

Lmao clever comeback

[humanearth]

It's because your female. Thats it. Men see women like food. You could be wearing a suit covered in dog shit. And men will still stare and try.

[TomasLyy]

A: this post is just a humblebrag or weird flex

B: You're thinking about this way too much and might just be in your head. People stare at others all the time

C: This is a kink of yours or your just curious in the answers you'll get (I looked at your others questions and you don't seem the type to be worried about this)

[KezHarris]

Erm, excuse me? You dont seem to realise how scary it is, with the possibility of being followed home by weird men.

[TomasLyy]

The last one was suppose to be C : not C: and you seem ingenuine with this response sorry

[KezHarris]

Your getting blocked, wtf, how can you assume stuff like that?

[adamski24]

Girls can still be attractive when dressed down
But Its not nice there are staring and making you uncomfortable.

[s2firestar]

Well, if you have a nice ass, glares are to be expected. But baggy clothing will help.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Maybe you're just so smoking hot that all the baggy clothes in the world can't hide it.

[jjj101010]

If a girl is hot then guys r gonna look regardless of what she is wearing.

[Pinay_ako]

Sometimes more room for imagination

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's the way certain Men are

[Valnac]

Maybe there’s something about you that attracts that kind of attention.
Why don’t you just consider it a compliment and just enjoy life.

[KezHarris]

No, cos im scared of being followed home by strange men

[Valnac]

Get yourself a loud whistle!

[Mikester100]

If you’re wearing a thong, it shows even if your clothes are baggy :/

[KezHarris]

Not always. And are you assuming i wear thong?

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Its nature

[Vesta]

Creepily?