Its nice to hear about a girl being a virgin since so many seem to be whoring around nowadays in the name of "sexual liberation", though what liberating about giving your body away to random men who didn't earn your time or body nor do they respect you ill never understand. But its a feminist ideology, of course it doesn't make sense.
My point is, virgins are rarity, this makes them highly valued. There are also a lot of men who are sexually inexperienced or virgins themselves and are either sickened or merely uncomfortable with the idea of having sex with a girl who has been around and is "experienced". These men probably want to grow with the woman instead of merely gain some experience and sexual pleasure. Of course there will be those creeps to seek out virgins and manipulate them to have sex with them and take their virginity like a prize; be aware of these horrible men. Being sexually inexperienced is what most men are attracted to because men are having less sex (statistically) and are more angry and bitter than they have in many years, largely due to income insecurity but also a healthy dose of the social change women have created that hurts men and makes them feel vilified but also leaves them disgusted at women behavior. Men are SUPPOSED to be jealous. Its an evolutionary tactic developed to prevent cuckoldry. if the woman they are suiting lays with anther man there is likely a chance she will get pregnant and then divert time away from you and will be unable to have your kids as well. If she already has had kid with you then your child isn't being given all the attention from the wife and mother. Men rarely want to raise another mans child. So props to step fathers, we dont give you enough credit. Even if she doesn't get pregnant, she is now devoting time and energy to another man who isn't you... that's why we are jealous. Men NEED women to be by their side. We are better men for it. Women complete us, whether Mens Rights activists admit it or not, the reason they are MGTOW idiots is because women have wronged them in some way they find unforgivable. So we as a society need to once again realize the important of pair bonding.
@shinka1y234 I have never shied away from shaming men for that behavior. For me, it doesn't matter which gender is responsible. They both are using other people and themselves for hedonistic pleasure that brings no sense of real meaning in their lives.
And earlier on in my original comment I specifically call out men who are players and use this to manipulate young women. Men who sleep around have no respect for women. Just like promiscuous women have no respect for men. They see each other as prizes instead of people.
Per the Center of Disease Control's Youth Risk Survey almost 2/3rd of 12th grade girls have had sexual intercourse and other sources indicate 80% before age 20. And 6% will die as virgins. Therefore, in effect only 1 in 7 girls age 20 are virgins.
I know there are older men that say otherwise. And, there may be a few, but I don't know any young men that would reject a girl because she is virgin. However, most of us would prefer a virgin, especially if she is young. Because most guys want virgins and since there are so few virgins, other than the fact that most girls will lie and claim to be a virgin, if they can get away with it, that gives girls that are virgins a huge advantage over non-virgins in getting a boyfriend and/or marrying a guy.
For the large majority of men that would prefer a virgin, because we can’t find an attractive virgin, we have to lower our standards and accept a non-virgin. However, if we can find a virgin and other factors are equal or even close to equal, we will choose the virgin 11 times out of 10.
@shinka1y234 Men want to be a girls first. Women want to be a guy's last. Regardless, if you don't like it, you shouldn't have given up your virginity, but it is too late now to change that.
@shinka1y234 I don't belive that for one minute; not even a second. Because virgins have greater ethics, morality, and loyalty, it is not shallow to prefer a virgin.
@shinka1y234 Since having morality does not define personality I agree with that being a virgin does not imply she has a good personality, but more likely than not she will have. Now I don't wish to upset you. Therefore, if we lived in the same country and the same locality, based on your profile photo, I would accept you because I know that finding and knowing that a girl equally or near equally attractive is problematic at best. But I’m not going to Austria and you are not coming to the USA so that’s all hypothetical.
@Rundown They are from non-virgins and they hate hearing the truth. They resent and vote down when a guy points out that virgins are more desirable. I'm certain they know that virgins are more desirable, but they don't want to be reminded of it.
@Rundown You realize that virgins 18 or older are very hard to find. Especially considering that 7% of women will die as virgins. And those virgins are not available.
@Rundown Hardly! Per the Center of Disease Control (CDC) Youth risk survey 60% of girls have had sexual intercourse by January of their senior year in high school when the surveys are taken. And, other sources claim only 20% are virgins at age 20.
