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Wow lots of tension in there.
First of all no one is ugly everyone including you have something beautiful, it could be your eyes, nose, face, smile, or just your funny sense of humor. At the end the person ends up with who ever they choose no matter what.
Attraction is all a preference and just because you think they aren’t attractive doesn’t mean he has to think the same way. Seems like you’re the one with an ugly personality just by what you said.
Good looking woman appeal to higher numbers but there is a higher risk of being involved with somebody who is after your looks and not your personality or professional attainments. A guy told me a relationship built around looks is doomed to failure and a girl told me a bond built around monetary interest is doomed to failure.
Why do "gorgeous women often end up with jerks and cheaters"?
Because they can. A lot of women like jerks (or bad boys as they prefer to call them), because they're dangerous/risky/exciting/sexy, and bad boys like gorgeous women. "Nice guys" can be, well, kind of boring by comparison (and some would say more dishonest about their motives).
So some women like bad boys, and bad boys want some hot arm candy, it's a perfect match.
I think you're also getting confused between beauty and attractiveness/sexiness. Some of my ex-girlfriends were never going to be models but they were still very attractive and/or sexy, and that's way better than good looks.
Guys typically just want to be happy and have an easy life, if a non-gorgeous girl gives them that then it seems a better choice than a high maintenance drama queen.
It seems as though the women who are not as pretty as some of the other women. 10 to draw men who are interested and things other and just appearance moreover more than just sex. They are most likely seeking a life mate and so they chose based upon qualities and not visual only vice versa would be the same with the really pretty girls they attract guys I see them is vain guys who themselves are green and are looking to share that with someone else and who better to share your vein time with than somebody who can make you look better than you already do. Therefore just simply fluffing their egos even more.
I guess this gorgeousness and ugly are extremely subjective when it comes to a relationship. When the comfort factor is there, it is a fact that physical appearance become almost irrelevant. Sometimes we're crazily attracted to people who may not seem beautiful to people around us. The point I'm wanting to make is that, when it comes to a relationship, any relationship for that matter, the comfort factor is crucial. If that's not there, no matter how beautiful the partner is, it just doesn't click
It's because they feel more safe!! Ironic that men are actually more vulnerable and terrified to getting their hearts broke #facts. Scary but true b. explains why they would go for the safe more down to earth relatable kind of girl🤞💋😘
Actually most men these days are whiny crying babies, who always consider themselves as the victims. They always wants to be in control cause most of them are fucked up in their heads. Thank God there are still some handsome men who value the beauty and the femininity of a woman but they’re still very rare
*cry babies
Aaahh very true 2!
Yep sadly 😔
Feel more safe? I can get that is the case for some guys but i refuse to believe that it counts for all of us.
Asker, how do u mean "fucked in the head"? I like to be in control so that if something goes bad i can only blame myself & in does moments i strive to become better so that whatever went wrong doesn't again.
Have a good 1
@asker the funny thing is your the one asking and complaining why men treat ugly women better and that we think gorgeous women are vain and shallow yet here you are calling us cry babies hmm put 2 and 2 together there's your answer
Oh and calling us fucked in the head that too!
Omgggg so trueeeee i swear i thought i was the only one who notices this
Nope. You’re not
I think most men these days are messed up. Seriously, an ugly woman can be a real crazy bitch and a beautiful woman just shy and men will claim how the ugly crazy bitch is a nice outgoing girl and the beautiful shy woman is a stuck up bitch.
It’s like you have to be messed up to get a man
I feel youuuu giiirrl!!!
Simple
Beauty really is subjective, and often what women look at guys don't notice. Also there's personality matches as well, willingness to do certain activities, and a perception that some very attractive women are "high maintenance" and that they are just not worth the effort.
Your character doesn't depend on how good you look. Beauty is only skin deep.
You can never judge a person's character based on there looks. That's completely biased.
If someone looks bad doesn't mean he/she has a bad personality. If someone looks good , it doesn't mean he/she has a good personality.
You are judging people based on some of your experiences or based on the experiences of people you know.
Our society's predilection for good looks is the main cause of this biased opinions.
Dont be so hateful. I think its better to want a handsome husband than to look at others who have handsome husbands.
Either ways, the answer to your question is simply that there are all sorts of people with all sorts of choices.
Ugly men marry pretty women, ugly men marry ugly women, pretty men marry pretty women and pretty men marry ugly women.
One theory could be that most guys will assume good looking women are already taken but asshole guys don't care or think the world of themselves will have the courage to ask them.
You could change that by starting to ask out the guys you like instead.
Maybe your idea of ugly and pretty are fucked up? 🤔 people are people no matter how they look and from my experience the girls that treat my friends right have looked like average chicks... They have endured years of relationship because of their teamwork and respect. No matter what someone looks like it all depends on how YOU see your partners heart not their face or gut...
I can fall in love with ugly men.. They eventually become attractive to my eyes
Don't tell the man that
Neverrrrrr
Same here.. actually all the men I've been with were not that physically appealing but to me and I'm sure to everyone who is open to it. When you get to know a person they end up growing on you. Its inevitable and their corks you used to hate will now be the thing that turns you on or the thing they do to make up feel special and all butterflies inside.. personality goes away deep bro.🤞💋😘
Well part of that is where a lot of women gravitate. A lot of you seem attracted to men who need "fixing." Perhaps less attractive women are passed over by such men because such men only want really attractive women, ironically leaving the more "eligible" men for less attractive women.
Ugly women know that men have a higher tolerance for bullshit when a woman is hot and gorgeous, so they try their best to make a guy happy. Men respond to this great treatment by overlooking her looks and staying with her since she's so loving. Also the male brain tends to see women as more attractive the better their personalities. I've had hot girlfriends that are bitches and I literally end up getting disgusted by them.
bias much? I sense you dont really want an answer but rather are just looking to vent since you perceive yourself to be hot/good looking woman who was mistreated by a previous boyfriend who chose someone else (who you perceive to be an "ugly" girl)
Yeah that's how these questions go. It's mostly a rhetorical question as you'll never change their mind. They'll pick and choose replies and confirm her bias.
I think that sometimes women who are overly pretty get more attention, good and bad, while those who are considered homely only get the attention from really, genuinely nice guys.
Thoughts? I'm no expert.
Is this even a question? Ugly women get the better husband because they dont spend their 20s/30s fucking everything with a dick, like if im a above average dude im not marrying a girl that everyone has fucked or hooked up with. Its just that simple
Not all attractive women are easy, and not all unattractive women are NOT easy... I've known lots of unattractive girls who were known for sleeping around.