Yes we do but it's not like the 1800's where a man only goal was to marry a virgin. We like then but I think people put to much stock in that what else is she bringing to the table beside her virginity. Is she intelligent is she family oriented or goal oriented how is her personality and he sense of humor is she loyal. That's what I want to know and that what I need in a woman if she slept with one or two guys doesn't matter to me
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Statistically, if a girl is a virgin she's more likely to stay in a committed relationship / marriage. Divorce rate is only 5% for those who have had 0 partners before marriage (other than the one they're in love with ofc). At 1 partner, it jumps to 20%.
@βιυεsκγs Yes the statistic is based on sexual partners. However, emotional relationships can carry on into you next relationships and can be bad for the marriage.
Casual sex is common now, maybe particularly in your area, so a virgin girl is unusual to them. I think most men like virgins because they feel special if they’re her first and they like knowing no one else has been with her.
@shinka1y234 aww that's sweet. Baby it's humans like us bc of which world is still progressing. Had it been likes of you... See I'm saying everything logically. But you can't accept bc of maybe ego or something. I'm just stating truth. You can DM if you want to have a discuss this topic. I'm open minded
Source? How is that scienific? It is based on social norms. In this society it is expected from men to join the millitary or provide the family otherwise you a loser. That is also false.
@shinka1y234 lol give your facts fucktard You were probably fucked in the head some night since you are a cheap disgusting whore who would take any guys cock. Filthy cheap slut just accept the facts!
no, a virgin who has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend is even worse. clueless about sex and how to treat people they admire. sorry not sorry, but I don't have to time or patience to wait around until they figure themselves out, I got shit I need to do.
I agree with this. When i first started dating i didn't know what the hell i wanted lol and i had crazy expectations. Looking back... I feel really embarrassed
Yes.. Being a virgin even though sometimes it's looked down upon... I thinks respectful and sexy in its uniqueness these days. That being said... never found a virgin before.. even when I was younger... I guess I match better either the experienced ladies lol
Yes some do, MAYBE most would like to try one, BUT is that the only type of woman they'd fuck, date and or marry? Dont be silly, hell no. Pussy is pussy, in the end.
Fuck anything with a pussy that i find attractive, marry virgins. There is no need to marry a girl who isn't a virgin because 5 girls hotter than her will fuck you and not require you marry them. Virginity is literally the only thing a woman can offer that you won't be able to find elsewhere. Why would i limit myself to one slut if i can have 3 sluts? Id limit myself to one good girl though because she can offer what sluts can't.
With all that I have lived, I rather a woman who is sexually experienced.
A virgin woman will have big baggage of insecurities, and I had enough. After so many years without sex, I am looking all that a romantic relationship is about. I want the complete experience.
you are pure thats why you are special, yes men love virgin girl, specially muslim people, cause sex before marrige is not permitted in muslim culture, its a great sin, so muslim boy and girl both like virgin, i am a muslim thats why i know much about muslim, i am 24 and still virgin, so be happy that you are special cause you are a virgin, god loves you believe me, i love virgin girl cause i wants my future wife to be a virgin a pure girl, a special one.
Most yes, but I think it goes the other way around. Especially when it comes to a partner you plan to spend your life with. Would you prefer that a man has slept with women before you, or that you are his first and only? Men are the same.
In other words, he feels an extra special sense of need to be responsible around you. I'd consider most virgins my age to be a lot closer to God than the average woman my age is, and I'd not want to do anything that would undermine that.
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Stayed a virgin till marriage. And so did the person I married.
In regards to the "special" thing... Some will say that because they know they can wrap you around their finger. Or they'll say that to make you feel better about it. Some will say that but then lie about how many partners they themselves had.
Being a virgin means that a guy would be considered special to you, and you'll be considered more special to him (unless he's a complete douche). It's rare to find after 18, which is what adds to the appeal.
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Guys like virgins when looking for a serious mate / wife because of what it says about her morals and priorities. It's no secret that guys frown upon promiscuous girls, of which there are a LOT these days. You are the opposite of promiscuous, which is a very good (and special) thing.
It means those guys want to be your first or only. Virgin women aren't my first choice, but I wouldn't reject them either. As long as she's not squeamish about sex then we can make it work.
Yes we do, But it does not mean that we hate ones that are not, It can make us feel a bit weird that we might be sticking our penises were someone elses penis might of been but usually with us guys it does not matter that much as long we can have sex.
It means you're special cuz many dumbass girls follow the trend of getting rid of their virginity early cuz it's cool and trendy and they mindlessly follow it like apes cuz they have no personality or a will of their own, cheap media puppets.
Yeah I know that, I'm actually curious to know why that is the case, the US were responsible for the baby boom back then, it's interesting to see that they aren't as sexually rushing as many other countries.
People spend way more time on their electronics, there’s a big push against peer pressure, kids are expensive, and there’s not as much pressure to have a traditional family.
