Do you think Men really hate gold diggers or just hate the fact that they can't afford them? (Page 2)
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Ok @coachTanthony, I think I have this G@G mentality down. A woman who is educated and independent and can support herself is a feminazi, but if she needs a man to support her financially, she's a gold digger.
You did it!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vJXILDUEm-8
Nailed it. The ignorance here is SO real it's pathetic.
Like I'm not even going to comment, I'm just here for the comments and to silently judge idiots
I've always waited for this day to come, and now I'm here, I feel suddenly so... serene. Namaste... my black ass out this conversation from here on out. @Cynicaldreamer pass the popcorn!
@Cynicaldreamer Popcorn too I hope?
@DorkVader that moment when you've come to terms with the truth, no matter how bad it is, yet you accept it.
It's a good feeling. Now you sit back and watch the shit storm... with popcorn!
@coachTanthony Of course! Plenty for everyone!!!
But you only get some if you've been to the gym this weekend...
@Cynicaldreamer YASS !!!
Totally. Which is why i favor the healthier option for the ladies. Go get those STEM degrees, make that cash š° for yourself. Spend your own money on the things you love and need. That makes you ladies so much more attractive š
Men hate the fact.. That they cannot afford them..
Men are mentally weak creature and don't see the fact that she might look like this perfect Individual.
But the moment his balls are empty, he is already inside a trap..
Men who don't want to enjoy sending a women in pleasure.. And only care about their own pleasure are primarily tempted by Gold Diggers and easiest prey..
Thing is if you are getting involved with women she will always use some of your financial reserves...
Think is to know that what are your standards and quality requirements in women..
And how much do you needs financially for her..
so that even with your women your finances don't get drained..
So work hard on yourself that you can easily afford her..
A men who makes 100k/year and has a women who spends 78-80k per year who feel like he is being gold dig..
A men making 1M /year with same women will not even notice her expenses
Lol nah we hate gold diggers. Or at least I do. I dont like the idea of someone pretending to love me just for my money or material things, I dont want to be fooled and used. I'm just glad I'm not rich enough to be a candidate for a gold digger haha
"I hate gold diggers or women who want me for my money"...
just glad I don't have any ha ha ha That is precious !
Lol.
Not sure if hate is the right word. Dislike, rather. I can afford, but that doesn't mean I'll be wasting my money. Besides, there are plenty of hot women out there. Does she really think she's entitled to shit just because of her good looks? A gold digger is a sociopath. I've heard the "oh I take care of myself" ploy and all I can think of is "no, you pay professionals to do it, you're not doing shit".
So, putting this into perspective, you'd be essentially paying for a prostitute. The difference is that a prostitute does her job well..
They are just F cheap , esp when they call a woman a gold digger just for paying for her coffee 😹😹
LOL I don't know if I would go that far.
You would give it up for a cup of coffee?
Gold diggers are pretty much just fancy whores.
You give them money in exchange for them sleeping with you and being attractive.
Men who want to buy fancy whores are jealous. But most men just want a relationship so gold diggers are annoying since they dont present themselves as the whores that they are.
I call that stupidity, if a man pay them
As stupid as paying anyone for sex
Not all men hate gold diggers. Once they hit midlife crisis and financially stable enough, some actaully want a new young woman to spend their money on. Deeply, they know what attract girls is money, not an old male body.
Once, a man offered me money, claiming he didn't want anything inreturn. How possible? Worse, he's married with kids. I think it's very disrespectful. Both to me and to his family. Now, what is this called... when a man expects to attract a woman with his bling bling?
And he doesnāt want anything? I call it being adopted lol
@Luv2BRealExotic13 Haha. Maybe. I was afraid one day I'd come back and ask for something he pays. No. It's too obvious. I work, and I don't need a man who can't be my husband to support me like that.
Well Iāll be happy to be a sugar baby to someone like that lol
@Luv2BRealExotic13 Not for me. I think it's not different from prostitution. Really. When your pride should be from your skills and talents, why devalue yourself by being sexually attractive to men who is not your spouse just for money? If you have your dignity, you have to work. Don't be lazy. You can't receive things for free. Nothing in the world is free. If we earn profit based on the appearance, not from the effort, we are spoiling ourselves now. It'd be too late when we get older since we don't know what any other ways to earn money. Skin expires, girl. Think wisely before doing that. Now, technology records our actions. In the future others will know what you did, and it can ruin your life. Moreover, people who give you money like that don't view you as a person. They buy you. They see you as an object. Sex object for sure. And why do many girls like old men? I'm interested in their family background. How about yours?
