God tells us to love everyone, although we don't have to agree with them we still have to love them. I do not agree with the LGBT community and if you have ever seen the gay pride event... you will know what I mean... it is absolutely disgusting how they embrace their sin. If someone has gay feelings and they are ashamed of it and try to change it thats one thing. But for someone to be out there EMBRACING a sin like that is just disgusting. homosexuality is on the same level as eating pork in God's eyes, but when do are doing all these perverted things and being proud of it is even worse. Also if you are going to be hitting me with the "they are just born that way" argument (like everyone does) there is evidence that they aren't born gay and that external influences while growing up can change your sexuality from the natural sexual orientation (straight) to a perverted one. My dad as a kid experienced some gay feelings before and he didn't spend very much time with his father because he was always working, and its been proven that there is a link between boys spending less time with their fathers to homosexuality. Either way, we are supposed to love them, although they are sinful, it would be wrong to judge the non proudly expressing homosexual more then the pork eating Christian.
I would open my mouth really wide and yell," NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO YOU HAVE TO SUPPORT MEN CUTTING THEIR DICKS OFF AND SUBJECTING THEMSELVES TO A HIGH SUICIDE RATE AND HAVING TO DILATE THEIR DEFORMED HOLE THAT WILL NEVER HEAL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. CHILDREN SHOULD HAVE THE CHOICE TO CUT OF THEIR GENITALS BUT HAVE NO SAY WHEN IT COMES TO CONSENTING FOR INTERCOURSE NOOOOOOOOOOOOO. IF YOU DISAGREE YOU SHOULD GO TO JAIL. YOUR BIGOT BOY FRIEND SHOULD GO TO JAIL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooOoooOooOOOooOoOooOOOOooo"
This is a hard one for me. I don't judge anybody for anything, unless they are unkind to other people. Whatever lifestyle you choose, whatever race you are, whatever your body weight... it's all fine by me as long as you're not hurting other people. My ex would frequently make negative comments about other people (people he saw in person or people he saw on TV) based on one of the above characteristics. It always rubbed me the wrong way, and I would often call him on it.
By the time the comments started coming, we had been together for several years. As much as it bothered me, I didn't feel like it was reason enough to end a long-term relationship. Over time, I started to realize that these comments were just a small piece of his overall character. Don't get me wrong. I don't think he's a bad person per se, I just think he was raised very differently that I was and we clearly had different views on a lot of things. Ultimately, we broke up after 5.5 years together.
As long as they don't act disrespectful or discriminatory towards them in the outside world, I don't mind them having a more liberal or radical opinion compared to mine.
In my religion, homosexuality is not approved and I would never pretend that it is something okay to do. But also I never see them any different from people indulging in other kinds of sins like fornication, gambling, whatever it is. I don't support killing or discriminating them. I just like to maintain a decent distance from a bisexual or lesbian woman just how I would around any man out there too. If that's homophobic let it be.
So yeah, again, as long as he isn't just discriminatory or rude or whatever towards homosexual people outside, like some do when they bully or even violate these people... That's the shit I wouldn't tolerate.
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I would stop being friends with them.
I think I know that girl in the photo! LOL
They have every right to feel that way, just as you have every right to feel differently. If they are not hurting any one then it shouldn't matter, if you have a friend that is gay and they don't like them then that's something he would have to deal with but otherwise he can do as he wishes. Its far worse to force another person to think like you do then it is to disagree with their point of view, besides which you will never convince a person otherwise by trying to control their thoughts or cutting them out of your life.
I'd break up with him. I wouldn't want to be with anyone that was homophobic, sexist, racist, etc etc.
Not to mention if you ever had kids, what if one was gay? Then you'd have to be put in a position of choosing between your SO and your kid? Just, no. Not okay with people that aren't accepting of others.
I wouldn’t ever date someone like that. I’m not one to disregard others beliefs, even if I find them disgusting and unreasonable, but to avoid conflict, as I like talking about politics and such, I wouldn’t date a man who has views the opposite of mine. If I started dating someone without knowing their political and social stances first (very unlikely) I’d break up with them. I just couldn’t love a person like that (not saying they’re unlovable, but personally, I would just see them as sad or broken compared to someone who is loving and accepting to all).
