They want the guys THEY find sexually attractive to stare at them. Not guys they find ugly or creeps. Men will stare if you give them something to stare about. I can't stand lustful men. I think God I never wore revealing clothes. But creepy men are just going to be creepy no matter what you wear. I've been through it all. Men need to learn from the men who act like a civilized gentleman and not act uncomely towards a woman, let alone a lady. Growing up seeing that without much male role models have taught me many men are dogs. And that's wrong. That's why I never showed any interest in men in that way at all. Puts me off.
Unsure. I dress for myself firstly. And secondly, maybe my boyfriend. I can only assume that anyone else's attention may not be the goal of how they dressed. And how that staring is done makes a difference. The response would most likely be so much better if the man went up to the woman, innocently enough, looked her in the eyes and said - you look beautiful. not hot. beautiful or pretty work. then walk away. no gawking or trying to score a date. you will find the result much better. staring/gawking is kind of creepy.
Some girls, especially those who wear revealing clothing, like to be checked out. I heard a girl say one time, that she dressed sexy, so that the guys she wanted o notice her would notice her, but she didn't like other guys noticing her. I told her what she wanted was like someone building a large billboard along side the road, and put an advertisement on it. Then, expecting only the people driving by that she wanted to read the billboard, to read it. Others were not to read it, and she was upset because they did.
I've been asking the same question for at least 40 years!!
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If you think a girl is dressed like she wants to be flirted with, step up and give it a shot. If you just stare it tells her you don't know how to talk. Girls want to know that you can dominate their minds before they ever consider letting you dominate their bodies.
That or maybe they had a specific person or group of people they were dressed for, and it doesn't include you.
That or maybe they are an actual ho, and you staring without paying is akin to loitering.
When its summer and I wear a tshirt and shorts its not to attract attention.
When its so hot you could cook an egg on the ground im not wearing something thats gonna make me sweat even more.
It doesn't botter me when people stare just when people catcall.
They pretend to be upset. If they didn't want you to look, they wouldn't put it all on display.
They pretend to be upset. If no one was checking them out then places like this forum would flood with question from depressed girls complaining that no one checks them out and wondering if they are attractive or not. day it all comes to down if they like the man who is staring or not. If they like him then that man is cool and confident. If they don't like him then he is a creep. Negative attention is for women still better than no attention at all.
They want specific people to look and not others and you have to know where you fall without asking. And it has to be not too much and you have to know what constitutes too much automatically. Also they dress for themselves and don’t care if you look and you especially aren’t allow to have on opinion on what they wear, but they also don’t dress that way when no one else is around...
Basically don’t overthink it.
There’s no point getting sucked into that nightmare. You just do you and whatever they take issue with is their problem. Just shrug and carry on.
That's the women's logic.
A lot of women think, that actions don't have reactions. They think because they have all this new-found freedom they are free from any modesty or responsibility.
But it's what men wanted by giving them freedom in the first place.
They are basic girls who dont want others to realize they are basic, so they dress in cute stuff for an ego boost, then act like a victim to cover up their contradictive choices.
I have a great body, I am pretty and a gothic wardrobe has more holes and leather in it, than a rodeo 😆
Guys cat call or stare at me often, which I thank them for, because its just a woman's nature to attract male attention like that.
can't get mad at the dog for barkin... ya know?
I have never gotten upset. I wore it knowing I was going to get looks *shrug*
The only time I give any lip is when he acting like he never seen a damn girl before and LOUD about it... Than it just lame.
I wear revealing clothes because i like them. Look and look away. The moment you just keep staring you look like a physcho stalker.
Not to mention when i wear coverd up clothes, guys still stare. So y'all stare either way!!
Many reasons. Mainly because they get pressured by the constant eyes. Their first intention is to attract males but they then regret it when thoughts go inside their head that they are at risk at being called thot, slut, or white
I don't know tbh. If I wear revealing clothes I don't really get upset myself. It can become annoying sometimes just because it's happening all day. But I'd never become frustrated or pissed over it. It's bound to happen and it's natural.
Maybe they dress up for a special occasion or for some specific person? Maybe they want to be trendy or they look the way they look on that outfit.
Just because you wear makeup/wear a bit more revealing clothes (shorts for example) doesn't mean they want the attention of 100 thirsty/creepy guys
Staring is rude and will make anyone feel uncomfortable. Check it out subtly and no one will complain.
Personally, I'm not comfortable wearing revealing clothing. I wouldn't blame anyone if I got extra attention. What do you expect if your boobs are hanging out
It's not the staring that upsets us. Like yeah I dress nicely, I don't mind if a guy has a good look, I take it as a compliment. It's more when it gets to the point of being creepy by over staring
It is the pure chaos of the female mind. They need their attention whoring endorphins for that high but they are independent and don’t want to be objectified. All things are set in opposition just to f with the male sadistically.
I don't mind staring. Gawking and leering is what I don't like. 💙😇
we get upset because despite popular belief, most women dress for themselves. to accentuate their own curves and make them feel worth it. NOT for men to gaze at whenever they like to. yes, there are some women who dress to impress, but who are we to discriminate if they enjoy it? and yes revealing clothes attracts attention, but that does not mean that we want it or that we ask for it.
I don’t get offended. Stare all you like I look hot a F
I don't know really, from what women have told me, they feel like it is an artistic thing, showing off their body, but they don't want guys getting horny over it. In the end all we can do is respect their wishes, what else is there to do.
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