I think guys, men, should never cry, never get sad or depressed, those who do are weak, have no spine. (Page 2)

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and I mean over anything, whether his girlfriend/wife died, his parents died, his pet died, or if he gets shot, stabbed, or severely injured in any way, a guy, or man should never cry or get sad, get depressed over anything, whether it is physical pain or emotional pain, what do you think? A guy, man, or male should never cry, should always be serious, never let anything get him down, and I mean literally anything. Girls, Women, would you view a guy, Man to be weak, a huge turn-off if he was sad and crying because his mom or dad died, his siblings or best friend died, his dog or cat died, or if he literally got shot, stabbed, physically hurt, he should just take it like a Man shouldn't he?

Anonymous · Answer

He just wants attention. Listen, he's crying right now. I don't mean with tears, But he's bitching about men crying. And if he wants to be a real "man" and not cry, then he wouldn't cry about men crying.

babyhaylee · Answer

crying isn't showing weakness it means you have been strong for too long and ther is nuthing wrong with a man crying that means he has a heart

Amorina · Answer

A "real" man can show his emotions without being a crybaby.  If there is no emotion, it is hard to have a relationship with anyone.  It is unhealthy to shut yourself off from the world.

Rosesss · Answer

I think if a guy isn't afraid to cry around me its  because he's sensitive and he trusts me <3

liveloverace21 · Answer

Real men aren't afraid to cry because they know it doesn't make them wimpy, it makes them human.

lala-193 · Answer

most girls will tell you its cute when a guy cries in extreme situations, like if someone he's close to passes away...it makes them seem vulnerable and human

MizzVMN · Answer

It's so NOT a turn off. Men are humans to. We go through things sometimes that are unbearable. It's perfectly normal and a good woman would stick by her man and help him through those difficult times.

Ellena102 · Answer

WHAT, that's raw of you to say. I actually like it when guys cry, it shows that they have a heart, and aren't as cold and ruthless as they seem on the outside. (:

DivaOniiSan · Answer

I cry.. And there's no way I'm weak. I just say "f*** society" and express myself as is. Anyone says sh*t and I'll throw them. -shrugs- judo, before anyone asks.

NotSoBad · Answer

I don't cry because I'm sad or weak, I cry because its an easy way to relieve stress.  I can cry with a huge smile on my face and laughing.  it just feels awesome!

mattattack · Answer

I am a sensitive individual though have not cried from physical pain since my preschool-days. I have cried though on every break-up whether I broke up with her or she broke up with me, and on the death of every family member and pet.

girls don't look down on it either. I was on a first date with a girl and we saw the blindside and I cried when michael saved SJ. she saw me and then a few minutes later we hooked up.

crying is not a sign of masculinity. It shows we are human

aikidy · Answer

Duuuude WTF ! I'm not a machine !  Me and my friends gossip our sex are being unfeeling creatures.. ! But not that far. I cried a few times in the last 2 years, but I don't let anybody c me crying

Blobb · Answer

Lmao like a hundred people got the sh*t trolled out of them! How do you not recognise a troll when you see one lolol I love the amount of serious answers this got.

emzy-89 · Answer

real men aren't afraid to show their real feelings. it's the cowards who are too afraid of what other people will think that hold them in.

IAmMagical · Answer

I would totally think a guy was weak if he cried when he stubbed his toe or lost at a game. I know guys who cry when they lose and I hate it, hate it, hate it! However in some cases they should cry. If a man never ever cries then I would say that, that makes him weak. Letting out feelings is not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of courage to cry in front of people even if they might think less of you. Real men Cry. That's just my opinion.

moneyman1029 · Answer

I think that I takes a real man to cry and let it out.  but he also needs to be strong, and can't cry over everything

pretty_times2 · Answer

this question is kinda messed up and I have no idea how to answer this.

brunettebelle · Answer

That is bull sh*t men should have emotions like women, but men won't express them like women.

Toxic · Answer

So you're asking anonymously because you're so damn hard?  Listen kid. You've got a lot of growing up to do.

susanna · Answer

I think a man cry for something he really appreciate  is more attractive.

gummybear888 · Answer

I find those who are 'weak' are those who can't take care of their woman and abandon her. guys sometimes have silly thoughts of what it takes to be a 'man'.

oxgoxk · Answer

having a backbone doesn't mean not having human emotions

MWalsh89 · Answer

Crying isn't weak, it's human...not a turn off, just a heart string puller.

Anonymous · Answer

You must be bored, lonely, or miserable to be posting thise foolish replies you have posted. You sound as if you will be killing a few people very shortly if you haven't alreadystarted.

GEt a life. Find some happiness.

colombo21 · Answer

youre so tough man. I'm about to cry that's how tough you sounded

Anonymous · Answer

Why is crying a big deal. It's just water springing from ones eyes. No big deal. If men weren't meant to cry, why were they given tear ducts?

FashionNerd · Answer

no, I would not find it a turn off for a guy to cry...i wouldn't find it a turn on either, but it would show he has feelings, and isn't an empty cold hearted shell. I wouldn't want to be with a guy who hides his feelings.

She-wolf · Answer

Well jeez dude, if you're going to insist that we're lying, why even bother to ask?

Pebyron · Answer

YEAH! WHOOO! Cause we're men we repress our emotions till they turn into tumors and we die early. WHOOO!

LizaVance · Answer

i like men who show their feelings and it isn't healthy if they do bottle them up inside... I say that all men should show their feelings if they want to

Latinateri · Answer

REALLY...A man cries make him a bigger man.

MAN, just says it all.

For a man to cry that I see, I give him much props, mad respect.

Yes its a man, big deal. Move on.

More respect comes in the long run.

larry69 · Answer

Men are cowards if they cry!

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend is in specops for the army, and I've seen him cry. He's still the toughest bastard alive.

Anonymous · Answer

If he never cried or was sad I would think he's trying to cover up, what must be, HUGE weakness because Jesus wept and he's stronger than anyone! : )

TheGoodTheBadTheHOT · Answer

What is this "crying" you speak of?

pandaninja · Answer

I will laugh my ass off when your son becomes a queen

Anonymous · Answer

I disagree.  I firmly believe a REAL MAN is not afraid to show his emotions.

TimB -1-2-3 · Answer

TROOOOOOOOOLL IN THE DUNGEON!

minx101 · Answer

A man who is an emotional void.  No thanks.

udolipixie · Answer

Me too.

Dom163 · Answer

So we should be robots

Whysoconfused · Answer

Did you have a loving mother in your life? There's a good chance you didn't. Have you ever considered seeing a therapist?

Anonymous · Answer

totally disagree! crying is a natural thing.. it doesn't make you more or less of a man.

Cailleach · Answer

Your f***ing delusional.

Anonymous · Answer

This is what happens when guys don't get laid at all... They turn into trolls.

Anonymous · Answer

what did your parents do to you?!

SapoTony · Answer

hahaahahahha okay. I'd hate to be you

Anonymous · Answer

A-motherf***ing-men, I'd drink to that.  So True

lakeberry00 · Answer

I like sensitive guys. It's like they care about life more.

palek · Answer

Hate to be you.

Anonymous · Answer

so why do you cry everyday?

Anonymous · Answer

ridiculous

kaitlovesyou · Answer

umm everyone cries

Wasiq · Answer

Nice q

Anonymous · Answer

I disagree

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