@Bond94 i had when i was at 15-16 and when i was 23. It was more of a friendship it was casual relationship but i told them a casual i love you so they r considered bf? hehe
Nope. Men hate virgins. If they liked virgins, they'd devote their energy to preserving virginity. Since men devote their energy to ending virginity, the must hate virgins, because after I fucked her, she ain't a virgin no mo!
@SilentWatchman, but you also don't leave behind a non-pizza. Instead, you have transformed a virgin into a non-virgin. Thus, you prefer for there to be more non-virgins than virgins.
Because virgins are easy targets. They have no experience, so are perfect fodder for manipulative/abusive men. Just men of trash calibre will focus on your virginity status.
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Yes we do but it's not like the 1800's where a man only goal was to marry a virgin. We like then but I think people put to much stock in that what else is she bringing to the table beside her virginity. Is she intelligent is she family oriented or goal oriented how is her personality and he sense of humor is she loyal. That's what I want to know and that what I need in a woman if she slept with one or two guys doesn't matter to me
Statistically, if a girl is a virgin she's more likely to stay in a committed relationship / marriage. Divorce rate is only 5% for those who have had 0 partners before marriage (other than the one they're in love with ofc). At 1 partner, it jumps to 20%.
So yes, it's a major selling point
After 20 partner, that number is 80%.
A very important point!
By partners do you mean sexual partners? Cos I had 1 boyfriend who I loved but I didn’t do anything sexual with him:)
@βιυεsκγs Yes the statistic is based on sexual partners. However, emotional relationships can carry on into you next relationships and can be bad for the marriage.
Casual sex is common now, maybe particularly in your area, so a virgin girl is unusual to them. I think most men like virgins because they feel special if they’re her first and they like knowing no one else has been with her.
No it's because she's clean. Not some filthy whore so that's why
@alex_x988 It’s possible for virgins to have STDs too even if they are at a lower risk. And some guys commented the reasons I mentioned too.
Common there'd be much lesser probability for that...
Just use common sense girl!
@alex_x988 “... even if they are at a lower risk” Just learn to read boy!
Fine.. could have been written in a better way tho
@alex_x988 do you also think like that for men?
@shinka1y234 your statement is not making sense to me. Rephrase
@shinka1y234 and it was you going anonymous?
Are men also filthy whores?
Do you think that men also should stay virgin?
@shinka1y234 damn man I'm too good lol. Found you even you got anonymous
:):)
@shinka1y234 what a fucking loser seriously 😂😑
No, i really want to try understand you. I dont get human beings like you. Sorry being mean before
@shinka1y234 aww that's sweet. Baby it's humans like us bc of which world is still progressing. Had it been likes of you...
See I'm saying everything logically. But you can't accept bc of maybe ego or something. I'm just stating truth. You can DM if you want to have a discuss this topic. I'm open minded
Source? How is that scienific? It is based on social norms. In this society it is expected from men to join the millitary or provide the family otherwise you a loser. That is also false.
@shinka1y234 that's science. Go do some research than come.
And about military, you expect weak cunts to fight? Do you have least bit of common sense?
@shinka1y234 and the way you slid into dms, illiterate.
Source?
You dont even know whaz science mean
Little boy
You dont have any source but behave like a cunt
That shows a lot of your personality.
Do you also fuck with gays?
@shinka1y234 lol give your facts fucktard
You were probably fucked in the head some night since you are a cheap disgusting whore who would take any guys cock. Filthy cheap slut just accept the facts!
Awws are you hurt?
First of all take your profil pic off. Are you that ugly so that you take a pic from another man from the internet
@shinka1y234 I thought you were gonna present facts.
Otherwise you can keep playing the insulting game.
no, a virgin who has never had a boyfriend/girlfriend is even worse. clueless about sex and how to treat people they admire. sorry not sorry, but I don't have to time or patience to wait around until they figure themselves out, I got shit I need to do.
Like what?
school, work, friends, hobbies, bills, cleaning, exercising, thinking about my future, meditating on my past
don't get me wrong, sex is great and all, but not all it's advertised to be. it takes time to get it right and for both to enjoy the act.
You sound too busy for sex anyway..
because that's not what we were discussing
I agree with this. When i first started dating i didn't know what the hell i wanted lol and i had crazy expectations. Looking back... I feel really embarrassed
Yes.. Being a virgin even though sometimes it's looked down upon... I thinks respectful and sexy in its uniqueness these days. That being said... never found a virgin before.. even when I was younger... I guess I match better either the experienced ladies lol
Yes some do, MAYBE most would like to try one, BUT is that the only type of woman they'd fuck, date and or marry? Dont be silly, hell no. Pussy is pussy, in the end.
Fuck anything with a pussy that i find attractive, marry virgins. There is no need to marry a girl who isn't a virgin because 5 girls hotter than her will fuck you and not require you marry them. Virginity is literally the only thing a woman can offer that you won't be able to find elsewhere. Why would i limit myself to one slut if i can have 3 sluts? Id limit myself to one good girl though because she can offer what sluts can't.