I'm related to people who don't like or approve of homosexuality or trans people. Sometimes i don't like the way they talk about them cause it makes me think what if i were in that situation would they no longer love me? They have their opinions and I'm not gonna hate or block but speaking with hate is a problem for me
I've always been of the opinion that everyone is free to hold their own opinions on whatever. However, if his/her distaste for someone makes him/her treat said person poorly, that's a major no from me. A person who can be nice to others despite his/her personal feelings towards that person is the most beautiful kind there is (atleast in my eyes). So though I may feel uncomfortable that my SO has negative feelings towards a certain label of people, I would be willing to look past it. Heck, it may even make for great conversation where we could debate about our thoughts on it. but if their thoughts translate to actions that are hurtful to others, I would not give them the time of day. You don't have to like someone but you sure as hell can respect them.
My boyfriend was slightly homophobic when we met. He comes from a deeply religious family and it was what he’s been taught all his life. I didn’t notice his homophobia until we were already in a committed relationship. Over time he’s become much more accepting and respectful to the lgbtq community.
I wouldn't care, it's not like I'm gay, so it doesn't even affect me. The few gay friends that I have, the fact they are gay doesn't even come up in any conversation ever. You wouldn't even know they were gay unless they actually told you. As for the touching thing; I don't like being touched either. So if he's cool not touching me, I'm cool not touching him.
I cannot understand a simple logic. Every one has its on pov and we are living in a free world but i guess living in a free world but with boundaries of social taboos, cultural issues and etc. Well every one has the right to do what they are comfortable with. We are simply no body to confront him. But i agree with one of th fellow member here, that if you have a problem then at least do not express it to avoid embarrass some one or being embarassed. Greet and meet every one with open heart. He or she has his own phenomenon and their own pov. So i think we should say the same to our boyfriend or girlfriend. If they still have problem then i guess we should not invite our gf/by over where we have to meet some one they dislike.
So long as he doesn't advocate violence against them or does anything with the intent of mocking them, I don't see why the opinions he holds are so bad. With diversity advocacy comes the diversity of thought, opinion and expression, including those that don't necessarily conform to contemporary views on homosexuality.
I grew upnatound Hate Racists, Homphobs all my life Now I choose NOT to bring any of that into my life. So before I date or friend someone I find out where they stand on those issues, and one of the most Racists statements one can make is I have a Gay/Lesbian friend or I have a Black/Muslim/Latino etc... friend that's telling me that they should feel privileged to be your friend.
Its a bit over the top how against it he is, making me stereotypically wonder if he has some feelings he wants to hide. Anyway he sounds a tad toxically macho. Its kinda upto you but dont be surprised if he treats you like his property.
Most REAL men are this way if you don't want a REAL MAN then go get yourself some fruitcake feminist pffft tf kinda man would wanna hug another man how could this offend you really, what world do you live in?
Are you asking girls about their boyfriends? Your last sentence is asking guys. If I were you, if that’s your boyfriend, just back off bc he’s just being narrow minded, and unless you’re someone who lives your entire life based on only your values, then look for another guy. He’s a normal young guy. Making an issue of it wil likely not end well for you.
It would be a deal breaker for me. If someone is really against someone’s sexuality just because it’s different from theirs-I’d rather not be involved. Especially because I have a close friend who is gay, and even his boyfriend has become a friend of mine.
I would have a debate about it with him and analyze togetjer what is it exactly that makes him feel that way about things that are non of his business. If he does not at least shut up and never mention it again - I can't be with that person, I have several gay friends and demand tolerance.
Have a couple friends like this , you probably can't force him to change his mind but if you really want to stay with him you gotta help him be more open minded, what I've done for a couple friends is not say anything for a long period of time before really telling the whole truth, honestly to me he sounds lied to by someone growing up and it stuck to him
He can think and believe what he wants as long as he isn't hurting anyone or infringing on their rights. And he isn't hurting me so, am I to impose my moral compass onto him. That's like someone unfriending you because they're vegan and you like steak. People think you're evil but that doesn't make it so.
He would be right in my opinion, i haven't had one good experience with those slimy fucks, 1 gay dude kept stalking me and a friend to the point of us finding out where he lived to first talk to his parents who didn't give a shit so we blew up the front window with fireworks because i was fucking done with the shitty scroungy fuck and the most recent one sends dick pics into random whatsapp groups and shit like that, oh and he's 32 and he once stole a fucking ambulance to qoute "get cigs"
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