Even if you're just friends? I am curious to know have any of you guys been jealous seeing a girl you rejected, or were friends with out with another guy? Or girls, have you dated another guy to make a guy you wanted jealous, and did it work?
A guy I liked, let's call him Peter, said he needed to think about if he wanted to date me or not. Taking the hint, I decided to go find a guy that did want me. Peter seemed fine with that, he even told me he wouldn't be jealous if I dated other guys! So I backed off.
Me and Peter are still friends. He calls me fairly regularly, and occasionally jokes about sex. However, I can tell he has a barrier up to keep me from getting too close to him.
Today, I made plans to go out in a few weeks with another guy. One of my other friends jokingly told me I should let Peter know about the date to see how he reacts, saying it might be the nudge to make him jealous and want to date me.
No, I am I going to do something so childish. I am just curious to see how others would react.
Guys, do you get jealous seeing your female friends out with other guys?
My ex used to get territorial of me if I "got along" with dudes around me. But yet he was allowed to go out on his own with women if he wanted (and yes, he cheated on me in the end - but he was too much of a coward to tell me, I was told by the woman he had cheated with).
People who get jealous of their partners talking with another person are literal trash humans.
Jealousy is a very ugly emotion.
Besides, it should be a positive indicator - you've landed a partner so charming they can talk with anyone. As the usual "charming" one, this is really awesome for me. I get to take a back seat, enjoy seeing my partner engage and smile, and I don't need to worry about him violating my trust.
Lol they're just friends though... why would they be jealous? I have male friends that I hang out regularly and I have other male friends that I know from my cousins, etc I hang out with all of them and they don't care lol
There is one girl I had a crush on in high school. I was thrilled when she came to me and asked to be her chemistry lab partner, and did it very fast (I was excellent at chemistry). But she rejected offers to go out. We became friends, and are still friends today. Her husband is a nice guy who is good to her, and I am genuinely happy for them both.
Years after graduation, we were talking about the lab partner days. She said she picked me because she knew if she did, she wouldn't fail chemistry. I just laughed. I love her like a sister.
It's like you don't acknowledge all those guys want to fuck... it's just a given, no such thing as the "just friends" bullshit unless there actually is a shared common interest outside of attention and his desire to give (to get sex). But it's like you also don't acknowledge that a guy that's looking for something more than "just sex," and even a guy that is... is going to assume you're a hoe. Only one of them is still going to want to waste his time with you. You think it's going to be the one looking for anything long term?
I have never liked anyone like that, nor do I have any female friends (CS grad) but I do sometimes get jealous. Not because I actually liked her but because of my height and my race I constantly think I will never find anyone while everyone else seems to be pairing up and moving on in their lives while I am "always stuck in second gear and it really hasn't been my day, month or year".
Well that's how it always starts. The woman shames the man for being jealous, she says he has nothing to worry about and low and behold, she cheats on him with the friend.
Now do I know this? Because I've not only seen it but no personally experienced it.
Women who have male friends and hang out with that male friend 1on 1 will not and cannot be "just friends". Someone will fall for the other eventually. It's human nature.
No. I was happy for my friend that she finally found someone, even if the last one had a kilometer long police record register and behaved like a jerk. Other female friends who aren't so close to me, have mostly boyfriends/spouses and jealousy isn't a topic because their men are mostly my friends.
I think Peter in your story pretended friendship but craved secretly for you. This is behavior of guys who let abuse themselves by women, they literally ask for it with their attitude.
I never date one guy to get another. That would be ridiculous. As for guy friends getting jealous of me being with someone else, I have a few guy friends that act more like protective brothers than jealous crushes.
I think depends on the relationship you have. So clearly there was something between you even if small and if that was me, i probably would be a little jealous. But is say he has had his chances so i say just go for it
Lol @all the guys in comments saying friendship with girl is not possible. didn't any of you found amazing women who have other great qualities other than being attractive?
I'd be jealous. It's stronger than me. Even if I don't want any relationship with that girl, I would still be jealous of her doing anything at all with another guy
Really depends. If it's a girl I've had some feelings for then sure. A little jealousy but most of the time I don't. I just ensure that if the dude is an asshole, she has backup. At least back in high school and stuff.
Not jealous but I do get protective and make sure they aren’t making her uncomfortable. If they ever want me to swoop in and get them to fuck off, I’m there.
@R_ūshī Failproof tests to save me a lot of bs and drama in the future Girls like to test guy’s neediness by not contacting them for a set period of time, to see how he reacts. Girls are usually not aware they’re testing him.
My shit test is me basically showing her the 10 rules I live by, and the 10 rules I live by when it comes to love/romance/relationships. If we had not had sex by the third date, it’s over. I don’t care if wins the title sexiest woman alive. The fact that she failed my test, failed to submit. I’ll be like ✌️.
If he says he's okay with u dating other people and he has said he doesn't know if he wants to date u then I feel like that will likely not work. Unless u can feel his like for u. Some guys may even dislike u more.
sometimes, even if i don't find her girlfriend material. Then I immediately shake off this feeling, cause it has nothing to do with me, and it's my problem that I'm alone...
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