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That's a hard one for sure. I try to realise that not everyone has the opinions I hold. Are they overreacting and being a dingus? From what you said, I would say yeah. That being said, if you love them, you should probably have a conversation with them about it.
Describe to me why you think anyone would care.
Like, what is the problem? You want to bring gay men into bed with him?
What's the problem?
Like, what if he hated elephants. . . WHAT THE FUCK WOULD YOU CARE, why would that matter?
Unless you plan on bringing a bunch of gays and trannies around to hang out with, I don't see why this has anything to do with anything.
Lol all these girls saying they don't like homophobes... Well for one that cultural Marxist terminology is all based on pseudoscience, and secondly; you girls are hypocrites unto yourselves - if any of you become heavily into a guy who command's your respect, you won't give a shit what he thinks about gays...
And for the record I think gays are mentally ill, nothing more, nothing less.
Hey hey hey now! I dont believe in gay/ transgender either. They suffer from mental illness. I don't know why media praises that nonsense
I think she's just trying to come up with a bs excuse to leave her boyfriend instead of being a woman about it
@flowers70
There's a "gender bending agenda" going down through big media. They literally want men running around referring to themselves as "demisexual lampshades"... No big strong men about = a population of dumb swines! It really is mental illness - I've got a couple lesbians in my family and they're both VERY butch. They try and act like their dads who are very masculine, ofc they come from broken homes though. Gays are basically trannies that don't want to get the operation done.
I think your right too. It does sound like OP is nitpicking.
@flowers70
The real name for homosexuality is Gender Dysphoria.
Yep..
The boundaries of what is and not “phobic” keep getting pushed farther and farther.
I’m a conservative libertarian. Which means I don’t care what you do as long as you don’t get in peoples faces about it. But if the alphabet people are not content with just having people do their thing. They CRAVE attention and just have to, have to make a statement. They just have to have parades, they just have to be showcased in entertainment, they just have to single out Christian businesses and organizations if they won’t bake cakes for them. They just have to add their “identity” to their resume if they are running in politics.
It’s not about being equal for these people, it’s about being SPECIAL.
My girl doesn’t like the gay agenda. I thing lesbians are terrible selfish people overall. Not all, but the majority suck. Gay men are overall amazing people. Some are little fags. But most are just great people.
I won’t leave my girl cuz she has different opinions.
Why are lesbians selfish?
@Cherokeehp lol they aren't
@Warmapplecrumble I know that. But I thought it’d be interesting to know why he thinks that.
In my experience they are. Selfish, man hating. Always a victim.
A victim of what?
Exactly!
Uhhhh, ok then.
Since i have such a close friend that is a gay male, i wouldn't have it, if you can't accept my friend how the fuck are you going to accept me, it's normal not to agree with some things people do but it never makes it ok to disrespect and discriminate just because you don't necessarily agree.
Nothing don't really socialize much with gays so it wouldn't be a issue. I would still treat gays fairly and I would disagree a lot with that friend but as long as he doesn't act on it in a bad way I will simply ignore it. He has a right to his own opinion.
It's a compatibility question. If his beliefs are not compatible with yours then you're not in the right relationship. There's really only one thing to do. It's not something he should have to change just to be with you, and you shouldn't try to accept something that you can't.
He’s allowed to have his opinion. As long as he’s not hurting anyone or being a complete psychopath. Everyone has their views, set of beliefs etc.. he doesn’t have to agree with it and I don’t expect him or anyone else to. However, living in North America he just has to be respectful of everyone regardless of his beliefs.
I do not think that I could be friends with anyone whos that retarded.
And what if you later found out he likes anal simulation?
Then I'd congratulate him on having normal nerve tissue? 😅😂 Erogenous zones do not change because of sexual orientation.
Do you think this is rape? ↗
Break up cause he's clearly gay and projecting his insecurity as hate
Dump him. Being homophobic is a shitty quality for a person to have. Probably means he isn’t understanding either. Not interesteddddd in that.
Wouldn't bother me one way or another. I can (and have) play devil's advocate for any side of most topics, including these, so if anything I might have some fun challenging perceptions while agreeing with others based on facts. It's all a world of gray.
As long as they are fun to hang out with/be around, it's a non-issue for me. If these types of issues are all they talk about though, I likely wouldn't be friends with anyone like that very long regardless of stance.
I personally feel as far as actual hate, I'm against it
I'm not supportive of legitimate generalized hate. Regardless of the societal perception etc, live and let live.
I have friends who are somewhat homophobic and we have had arguments, but having lived with people of a lot of backgrounds through college, it's not the label that you take issue with, it's the individual. A jerk is a jerk
I would not be friends or date someone like that. We'd butt heads way too much. If they feel this way about homosexuals then they'll likely have other views I don't agree with. There's certain opinions I'll accept but this is not one.
That's not a phobia; it's a preference. If you don't like your boyfriend's attitude, find another boyfriend. . . but don't expect him to change something just to please you.
It would be a plus. Someone who supported LGBT would be a minus.
I'm not responsible for how or what he thinks. If he can behave around gays etc and not embarrass himself because of his ideologies, I'm fine with it.
I have a homophobic friend. Doesn't bother me one bit.
Doesn't bother me, he's entitled to his own opinion. I just dont like double standards where a man thinks it's hot for two women to make out but not if it's two men.
At some point he asked you to finger him.
Funny how that works isn't it
Let him be. He's not worth your time, and it's none of your business anyway.