Yes and no. I feel that most men who do adhere to the double standard: they play the feel and raise their body count but when they want to settle down, they want to make sure they have someone that hasn't been around the block like they have and knows that she's clean. That doesn't take the woman's feelings into account.
Some men like taking that V-Card.
Some men don't care.
Other men aren't willing to patient and merely want to have fun, so having to deal with a virgin would ruin that aspect.
There's nothing wrong with any of these (aside from the first). I say that the right guy wouldn't care if you're experienced or not. You should recognize from the male comments the caliber of men that I'm talking about.
It highly depends on culture and also just individual people. In Western countries most people prefer someone with a bit of experience whereas in the place where I live, even having coffee with a guy alone is a serious offense.
I do have great appreciation for virgins though. I believe no one should engage in having anything less than committed relationships and not have physical relationship with anyone other than the person that you are committed to. It saves you from a lot of burden, trust me.
If means you haven't whored around/have a "purer" sexual morality/will not question their sexual ability or lack thereof because you have nothing to compare it to.
The morality thing is the big one. It means having a strong sense of self worth and choosing only those worth sharing yourself. Although, I still think you are appealing if you hold these standards and aren't a virgin.
@Regicider Is it the same for men? As in, if men have more than one sexual partner I should judge them for having no self worth and for not being a virgin?
It's not that I don't want my ability questioned. I hold a very high standard for myself and I will strive to be the best that I can be, and furthermore I am confident that I can fuck just as well as or better than any other guy out there, even though I am still currently a virgin. It's just that I don't want to be compared to somebody else, period. I mean, you girls don't like it when guys compare your bodies to other girls, do you?
As I said, even if you're not a virgin, it's the appeal of holding a standard. Yes, I think it's the same way with men. I should clarify that anyone can do what they want to do, but having self restraint or a clear history is appealing to those who want sex to carry more weight and value.
virgins are special for not being with anyone it a new and fun thing to them. I should not lost my to a girl who was with a lot of guys. I was thinking it was time I was 22 and I feel old and want something new in my life. She gave me an std and I all most had a kids with her and I think I going to hell. But so many time befor I did older women who want to do it with me and stop me cause I was not ready and they did not want me do something I may have not want to do. But this girl she just want money and she gave me lice and dram. Just today she be with lot of guys. I think she be the first and last girl I be with but I don't know.
Do not do it unless you want to also Do not use other I try not to use her I want a nomal one. But there to many scam out there. I want try just be with many 2 girls at the end. Being with her is not good and she seem me as just a guy give her thing. She going back like she never new me try thing and I guss she be ok. She have lot kids with lot of guys and I glad I not suck with her.
I don't know any more people want be sex positive now day. Fine a good guy want to stay with you or just a hook up if you want I don't know anymore.
Your not a whore or is a harlot. You kept yourseld even though you have many opportunities to have sex. Overall guys like the idea of being first to take your virginity, but many care less if your a virgin when their not virgins themselves. Take that from me who is a virgin and never dated. The problem is they don't want to get married first before losing their virginity or even sharing that lost together with that person. Some respect you, others will call you a prude, and the rest will not care. At the end of the day is not worrying if a guy wants or like a virgin. what matters is what makes you happy and and desire to do. Because premarital sex is a sin before God. For good reasons. And the reasons are practically endless. Don't worry about it. Love yourself. You don't need anyone's else's opinion.
All the people, especially men, using the terms “whore/whore out” and “ oh men (only) want virgins” then keep that SAME energy when you’re around non-virgins or shall I say the Aces? 👸🏽. A few of you probably fucked a non-virgin and didn’t say an ounce of this mumbo jumbo. Why? Because you know it really doesn’t matter or make a difference, pussy is pussy. Ladies, and gents also remember, a good pussy stays good no matter how many dicks is in it (real lucky ones it’s good even after birth) and it’s about health over everything. 👑.
Personally, no. Virginity, and the concept of saving oneself for marriage, are not prizes to be flaunted. Sexual compatibility is critical to the success of a healthy relationship. Too many people have suffered great emotional, psychological, and physical torment (including death) from entering into marriage without determining whether or not he/she is sexually compatible with his/her spouse. It’s unfortunate that this reality is stigmatized such that it’s not discussed openly and accepted as status quo.