It takes some skill and talent to keep finessing someone into giving another person money so they donāt have to actually work. Love, hopes and dreams donāt pay the bills by themselves. Work smarter not harder. If a man doesnāt want anything sexual and he just wants feminine companionship whatās wrong with that? How is there moral conflict? Just bc he has a family, maybe his wife isnāt able to or wants to participate in the hobbies he likes. Maybe heās just a little lonely and wants to spend some of his money but heās out of ideas. I saw a documentary on Sugar Babies and this one woman got lucky an older guy who wanted to be platonic but liked the womanās company and at the same time he had excess money he wanted spent. Thereās some people who barely age and his money can afford some spa and relaxation treatments to keep that skin healthy and glowing. Most likely a woman can go to university or invest in a house. Platonic arm candy doesnāt sound like an awful thing. Iām not interested in old men.
They hate the fact they canāt afford them. I have met a couple of guys who love to spend money on women... because they can afford to. It gives them an ego boost 🤷🏽āāļø Some men like being a āsaviorā. Itās like knowing if you werenāt giving her money then she wouldnāt have any... which leads to them being controlling.
Haha š. Equality! Men work hard, spend money on themselves and on women. While those women work, and don't want to spend a dime on the man. That is some f up sh*t. Goto Dubai and marry a king haha
@Paul09 I spend money on my boyfriend all the time. I love buying him gifts...
I've never met a man happy to spend money on me lol
@BrownBratzDoll shit I have and i love every bit of it.
I guess those types aren't attracted to me
If some rich dude wants to flush his earnings on some bimbo who would replace him in a moment's notice with the next richer dude to come along her way... then I won't stop him.
But that doesn't mean I'm jealous that he can "afford" her. I just think buying your way into getting human affection is kinda pathetic. When I start earning six figures a year, I'd pay money to AVOID gold diggers if anything. But yeah some guys have retarded "savior complex" so gold diggers can just exploit those guys and leave the rest of us out of it.
@SomeGuyCalledTom good for you buddy
Remember that gold diggers are not exclusively women.
You are very correct. That is why I left gender out of my own answer.
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@Nishikigawa1 Well it's 100% easier for women to be a gold digger rather than a man. I don't think I've meet a gold digger dude in my whole life. Meet a lot of gold diggers.
I was married to one, and there are plenty of men who marry professional women for the meal ticket and money - not to mention the older men looking for ānurses with pursesā and a pretty good bumper crop of men who attach themselves to sugar mamas for the free ride.
ānurses with pursesā Ha Ha Ha wow
Women who are 10s cost money, our routines and things we put into appearance is nowhere cheap.
So if men actively seek us out and get mad i find it stupid on their part to not realize what their trying to get into.
there's plenty of less attractive, homely types they can get. Go get those and stop complaining
You mean bitches, not women.
@bluecircle Why is she a bitch for being honest?
Lol you're putting a price tag on yourself. You said it not me.
Just like pac said
We gotta start saying fuck these bitches mang, if you fuckin with a cool female that's all good but if you fucking with a bitch you need to break her ass and shake her ass.
Mob for life biaaaaatch
@SexyAshh I will partially agree with you that looking fantastic comes with a price tag. However, being beautiful does not exempt a woman from making a contribution to the household. A woman should contribute a least a portion of the household income unless she decides to stay home to raise children. That doesn't mean that everything has to be perfectly equal. If I was wealthy, I'd be happy with a wife that earned half as much as me. The fact that she is making an effort to be a productive person means she is less likely to take for granted the things I provide for her.
@WalterBlack and thats great, i already came from money and had that lifestyle growing up. I believe in tradition and i intend to follow it
@DorkVader men can't handle brutal honesty. Whats funny is they think we are the sensitive onesš
@SexyAshh Can't have a civilized conversation without name calling, I swan
Ashh is correct!! Man, SPOT ON!šš
Youāre a strong independent woman. Remember you donāt need no man.š¤£š¤£
This may be true in the west but you can easily find 10s outside of western influence that arenāt this way. Western men are at fault for making western women this way. Their thirsty ways put them up on a pedestal.
