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Nope. Men hate virgins. If they liked virgins, they'd devote their energy to preserving virginity. Since men devote their energy to ending virginity, the must hate virgins, because after I fucked her, she ain't a virgin no mo!
Men like to conquer virgins. Some men, at least.
@SilentWatchman, which means they hate virgins, since they DESTROY those virgins in the process.
Nah. I like eating pizza, but it gets destroyed as I eat it. Doesn’t mean I hate pizza.
@SilentWatchman, but you also don't leave behind a non-pizza. Instead, you have transformed a virgin into a non-virgin. Thus, you prefer for there to be more non-virgins than virgins.
If I were one of these guys—and I’m not—I would like the landscape to be littered with girls who remember me fondly as their first sexual experience.
@SilentWatchman, and walk funny?
You got it.
Because virgins are easy targets. They have no experience, so are perfect fodder for manipulative/abusive men. Just men of trash calibre will focus on your virginity status.
I would like a virgin, but that's because I'm one too.
@HelpfulWoman you nailed it!
It means that your vagina is probably really tight and it's going to take a lot of work and convincing to get you to put out for the first time and chances are that it'll only last for 15 to 20 seconds and it'll probably leave you with a fatherless child
Strictly in the western countries, it's not the norm. Special may mean 2 things, special cause you've held out for so long or special as in they'd like to be the first.
Of course they do. A virgin doesn't have stds, children from another man, or emotional baggage. That is why they have been highly valued throughout history, and why many cultures around the world praise virginity.
I love virgin. If someone just want to have sex and go away, they will be dissatisfied with it and someone who could want to have long term relationship and you be the only one of his then he will appreciate and love it.
It's not like we are knocking around doors searching for and banging virgins.
For those who believe in the institution of marriage in the real form as prescribed by religion, they would prefer to marry a chaste woman and the man himself would also hold on to his fucking around till marriage.
Yes there are men who screw around and to be able to screw a virgin seems like a trophy to them.
One day, both sides will find out who was wrong.
Not me. I would assume it was likely that woman who was a virgin was someone who didn't have a strong interest in sex. But if she was interested, it would be OK
Unless you're going to put out, or I'm going to marry you, then, no, not really.
Virgins are cool. But not prudes and morally self righteous people.
That's weird lol. All the men I talk to are cool about it and then I get others who tell me I'm missing out and virgins no fun and you ll never find a guy so word of advice don't worry what dudes like.
I respect women who are still virgins, they have self respect and dignity - just waiting for the right one. It's a sign of commitment as any girl can lose it so easily but guys are hungry for sex
also a good guy won't be pretending about who he or say any thing dishing a girl an hope to see you on a few of my post sense I'm a new fallower of yours an don't let the jerks ruin your day have a good day an good post
Yes, most men like virgins. They are usually tighter than people who are not virgins. As far as them calling you special, that could probably be taken a number of ways. Completely up to you how you want to deal with the situation.
It means he prefers to put his dick where another dick hasn't been.
And most guys don't want to rub dicks even if by proxy.
I see nothing wrong with you being a virgin, I'm a Male virgin cause simply
i want girl whose looking for marriage before i have sex with her.
Honestly who even cares about what men think... If he is the right one he won't even make you feel conscious about your virginity.
Men with very little experience, bad skills, or are small like virgins. There's nothing like pleasuring a woman who knows what she's doing and nothing better than learning a new trick
Yes there’s nothing like pleasing a women while she mentally compares you to all the other men she’s been with
I'd rather be the 3rd best of 20 guys than think I'm the best because she knows nothing.
I guess losers think like losers
Or little dick guys just think like little dick guys.
Why hunt a baby lion than a full grown one? Too afraid that you might get hurt?
So being a virgin makes you a baby? A immature woman has sex because she can’t control herself. A woman who knows how to think doesn’t let men who don’t deserve it stick their dicks in them when they have done nothing to earn it
Virgin women are some of the strongest women.
Sounds to me you're trying to make yourself feel better. There's no strength in a skillless individual in my opinion.
And yes a virgin is a baby. No one wants to take time to explain where what goes, then slow it down, then deal with the following emotions.