We learn from each partner/experience. Happiness and general satisfaction often comes from being in a relationship with another who is curious, adventurous, open-minded, willing to step beyond his/her comfort zone as necessary, encouraging, reassuring, and much more.
Further, when both partners express a greater interest in the other’s pleasure/release/satisfaction, and put forth the time/effort necessary to bring such things to fruition, both are often quite pleased and content.
Most of them use the word "pure", and I hate it. My boyfriend says I'm pure cause I'm a virgin, but he doesn't how much I masturbate thinking about him, or how much I want him to fuck me, and when I try to talk about it, he just says it's not for now, that I'm too pure for him to imagine that, that I'll make the first step when I'm ready. He shows me no sexual desire, and I end up masturbating to the thought of someone who does want me sexually. And I hate it.
And trust me not all virgins are inexperienced, my past boyfriends never believed me when I said I was a virgin. Just because I have so much desire and lust and I'm not afraid to say it and I know exactly what I want to be done to me.
Personally and honestly... I think men like to know you want them bad enough to give it to them first. It's an ego boost. However, in reality, being the first comes with some responsibilities many men do not want or care enough to consider. Most men / boys are not emotionally mature enough to make it the great and meaningful experience as it should be. I would say I have no issue with being someone's first as long as I know they are emotionally and physically ready, but as a preference, absolutely not.
I wasn't ready:p I was having problems with him just 1-2 days before he took it, and I thought maybe I should do it cause my best friend told me she lost it to a random guy and it didn't seem like a big deal to her, and I 've always done what she does and thought "ok maybe it's my time to lose my virginity now", but I later found out it was a lie, I don't know why she lied but if she told me she actually lost it to a guy she had been dating for 6 months, maybe I would still be a virgin.
Well yes, there are many men who like virgubs, but not for worthy reasons. A virgin is seen as a pure conquest... And that's pretty misogynistic. There is also the pursuit of sex with a virgin because their vaginas will be really tight... also a pretty superficial and disgusting motive. Lastly there is the idea of a man taking away a woman's virginity which is rooted in alpha male dominance and female submission and often sadism (being turned on by the pain a woman may experience during their first time, etc. It's right that you guard your virginity because men chasing after a virgin is rooted in really negative things.
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In my experience, they don't care until they realize you're serious about it. I want to wait until I'm married to lose my virginity because I think it's the most emotionally healthy choice for me. At first, guys always say it's fine, and then a couple weeks in when they realize I'm not budging, they start to get annoyed and things deteriorate. So basically if you're a virgin who's willing to change that in the near future they're all for it, but if you're not, you're not worth their time. In my experience anyway.
Honey if a guy doesn’t want you because you won’t have sex with him. He’s not worth YOUR time! Think of it as, he is a caveman and you’re a gem. He doesn’t understand what he has so he would go for a rock instead.
I see your point Anonymous, but those men may be thinking you have a poor attitude about sex to the extent that if he does wait until marriage with you, you may still have that nonbudging attitude. It's supposed to be fun, relieve stress by releasing hormones on both parties, at first glance it seems like you could be taking the fun out of it. Perhaps considering a compromise may work, any skin-to-skin contact has been shown to achieve this, kissing etc. What about your behaviour when sex isn't the topic for debate? Does he enjoy your company and you enjoy his? If this is true, then sex will happen naturally between you two (yes he could be lying but that's the risk we all take), but simply refusing sex outright shows you may have a biased/bitter attitude on the whole act, and therefore the entire relationship.
I don't know, it's true some fetishize it, but to me, it means the girl hasn't been out with a lot of guys, and generally doesn't take sex for granted. I don't have a virginity fetish, but I think girls who see their sex as precious and only for someone special are much preferable. I see sex the same way. In this age, it's astronomically rare to find someone like that, especially since girls get propositioned a lot. To a lot of guys, a girl who values their sexuality can be a fairytale. I mean, no one wants to be used for sex, but a lot of people are okay with using each other as a scratching post.