@Chris006 smart manš
you are so ugly on the inside just like a girl said below this is not love this is business agreement you look for
Yeah im just a horrid person.š
I think we're getting away from the question. Gold digging women are all about the same thing in the end, but there's only certain instances where a man would actually "like" such a woman. First of course, he'd have to be able to afford her prerequisite lifestyle, but his motivation would be "ego" and nothing more. The "smart" gold digger would make him buy the illusion that she cares about "him" at least equally as much as she cares about his money and the lavish lifestyle. Some men will, and do, actually buy this but so what? It makes them happy, at least until she leaves. Once a man can afford to give a woman a truly lavish lifestyle, HIS options open up much the same as a beautiful woman's do. I truly don't believe less affluent men hate "gold diggers", but they might wish they made more money, period.
The prob with gold diggers is that money is their top priority in the relationship. The moment he run out of money, they ready to dip. And its scary how many guys i came across this year who had the nerve to ask can i be their sugar mama. Like the dudes out here doin the damn thing too. people are really fucked these days
Oh there's definitely just disgust with gold-diggers there.
It's the essence of the thing that is the problem, doesn't matter how much money you have. If you're a super wealthy guy and can "afford" them, that doesn't suddenly make them the same as women who aren't like that. It just means I can make the most of the situation with her until there's someone worth investing in. Basically, keep her on the pay roll with as low a cost as possible until she's no longer amusing and/or a woman who is girlfriend material comes along.
Nope. Nobody wants a bitch who doesnāt give a toss about them and is only there to bleed them dry. There are better looking girls who make their own money and are nicer.
You want to bet? š
I donāt think using someone is okay whether youāre male or female. However, I recently learned from someone I know that there is a such thing as āfinancial dominationā or āfindomā where men give money or gifts to women. I also donāt think this idea is okay either. But whatever floats their boat I guess.
That's someone who gets off on the humiliation of being used lol.
In practice, it results in very profitable findom streamers or them acting as very underpaid financial planners.
But they both using each other fair trade
It's consensual, but I think it's important to take too much. It's like overfishing - take too much at once and it can't replenish itself.
Most men who "hate" gold diggers probably do really just hate the fact that they can't afford them.
Those men who actually value romance and meaningful relationships don't really feel the need to hate gold diggers, the gold diggers were never really an option for someone like that, why feel resentful about something you never wanted?
They hate them because we are biologically wired to not want to be used, it breaks trust so if they only value the money then its fairly obvious that once that is gone they will be gone. No one wants to be used (well at least not the vast majority of people.)
To me, "gold digger" means a woman who accepts goods and services from men with an implicit promise of romantic inclination when there is none. This is a kind of fraud, albeit unprosecutable. It's similar to men who pretend to be interested in a long-term relationship to obtain sex.
I have no problem with straightforward transactions "If I buy you dinner will you sleep with me?". I have no time for people playing deceptive games.
You kinda miss the point. People don't like being used. And gold-digging is the proxy o that. So if it bothers you - you gonna hate the attitude. But some people just like giving stuff. Like the sense of control the act provides. For each their own I guess
I genuinely hate them. They're prostitutes who for some reason don't think of themselves as prostitutes. Dirty. Scuzzy. prostitutes. They're people right? They should stand on their own merit like the rest of us not leach money out of some sad rich sop willing to pay for sex.
I wouldn't touch anyone like that if she paid me!
They're just hating that they don't have that much money. Lol
27 of them so far then? lol
I guess š
Naw not true been with plenty of country girls that look better in a half shirt hat boots and jeans W ITH NOFAKE UP on that put them chicks in plastic surgery puffed up fake faces to shame...
@funkit46 Who was talking about plastic surgery though?š
Me a lot of gold diggers got face lifts , nose jobs and fake tits..*obviously not all"
It would seem no gold diggers have any money... Lol that's why they are claim jumping!!
Get a fucking job
@funkit46 Have you heard those lyrics "Why spend mine, when I can spend yours" Lol
Ever heard for Evey beautiful woman there is a man tired of her shit
Ever heard of the wall?
It gets them all!