And there's a big difference between a whore and a nonvirgin. Women can sleep with me and not be hoes
Make myself feel better about what? Being a virgin? Sir as a woman being a virgin is one of the most amazing things. I don’t have to worry about infections or stds. I don’t have to worry about fishy odors or douching
I just don’t like that fact that you would call a grown ass woman a baby because she hasn’t spread her legs and fucked someone
So you're a baby who's mad because I don't care about purity. You sound like you're a virgin because you like being able to feel above people.
I don’t care what you like or if you care about purity or not. What you decide to do with your dick is none of me concern. Like I said before I just don’t like that your are calling grown women babies because they haven’t decided to fuck someone
Wait a minute.. you’re a 19 year old boy no wonder you think the way that you do
And you're an 18 year old. You still think you're important?
I’m important to the people that I am important to. And I’m important to myself. So yes I do...
I know I'm not a man but... I don't care if my partner is a virgin or not, UNLESS they aren't because they slept around for self pleasure
I think guys like virgins because some dont want a girl who has been ridden more often that a bicycle
False
i'm not and like I always see people being happy that i'm not, and I can't answer on their behalf, this is just my experience
If they call you special that means that they feel special being with you.. and if things go right you trust them with your virginity
Virgins have no idea what they are doing. I prefer experienced.
YES!!! I will only date virgins because I'm a virgin myself. I feel that 2 people who truly love each other and lost lost their virginity to each other brings a very sacred bond that makes the relationship so much more meaningful.
Yes, men like virgins, with a few men being exceptions.
Elizabeth: If a guy is calling you special because you are a virgin, it has two main possibilities. You are special, because you are odd. OR You are special because you have valued your sexuality and just given it away. He finds you special, because you have special good traits. Most guys will mean you have special good traits.
I don't know about others , but I want a virgin mate.
(Cause I am virgin 😅😅😅😂)
Yes, many men like the idea of a pure , unspoiled woman. It makes them feel worthy to have her give that up to them. They never have to worry about comparisons and the bond is generally pretty strong
It's perfectly fine being a virgin at your age. You guys in and around your age will find this compelling. I can't see guys over the age of 25 really being into this though
I would only pick a virgin.
If she can't wait for the right guy, she's not worth it in my opinion.
men are perverted ok? they love virgins cause it means you're tight and untouched, men like to be dominant, so they wanna be the first one to do it. that's why you're "special" to them.
the scary thing about those guys who think virgins are special is that those guys will probably make you feel special while you're still a virgin... Until they take it or someone else does, and then you're not "special" anymore. Those are the kind of guys who will take the "best" and then probably find someone else... it happened to me, that's why I know this
That’s why you wait until marriage.. of course you aren’t special if you’re doing what every other girl has done or is doing
Umm. I call BULLSH! T!!!
dude, I'm not saying you're special either. I valued my virginity but gave it up to the wrong guy. Don't get ahead of yourself
And what happened with me doesn't make me any less worthy than you, it makes me human. Because humans aren't perfect and they make mistakes and learn from them. You might get married and then get a divorce and end up fucking another guy, just remember life isn't a fucking fairytale. Once you lose your virginity you're probably gonna realize this
You don’t need to tell me I’m special Because I already know that I am. And we are not equal, so don’t ever think so
you fucking n** lol, you're not special. Your virginity does not define you as a person, cause what are you when you lose it? what if the marriage doesn't work out? The fact that you think you're better than others who actually take chances in life and gets dick, makes you a cunt honestly. When you're a cunt your virginity doesn't matter anyway.
kill yourself
Sure go somewhere and be a bitter whore
dude you're the bad one. You put others down on purpose and still think you're so good. I hope you burn in hell
Well I’m not the one wishing death an pain on people I don’t know because of something as minor as this so...
Don’t try to convince yourself you’re a good person
Yes. Being chaste increases your value as a potential wife.
No man, wants a women that has ridden the cock carousel.
Depends on the man. My ex boyfriend was kind of creeped out by this.
That's wild
@Papi-Daddy 🤷♀️ his loss I guess. We've been in a relationship for 2,5 years and I've still been a virgin when we broke up xD
Wow he definitely took a loss then
I don't know how he could be creeped out
@Papi-Daddy Too much pressure I suppose. He was 10 years older than me and only had expirienced women before me. I've end up losing my virginity to the (ex) boyfriend which came after him and it took us about 5 tries to even get through my hymen and oh boy. It was really painful and uncomfortable. I was just glad when it was over.
@Hurlyburly you have any pointers on what you like on your first experience
@Papi-Daddy huh? I didn't liked anything about it. Maybe that it didn't took too long.