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Some men like virgins because they think they’re easy to manipulate. Some men like virgins because they think they’re pure and they think it would be kinky to “deflower” you, sort of like tempting and angel. Some people just think it’s uncommon for an 18 year old to still be a virgin in this day and age. There are men who like virgins and even fetishize them. There are men who are completely uninterested in virgins because they think they’ll get attached. Men will have sex with a McChicken sandwich. There is bound to be some guy on this earth that would happily be with a virgin.
Girls your age that are virgins are special because it means that you have standards and having standards means that you have standards for yourself and having standards for yourself is something a lot of girls neglect because they are brain dead... That's why I think?
@shinka1y234 If something inherently valuable such as virginity, gold, diamond, a Leonardo Di Vinci painting, rarity makes it more valuable. If something has no value or a negative value such as an STD or a mosquito bite, rarity doesn’t make it more valuable. Well maybe it does in the sense that less is better, but it certainly doesn’t make it desirable. Even one mosquito bite is annoying, you certainly wouldn’t want more.
@DWornock virginity is inherently valuable whether its rare or not. 99% of men would choose to marry a virgin over a whore. This is true whether every girl was a virgin or none were. Thats why its not the same as say a bmw which is nice but if everyone had one then people would invent a new brand that had more status. There isn't anything more desirable than virgins for serious relationships so thats that.
@bamesjond0069 i hope you find a virgin who treat you like shit. I dont have respect for people like you and are you virgin yourself? If not stop dreaming about virgins
@bamesjond0069 I believe virgnity is a girl is valuable. However, beauty is more valuable than virginity. Almost all men, if given the choice, would choose a beautiful non-virgin over a virgin if she is a big girl.
@shinka1y234 well i hope you stop liking successful men unless you're just as successful. Dont you dare date a millionaire unless you are one too. Smh. How ridiculous.
Interesting question. I personally haven't been with a virgin in a mighty long time. I haven't given it thought until now. For me, I wouldn't be with her specifically because she is aa virgin. I find the who concept of waiting for marriage to be antiquated and problematic. Would I date a virgin if she wanted to stay that way? Only if we can find other avenues of sexual exploration. It's fun to see the excitement and pleasure of someone experiencing it for the first time. A consensual corruption is sexy. I've had a lot of opportunities to train submissives as a Dom. So even though they are not virgins sexually speaking, from a kink perspective, a few of them were shiny and new.
I think 'special' means unique as virgins are rare these days.
For me It means that there could be a chance that I may be able to share and experience your first sexual encounter. Yes your vagina may be untouched by another man, which is special in itself, but I get turned on by the fact that you trust me with that awsome role. I would be so gentle and soft. I would take my time to show your vagina just how truly special sex can feel. But that would come after I had aquatinted myself with her with my tounge liking it ever so softly and kissing it as though I were kissing your gorgeous face. Most guys just want to fuck a virgin, me I want to show that vagina something she'll never forget.
Now I can't speak for all guys when I say this because I'm weird but:
Its okay to be a virgin it doesn't put me off if a girl is, though I've never been a girls first. That being said, there is some pressure there. If I was going to be a girls first I would want to be sure it's what she wants and that she's not just doing it because she thinks she has to.
And finally there is a bit more pressure for a girls first time not to hurt them and to be ready to stop if they need you to. Some guys have trouble with control during, not me personally but I would still worry about it.
Yeah I was thinking, you were saying that you want the girl to have a good time and you'll stop when it hurts her too much. But I always thought, do guys really have the self control to stop? It would be messed up of him if she tells him to stop because she's in too much pain and then he keeps going because he can't stop. How can you reach a climax while someone is yelling in pain? That's disturbing.
Well I wouldn't know, like I said I wouldn't be able to. I'm a bit much of a softie I guess. I get that it's harder not to Like when your close to kissing someone it's hard not to kiss their lips when you're so close. The trick is having the control to stop which not everyone has
Most guys don't particularly care either way if a girl is a virgin or not - the thing they care about is whether the girl is willing to have sex with HIM. A handful of guys specifically find virgin girls special and/or attractive, and a handful specifically avoid them, but the vast majority don't care about her virginity status beyond how SHE feels about it and beyond making sure she is as comfortable as possible if they have sex.