Thats your buisness. Then don't marry her, plenty who will 🤷🏽♀️
With all that I have lived, I rather a woman who is sexually experienced.
A virgin woman will have big baggage of insecurities, and I had enough. After so many years without sex, I am looking all that a romantic relationship is about. I want the complete experience.
you are pure thats why you are special, yes men love virgin girl, specially muslim people, cause sex before marrige is not permitted in muslim culture, its a great sin, so muslim boy and girl both like virgin, i am a muslim thats why i know much about muslim, i am 24 and still virgin, so be happy that you are special cause you are a virgin, god loves you believe me, i love virgin girl cause i wants my future wife to be a virgin a pure girl, a special one.
Most yes, but I think it goes the other way around. Especially when it comes to a partner you plan to spend your life with. Would you prefer that a man has slept with women before you, or that you are his first and only? Men are the same.
In other words, he feels an extra special sense of need to be responsible around you. I'd consider most virgins my age to be a lot closer to God than the average woman my age is, and I'd not want to do anything that would undermine that.
Stayed a virgin till marriage. And so did the person I married.
In regards to the "special" thing... Some will say that because they know they can wrap you around their finger. Or they'll say that to make you feel better about it. Some will say that but then lie about how many partners they themselves had.
Being a virgin means that a guy would be considered special to you, and you'll be considered more special to him (unless he's a complete douche). It's rare to find after 18, which is what adds to the appeal.
Guys like virgins when looking for a serious mate / wife because of what it says about her morals and priorities. It's no secret that guys frown upon promiscuous girls, of which there are a LOT these days. You are the opposite of promiscuous, which is a very good (and special) thing.
It means those guys want to be your first or only. Virgin women aren't my first choice, but I wouldn't reject them either. As long as she's not squeamish about sex then we can make it work.
Yes we do, But it does not mean that we hate ones that are not, It can make us feel a bit weird that we might be sticking our penises were someone elses penis might of been but usually with us guys it does not matter that much as long we can have sex.
It means you're special cuz many dumbass girls follow the trend of getting rid of their virginity early cuz it's cool and trendy and they mindlessly follow it like apes cuz they have no personality or a will of their own, cheap media puppets.
Actually, younger generations are starting to lose their virginity later than previous ones. Maybe it’s different in your area though.
Tell that to male whores too?
It's different from area to another, some countries have an average loss of virginity age of 14, and that's not uncommon
@shinka1y234 yup tell it to man-whores too, I'm a virgin by choice and I'm proud
Oh. I thought you were a hypocritical fuckboy who want a virgin. So I am sorry
Lol nah, I'm saving myself for the girl whi deserves it :3
This girl is American and the average age to lose your virginity in the US is 18, so it’s not a trend to lose it early here.
Yeah I know that, I'm actually curious to know why that is the case, the US were responsible for the baby boom back then, it's interesting to see that they aren't as sexually rushing as many other countries.
People spend way more time on their electronics, there’s a big push against peer pressure, kids are expensive, and there’s not as much pressure to have a traditional family.
Means there aren't a lot of virgins at your age left.
Do i like virgins? Want a girl to latch onto you, take her V card. You also have to be very gentle, patient, and teach them everything.
Personally, my virginity is the only thing i lost i dont want back.
U r 18 and virgin and complaining? Girlllll i am 26 and virgin
I wasn’t... complaining?
And how did you do it for so long. I might just be a teen with crazy hormones but jeez it’s hard
I must have an emotions to give it to someone and i never had
Cool.. being virgin is good. Your man will be soo lucky. And u have really sweet kitten
I'm 24 and complaining about still being a virgin. :^(
Have you ever had bf?
@Bond94 i had when i was at 15-16 and when i was 23. It was more of a friendship it was casual relationship but i told them a casual i love you so they r considered bf? hehe
Better be sure that guys dont go just for sex and then leave. You doing right way.
Nope. Men hate virgins. If they liked virgins, they'd devote their energy to preserving virginity. Since men devote their energy to ending virginity, the must hate virgins, because after I fucked her, she ain't a virgin no mo!
Men like to conquer virgins. Some men, at least.
@SilentWatchman, which means they hate virgins, since they DESTROY those virgins in the process.
Nah. I like eating pizza, but it gets destroyed as I eat it. Doesn’t mean I hate pizza.
@SilentWatchman, but you also don't leave behind a non-pizza. Instead, you have transformed a virgin into a non-virgin. Thus, you prefer for there to be more non-virgins than virgins.
If I were one of these guys—and I’m not—I would like the landscape to be littered with girls who remember me fondly as their first sexual experience.
@SilentWatchman, and walk funny?
You got it.
Because virgins are easy targets. They have no experience, so are perfect fodder for manipulative/abusive men. Just men of trash calibre will focus on your virginity status.
I would like a virgin, but that's because I'm one too.
@HelpfulWoman you nailed it!