@Hurlyburly but did you do anything or just took it
@Papi-Daddy honestly I was too much in pain to "do anything". I didn't started to enjoy intercourse until a few months later.
That's how my girl is your horse dick is low
@Devon69 ehhh... What? What are you even talking about
Nevermind its to complicated
Well that's good you like it now
Hey relax @Devon69
U good bro
Alright
You never heard of size of a horse
I have one soo
Bro you 😂😂
Yes lol
All men love virgins, it is nice and tight, so the men cum far more quickly, very very few women orgasm the first while.
Virginity really doesn't matter to me. All that saying whether or not you're a virgin tells me is that you have or haven't had sex. I'd date a virgin or a girl whos had sex 100 times
Still in the original packaging? What's not to like?
Virginity is being both idolized and looked down upon too much.
I agree, but much more looked down on if they are male.
because soon the virgins will be like the dinasours instinct
In my country, some men do and some don't. Personally, I would prefer the virgin.
are yourself a virgin?
@shinka1y234 yes, I am.
In my experience, men think women who are virgins are something special because they like to take it away, not all men are like this of course.
I would say a majority of normal guys like virgins, at least I do, since I am traditional. You are special because you are not a slut.
I agree I enjoy the ones that are not already dripping from the last guy
@xkildy Heh good one
This is a wild sweeping generalization... "a MAJORITY of NORMAL GUYS (?) like virgins". Where on Earth do you get that information from? And the implication that if the girl is NOT a virgin, she's a SLUT? So according to you, an 18 yr old girl is in a committed relationship for 5 years and had her first and only sex with that guy, but the relationship didn't work out. The separate and you are meet her and start dating her when she's 23. You find out she's NOT a virgin. So she's a SLUT? wtf?
@loveslongnails yeah i originally thought like you do too but after dating many girls i realized thats a fantasy. Once a girl loses her virginity they somehow deep down realize they wasted it and feel like "fuck this good girl shit" and usually the day after a break up sleep with the first man they meet. I've never once met a girl in this magical circumstance where she only had one serious relationship. I've dated way more virgins than girls in this theoretical situation of one serious relationship as their only past.
@bamesjond0069 Join the "SGC" Mr. Jond... the "sweeping generalizations club". Here we go...
" usually the day after a break up sleep with the first man they meet". And you've known HOW MANY girls who were VIRGINS when they met guy "X", broke up with him, and the next day (usually, according to your scientific research), sleep with the very next man they met !! Good God, people will make up any old shit and call it a "fact", or base a statement on one or two personal experiences in their own little world. Geeezus !!
@loveslongnails 😂 goodness
@loveslongnails well I've known about 10 girls that just jump in bed with someone after their first. I've known no girls that had one relationship and stayed single for awhile and were careful choosing the next guy. Im sure they exist but in my opinion its much rarer.
@bamesjond0069 I wish I could take you at your word, but I find it really difficult to believe... 10 virgins who just banged the VERY next guy, the very day after they broke up. Not believable. EVEN if it's true, it's too small of a sampling to generalize. The next 100 girls who come along could fit in a wholly different category, thereby skewing your numbers.
@loveslongnails dude i didn't mean literally the next day. I just meant they engage in casual sex instead of look for a relationship or simply wait. Like they made the first guy wait 6 months but the second boyfriend only 2 weeks. They immediately lower their standards drastically. And it usually means hook ups or failed relationships in quick succession.
@bamesjond0069 I appreciate your clarification, BUT... these are your words: " usually the day after a break up sleep with the first man they meet." You did say "usually the day after", so that's what I took it to mean. Why would I think otherwise, right?
@loveslongnails are you autistic?
@bamesjond0069 Don't bring up autism... you don't know what it is, apparently. The word usually means typically, commonly, habitually, generally, normally. So "usually the next day and the first guy she meets" doesn't mean what you "meant it to mean" in your head, dude, it means what you wrote. Maybe you should learn to say what you mean more clearly, hmm? Don't blame others who know their own language.
@loveslongnails you 2 are having fun... Keep me entertained
@xkildy The fun for me is done. It's like trying to teach a pig to sing... it's a waste of your own time and it just annoys the pig.
@loveslongnails 🤣🤣
And are you all virgins or worthless males sluts?