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Some men do, others don't. I think it depends on how we both see sex. I'm a virgin for example because the idea of sex to me is as an act of intimacy between two people in love, ( I know that's rather idealistic, but I don't care) as opposed to satisfying some primal urge, or strictly for pleasure. If a girl is a virgin, I'll assume that she sees sex in the same way, and is in control of her urges rather than the other way around; that she has strong values as well. That makes her special in today's hook-up/one-night stand culture.
If they are calling you "Special" that means your a "special ed" student, you should be on the short bus that goes to school. In essence girl they are saying your "retarded" and just too "dumb to fuck" as in one would have to be thirsty and desperate to get with you. Yeah, "special" isn't special at all, they are being mean.
Ok then, Yes men like Virgins one time just to say they did. Then they spend the rest of their days looking or hoping to get with this. Make sense to you Sugar? And you is sweet, ain't trying to ruffle you none. ✌😎👍
They do. Some like them cause they are virgin themselves and want a virgin woman to marry. And some just like them cause they want to be the first one to plant their little flag that says " I was here first". Which is why a lot of men (not all of you, not all of you NOT ALL OF YOU DAMMIT NOT ALL OKAY!) like to bash on women for not being virgins even though they traded in their v-cards a long time ago.
Some men like virgins yes. It's like to be the first to mold and shape your first step into sexual world. Many men like that idea. Other men that also like it is the men that want to find love and if no other man have been in you it makes it emotional and special for them. But for me it depends why they are Virgin, I tend to get curious and ask if they ever are horny and/or if they ever have masturbated to see if they are normal in their head or not. Also I will not date some that wants to be married before they have sex. I prefer love and date, but if no sex I no date.
I'm seeing so much double standart in the comments. So men prefer virgins because they have higher moral? Yeah right. Virginity hasd nothing to do with being or not a shitty person. If I saw that the only men commenting this were men that were intending to stay a virgins for marriage/right person as well, then I wouldn't complain because they are just projecting something that they themselves to but because I know this isn't it, I'm calling BS.
A person throwing away their virginity early is irresponsible and lacks respect for themselves, you don't just throw your body to people so easily and so early, that's really bad character and shows so many other bad traits in a person's personality.
Following this dumbass trend that says virginity doesn't matter is a sign that the followers are just mindless irresponsible immature people who have no will of their own and just mindlessly follow the stupid herd.
@Syrian_survivor since when? People have the right to decide when and how they will lose their virginity. If they want to wait to marriage, then that's fine but if they want to lose it at 15 then that's also their goddamn business.
@bamesjond0069 then we also have the right to call them manwhores and cheat on them and act like it wan't our wrong doings I guess. And why would I want your respect? You mean nothing to mean while respect is something that fair people give, we have already established that you are not that : )
Well i wouldn't say cheat i would never stoop that low. But we know girls that have slept around cheat y'all do stoop that low so thats why id never date a girl like that.
@ILoveAnime yeah it's their business to lose it in whatever way they wanted and whenever, but don't do that reckless shit which like I said mirrors a lot of bad things in someone's personality and expect to have my respect, I'll give you as much respect as I'll give to a stranger, nothing more than that, and don't call me a hypocrite mysoginist woman-hating basement dweller when I reject such a woman from being in my life as a partner only for that reason.
As much rights you have to choose what to do with your life, I've got the right to keep certain people out of mine as well, and nobody can tell me shit as I'm not hurting anyone on purpose.
Don't expect respect from everyone if you don't respect yourself.
@Syrian_survivor boy, I respect myself plenty. The fact that you are judging me without even know me as a person is... Now, it's none of your business but since you are assuming that I'm just some "whore", I'll have you know that I'm a virgin. And I'm intending to keep that way. But that is because I scared of intimacy (not of sex itself). And you don't see me judging people based on their sex choices. People often put sex on a pedestal when it's no different from eating and sleeping.
@ILoveAnime I'm not talking about you friend, I say "you" as an example of a woman, nothing is targetted at you so chill haha.