Hypocritical as fuck
@shinka1y234 So, in your mind, if you're male, you're either a "virgin" or a "worthless male slut" ? Is that your premise?
@shinka1y234 how is it hypocritical?
@bamesjond0069 sits in front of the TV eating a fresh bowl of popcorn this show is good
@loveslongnails no i use the same logic from the men who think like so
@bamesjond0069 if you want virgin you should be a virgin too
@shinka1y234 and if you want to marry a rich millionaire man you need to be a millionaire too?
Yes, it should be like that
@shinka1y234 lol and so short women need to date short men, if they want tall men they should be tall too?
Are you rich?
So only rich men can afford virgind then? That is how it is for you?
At least do not shame on women who are not virgins
@shinka1y234 don't shame men who are jobless and live with their mom and play video games all day.
I have never ever done this. But i see a lot people who are slut shaming women. Women have sexual desires too
@bamesjond0069 Why not? It IS shameful.
@loveslongnails lol i was being sarcastic. Man who is jobless lives in parents basement is equivalently as much of a loser as a girl who is a slut. While a man who has many sexual options and a girl who lives with her family (presumably is a virgin) are both highest valued.
@shinka1y234 your desire is irrelevant. Its your value to control your desire and that you find such control valuable is what men find attractive.
@bamesjond0069 I forget again... how exactly do YOU arrive at the slut title for a woman? And separate question... a girl who lives with her parents and is a virgin has a "higher VALUE" ? Is that your statement?
@loveslongnails I have never gone though so much popcorn , I even turned off the tv. This is way more entertaining I...
@loveslongnails yeah. Men dont give two shits about if a girl lives with her family. If she's a virgin its very attractive! And a girl who has casual sex even once is definitely a slut in my opinion.
@bamesjond0069 hahah, people are funny a man can sleep with many and be called a player but the women are now sluts.. makes no sense sex will happen when two people want it. A women is only a slut if she has sex for money or is a frequent visitor to bars where she picks up a guy only for sex.
@bamesjond0069 But men can't control themself? So are you still a animal who control themself? You are calling men stupid by saying that
And believe adult women are not into fuckboys. Only little girls like that kind of guy
@bamesjond0069 But men can't control themself? So are you still a animal who can't control themself and follow its instincs? You are calling men stupid by saying that
@shinka1y234 i dont believe you. No girl has ever cared. My girlfriend now i asked how many guys she been with and she said just her ex who she been with since HS. So very limited. She asked how many I've been with and i told her, its triple digits by the way and she said "well that means you have a lot of experience and can teach me things" lol. Never had a girl care ever.
Then your girlfriend is a child or is brainwashed by Hollywood. A decent grown up woman would care
@xkildy well it only makes sense if you aren't completely brain dead and realize men have to seek out and put effort into getting sex while women just need to just say yes to the many offers they get daily. So a man who gets lots of sex is skilled and capable of attracting women where a woman simply has to be a woman.
@shinka1y234 well i mean she's 22. I don't know what you mean, like the "real woman" that all these old fat single moms say they are? 🤣
22 ist still young. You know how young girls like fuckboys (male whores, older boys or "bad" boys. All these shit men. Also she is probaply not mature enough.
I am 19 and would never date someone who have a high body count. You can ask that kind of question here on that site. Male with high body counts are not boyfriend material and the relationship would not last. Look at yourself. I assume you have a many relationships but none of them last long otherwise you would stick with your first girlfriend. You prove my statement
And what i dont get it is. It is ok if you can fuck virgins but i thought a woman should be a woman and should stay virgin till marriage? So you are dating a man then' cause your girlfriend is not a virgin anymore.
@shinka1y234 thats not true. I've only had one girlfriend for 10 years. I've been single for the last 6 years. I dont lead girls on. Mainly im just really hot and every girl i date fucks me first or second date and then i lose interest. I want a girl that holds out and has standards. And so I've been waiting. Im no monk though. Im glad i didn't stay celibate for 6 years!
Dont get it? So you do not sleep around?
I mean you did not sleep around?
I also i know girls who sleep with their boyfriend on the first date but now they are married. I think it depends on the person then.
@shinka1y234 well i think thats gross. Girls like that have no standards. If the sleep with me on the first date they sleep with everyone on the first date. I want someone who thinks sex is special and doesn't do it with everyone.
You should emphatize. If you can sleep on the first date, why can't they? Also promiscous women act very conservative when it comes to relationships 'cause they are afraid of getting judged. So a woman with a high body also would wait longer till sleep with their bfs
@shinka1y234 because i dont like it. That simple. Why dont you date an obese man? If you dont like it dont do it.
Hahaha and thats bullshit. If i wasn't the man who had sex with her the fastest she can fuck off. Thats disrespectful asf. She sleeps with everyone right away but make me wait? Hell nah. Thats the worst kind of whore, complete scum. Id never even speak to a girl that tries some shit like that to me.
Still hypocritical :)
But to be honest. I also would not want a man who is not virgin. He have to be virgin
@bamesjond006 just say you prefere virgins (although you do not deserve it) instead of shaming on women who is not virgin or have a high body count
@shinka1y234 why? Its extremely shameful. And how is it hypocritical? Last time i looked in my pants i had a cock, that means im not a girl.
Not every boy with a cock is a man
@shinka1y234 So according to your "he has to be a virgin" logic, you would not date a man who let's say got married at the age of 18, stayed married faithfully for 3 years, got dumped by his wife, --- because he's now no longer a virgin? That's what you're saying? Or is he only a "slut" if he fucks someone before he's married, but this would be an ok exception?
Dont know but i want someone like me
@shinka1y234 "Don't know" ... and there's the crux of your own hypocrisy. WHAT would you DO with such a guy? Dump him because he's not a virgin, or his situation is OK? "I don't know" doesn't cut it weakens your argument significantly.
@shinka1y234 that's so very true , you need to have a mature way of thinking other wise your just a breeder
usely most guys try to take advantage I think I be her 1st but a nice guy. wouldn't say your special for telling them that
Nope it means inexperienced to me but your at an age where thats ok but at the same time i woudn't even date you or kik it with you at all
Imagine you go buy a dvd
One of them is used but its in perfect state
And the other one is new and sealed
Which one would you take of them two?
None of then are bad... but when you got the 2 options
And which one are you? The used one or the new one?
I get the blu ray
Men love virgins. I rather have a virgin woman than a non-virgin woman. The only way I'd pick a non-virgin over a virgin is if the non-virgin was a woman and the virgin was a man.
And you are?
Am what?
Are you one?
One what?
Virgin?
No give me a clean used one with low mileage, I don't have time for all that training...
As people, sure. As potential bed partners? No. There's no virtue in ignorance.
Virgins are more like to want to try new things. I doubt my girlfriend would have tried anal if she wasn't a virgin
@Twalli YMMV, or course, but that's not been my experience.
YMMV?
My girlfriend was a virgin until we had sex and ccx eventually she was willing to try anal, because until you try it you can't know if you'll like it.
@Twalli Your Mileage May Vary.
I dont think so tbh
One of my brothers broke up with his girlfriend just because she was virgin
Why would I care if there virgin I don’t care if they are or not but if I had to choose between a virgin and a non virgin I’d take the virgin bc why not, it’s cute and honestly bc it’d make me feel good being her first
He wants to fuck you and yeah! We love virgins. You're beautiful as fuck😍😘
Men call you special because Virgin girls are rare.
What?
Yes it's preferable
Although i don't care about too much
Never been with one
99%9 of all men like virgins unless if it's for a one night stand. Virgins are fresh out the box and clean.
Are you virgin or a dirty slut?
Special because you have morals and are probably waiting for the right person.
I think it’s seen negatively and positively.
It doesn't really matter. As long as she hasn't had 25 sexual partners, I don't care whether or not she's a virgin.
Virginity doesn't matter to me, have been with two virgins, honestly I'd probably prefer a partner with some experience
Then you dont communicate well! It is your fault for bad sex!
Did I say I had bad sex?
No but your message gave that idea
Besides the "Virginity doesn't matter to me" part I presume if I didn't want to have sex with virgins I wouldn't have said it didn't matter.
i don't mind virgins but i don't particularly go after them.
It's fine, I will try to make it a good experience for her
Men dont have the same mentality as women when it comes to virgins, if anything the exact opposite.
I have no fking clue. Speaking for myself, I like girls irrespective of it
No we hate virgins so much, we will take the virginity of all the girls we can :)
I don't see a reason not to like a virgin.
Like them how?
You are a bit more valuable cause you are still pure
Most guys aren't going to have a problem with you being a virgin in fact some will find it very attractive