And when did I ever assume such a girl would be a "whore"? I reread my comments many times and couldn't find that lmao, I did assume such a girl would be irresponsible and not fit for being a mother of my kids, that's it though.
Sex is no different than eating or sleeping... well we judge people for eating and sleeping too. Would you date a man who sleeps all day? Nah we call them lazy. Would you date a man who eats all day and is obese? I doubt it. We call them unhealthy fat ugly etc. So would you date someone who sleeps around with everyone? No. We call them a whore.
Over indulgence is not good in any aspect of life. Shows poor character and no respect for yourself.
"Special" means that he likes it and girls like you are hard to find. Do guys like virgin girls? I believe that most men do. The experienced guys might feel afraid and uncomfortable with virgin girls because they are not aiming to make the experience "Special" but simply for fun. And don't want her to lose her virginity that way. But again, being a virgin girls increases your value so your chances are high.
@shinka1y234 We are talking about from a man's point of view. I don't think most men would want to deflower a married woman. If you consider that as "Less value" by your definition then okay.
You said non virgin girls have less value. Even if you wait till marriage, you are going to have sex after marriage and then your not that "valuable" 'cause you are not virgin anymore. That is disgusting to me to estimates a womans value by virginity
Well, I heard that some men like virgins because it's easier to manipulate them. I've also heard that they prefer women with no sexual experience because they would be the first ones to have sex with them. I guess that's why men say that you're special.
I do. It's special because sexuality is then this new and exciting thing and there's no other guys colouring your experience. Being with other guys is just a gross element for most guys. It's not a question of loyalty or if those experiences were serious or anything like that. It's just a bit gross.
The more girls a guys has been with, the more it feel like it's not special, like it's not someone you want to commit to. Probably evolution at work.
When it's less or ideally zero guys, it's special and you want to take it seriously, you want her entire sexual and romantic experience to be positive and to be with you.
You don't have to relate to this. It's just how many guys feel, I think.
Personally, I find the act of taking a virginity to be really unenjoyable. They believe that it makes you pure, when no one over 10 is pure anymore. Also it means that you aren't "used goods"... As if people don't buy from places that sell used goods. People are hypocrites though.
Being a virgin doesn’t change your worth in a relationship, although I wouldn’t personally think of getting rid of it as a way to have a “hookup” with anyone. I myself am still a virgin, my boyfriend saw it as a good thing as far as I know. He knows I haven’t really been in a relationship with anyone else and have no experience in that sense, but he wasn’t put off by it. He’s been in 2 serious relationships which, as you’d expect, included that sort of thing. As long as you’re not pressured into doing it when you’re not ready by your partner, or by anyone for that matter, I wouldn’t worry about it. It’ll happen when it happens, don’t feel pressure to get rid of it as if it’s a burden, it’s ultimately a good thing. Hope that helps:)
I think it means that in their opinion it is unusual for a 22 y/o. That doesn't mean it really is and it doesn't mean it's inferior. Maybe they also want to make you feel uncomfortable. I think there is a reason they use a word that you cannot make sense of. They themselves don't really know how to feel about this and how to talk about their feelings, that's why they use such a dubious word.
I think being a virgin is an attractive attribute in a potential female spouse.
Nah, I dislike even the thought of being with a virgin and would not date one ever again. The whole process of teaching her, guiding, mentoring... It is not for me. I want an experienced woman and I honestly do not care how many men she was with before me.
All of us were virgins at some point and it is great if virgins fall in love and lose their virginity like that. However, personally I am not excited about them at all.
I have no major preference. I'm not anti-sex or asexual but sex also isn't that important to me. Though I don't think I would date someone asexual as I wouldn't want to 100% go without it. But I wouldn't be in a rush to get into bed with you. Pretty much everything in a relationship is more important than sex in my opinion. I believe a lot of people would disagree with me (and that's ok) though.
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They are perverts haha. I feel you. I would not want someone wha want me just because of my virginity. Being virgin do not make you something special. You can have fucked up personality and still be virgin. And the question is a little bit sexist that is like asking girls if tall, rich and handsome guys are special 'cause many woman desire that kind of men. It is nobody's business if you're virgin and not. And being virgin does not mean you are innocent 'cause you could have watched porno and mastrubate a lot. And it is also fucking cringe to feel special for being virginity.
“Special” could refer to how special someone’s first experience is, and wanting to share it. I’m virgin and would love for my first experience be with someone with no experience. Experiencing something special for the first time together. (It’s ok if she’s not virgin, but it would be very nice.)
I've never cared honestly. Even when I was a virgin lol. Not going to judge one way or the other and the only alluring aspect of a virgin is one of ego. Being the one she sleeps with after she declined other guys says something about me.
Even then it's not about her. So Big picture. It doesn't matter.
They are kinda special especially if it's a woman. Mainly because it's so easy for girls to get around. If they haven't slept around it shows will power and the ability to commit to something. Marrying a virgin would probably be ideal.
Only women are picky about virgin men. Which is one of the dumbest things I've known.
Girls don't want players or guys that sleep around. But at the same time they want a guy that's experienced in bed.
And I think it's slowly becoming possible to be a virgin and be experienced in bed. Thanks to those folks in Japan making sex robots. But now women find those offensive and degrading towards women.
Casual sex is common now, maybe particularly in your area, so a virgin girl is unusual to them. I think most men like virgins because they feel special if they’re her first and they like knowing no one else has been with her.
@shinka1y234 aww that's sweet. Baby it's humans like us bc of which world is still progressing. Had it been likes of you... See I'm saying everything logically. But you can't accept bc of maybe ego or something. I'm just stating truth. You can DM if you want to have a discuss this topic. I'm open minded
Source? How is that scienific? It is based on social norms. In this society it is expected from men to join the millitary or provide the family otherwise you a loser. That is also false.
@shinka1y234 lol give your facts fucktard You were probably fucked in the head some night since you are a cheap disgusting whore who would take any guys cock. Filthy cheap slut just accept the facts!
A guy always kinda feels like he's competing with every other guy you've ever had sex with. He's worried that you'll be thinking about one of your other partners when you're having sex with him.
If you haven't had sex with anyone, then there's not as much competition, and the guy doesn't need to worry so much.
I'm "enjoying" all these crepper fuckers below acting like they go out and find virgins all the time. 1. Thats creepy as fuck. 2. If you're looking to take someone virginity, you're the exact opposite of the person who should be doing it. 3. Ignore anyone who speaks for anyone but themselves. 4. Why is the sex offender dept. not jumping on the seedy blokes down here?
Every person has it's own choices. You can't impose your feelings on someone else. Before liking someone, you have to deserve to like someone.
How can virginity be the basis to like or not like someone. Every one has some past that opposite sex may object. So, One has to respect others. One cannot object on other's past.
So, No , it is independent decision to like or not like someone. It is completely independent decision and yes, your decisions tell a lot about you.
It means you're special. I really hope you save it until marriage. Everyone has casual sex these days and there are a good amount of men who know this is wrong and would love to date a girl like you but we can't find them anywhere because there are so few.
Yes we do but it's not like the 1800's where a man only goal was to marry a virgin. We like then but I think people put to much stock in that what else is she bringing to the table beside her virginity. Is she intelligent is she family oriented or goal oriented how is her personality and he sense of humor is she loyal. That's what I want to know and that what I need in a woman if she slept with one or two guys doesn't matter to me
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Statistically, if a girl is a virgin she's more likely to stay in a committed relationship / marriage. Divorce rate is only 5% for those who have had 0 partners before marriage (other than the one they're in love with ofc). At 1 partner, it jumps to 20%.
@βιυεsκγs Yes the statistic is based on sexual partners. However, emotional relationships can carry on into you next relationships and can be bad for the marriage.
no, a virgin who has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend is even worse. clueless about sex and how to treat people they admire. sorry not sorry, but I don't have to time or patience to wait around until they figure themselves out, I got shit I need to do.
I agree with this. When i first started dating i didn't know what the hell i wanted lol and i had crazy expectations. Looking back... I feel really embarrassed
Yes.. Being a virgin even though sometimes it's looked down upon... I thinks respectful and sexy in its uniqueness these days. That being said... never found a virgin before.. even when I was younger... I guess I match better either the experienced ladies lol
Yes some do, MAYBE most would like to try one, BUT is that the only type of woman they'd fuck, date and or marry? Dont be silly, hell no. Pussy is pussy, in the end.
Fuck anything with a pussy that i find attractive, marry virgins. There is no need to marry a girl who isn't a virgin because 5 girls hotter than her will fuck you and not require you marry them. Virginity is literally the only thing a woman can offer that you won't be able to find elsewhere. Why would i limit myself to one slut if i can have 3 sluts? Id limit myself to one good girl though because she can offer what sluts can't.
It means those guys want to be your first or only. Virgin women aren't my first choice, but I wouldn't reject them either. As long as she's not squeamish about sex then we can make it work.
With all that I have lived, I rather a woman who is sexually experienced.
A virgin woman will have big baggage of insecurities, and I had enough. After so many years without sex, I am looking all that a romantic relationship is about. I want the complete experience.
you are pure thats why you are special, yes men love virgin girl, specially muslim people, cause sex before marrige is not permitted in muslim culture, its a great sin, so muslim boy and girl both like virgin, i am a muslim thats why i know much about muslim, i am 24 and still virgin, so be happy that you are special cause you are a virgin, god loves you believe me, i love virgin girl cause i wants my future wife to be a virgin a pure girl, a special one.
Most yes, but I think it goes the other way around. Especially when it comes to a partner you plan to spend your life with. Would you prefer that a man has slept with women before you, or that you are his first and only? Men are the same.
In other words, he feels an extra special sense of need to be responsible around you. I'd consider most virgins my age to be a lot closer to God than the average woman my age is, and I'd not want to do anything that would undermine that.
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Stayed a virgin till marriage. And so did the person I married.
In regards to the "special" thing... Some will say that because they know they can wrap you around their finger. Or they'll say that to make you feel better about it. Some will say that but then lie about how many partners they themselves had.
@Bond94 i had when i was at 15-16 and when i was 23. It was more of a friendship it was casual relationship but i told them a casual i love you so they r considered bf? hehe
Being a virgin means that a guy would be considered special to you, and you'll be considered more special to him (unless he's a complete douche). It's rare to find after 18, which is what adds to the appeal.
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Guys like virgins when looking for a serious mate / wife because of what it says about her morals and priorities. It's no secret that guys frown upon promiscuous girls, of which there are a LOT these days. You are the opposite of promiscuous, which is a very good (and special) thing.
Yes we do, But it does not mean that we hate ones that are not, It can make us feel a bit weird that we might be sticking our penises were someone elses penis might of been but usually with us guys it does not matter that much as long we can have sex.
Cause you are special if you’re a virgin, a lot of people are losing it at younger than 15 so, also I like a girl who’s a virgin because I’m one myself and I want to learn everything with her instead of being taught it from someone
It means you're special cuz many dumbass girls follow the trend of getting rid of their virginity early cuz it's cool and trendy and they mindlessly follow it like apes cuz they have no personality or a will of their own, cheap media puppets.
Yeah I know that, I'm actually curious to know why that is the case, the US were responsible for the baby boom back then, it's interesting to see that they aren't as sexually rushing as many other countries.
People spend way more time on their electronics, there’s a big push against peer pressure, kids are expensive, and there’s not as much pressure to have a traditional family.
Virgins are challenging. A man would probably like that if he was really serious about the girl and considering marriage. If he's not looking for that, it's going to be a HUGE problem, so he wouldn't like it at all.
Obviously many of you guys haven't been with virgins. It's a FAR more life defining moment for a woman than for a man. When you a young girl's first, she will tend to attach herself because she thinks she loves you... or at least she loves you "enough" to be her first. Yes, it might not be true for ALL women, I get that. But it is for many. So if she's all dreamy eyed and IF you don't "love her or think you love her back", you'll never understand the impact of your action. The day will likely come when you're ready to move on and she'll say "but you made LOVE to me!" Then you'll say... what? Think long and clearly before you take a girl's virginity, guys. It's MUCH more serious to them than it is to "most guys", especially young guys.
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