Do single men in their mid forties behave this way when they have casual sex with women?

[Anonymous]

or not even men who have casual sex with other women behave this way,. so kiddish and be so loser? Still even if it is casual they treat the woman somewhat bette and even respect the woman but not this way.

A guy who is 46 years old, always had been single, no kids, never married. This guy does not like to be a committed man to a woman as he does not believe much to be a married man in his future. he enjoys his life as a single guy, so he can do whatever he wants. According on his poitn of view by being in a serious relationship, means drama, and he does not like drama and he is not in the age to put up with drama that comes when you are in a relationship, even if that is part of life anyway, there are no perfect relationships but the guy wants to avoid that.
Now the lady in question is 2 years older also single, never married before, no kids either. In her future plans she is not thinking either to get married or even have kids (well to have kids on her own at her age is very tricky and risky anyway but also the lady is nto ready to be a mother and she is not in the age eitehr too start raising a kid) But that does not mean she can't not hang out with guys or friends and have a nice get together, enjoy time at the date, and that does not mean either that by hanging out with someoen it means something serious, right?

So this lady and this guy know each other for 5 years, they are somewhat friends no strangers. In these 5 years they know each other, they had gone out on meal dates 4 times, out of those 4 times, 2 times they end up having sex. The other 2 there was no sex but there were passiontely made out sessions. and enjoy the meal date together. The lady is not very experienced with guys, but with the guy in particular she wanted some intimacy as there had to be a first time anyway and the guy always wanted to be intimate with her since he met her 5 years back but they did not have sex until 2 years later, she stall him (the guy was not very fond of that )..

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to loose virginity with this guy, the reason she was nervous and jumpy, as it is normal. She was again jumpy the 2nd time but the sex was quick and her period came, iti was a turn off for the guy. but also for her. There was going to be a 3rd time but the guy texted her in advance this several months after he ghosted her: "I want to have sex with you but then you get all jumpy and that is a boredome. The lady replied to him: I also want to make out wiwth you passionately but lets go for drinks..

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Me jumpy? Well you know Im new to all of this, I have to get used to it so I can enjoy it each time" After this response, the guy stopped contacting her. I seems the guy wanted this lady to be sex experienced on the 3 time if they had sex again, maybe he expected he was already over in beign jumpy when he wanted the sex no jumpiness. I mean nto even casual sex a guy treats a woman like this or they do?

[TaureanBull81]

I'm single, never married, no kids in my 40s who much prefers casual sex with a regular friends with benefits over a serious relationship now. There is no unnecessary drama, you can enjoy one another's company which has the added benefit of sex and physical intimacy.

Even though this is purely a physical/sexual arrangement, the man should always be respectful 🙏 regardless with his behaviour and manners.

Even though you may not be as experienced as he would like, your male friend could/should be more patient and understanding.

[TaureanBull81]

Thanks for the MHO 😘

[Anoniemus]

He just wants to have sex. He’s not interested in something serious. His excuses are just that: excuses.

[Asker]

The lady did not want something serious eitehr but the way he acted that he believed taht the lady ont eh 3rd time had to be more of a experienced. I mean you have to do it often to get used to it.

[Anoniemus]

Of course he is. He doesn’t date and isn’t into commitment. That means all he wants to do is fuck and that’s likely all he’s been doing.

[Asker]

Of course that is understood the lady was not also into serious committment but they both knew each other for 5 years and in the past had gone out to some meal dates and had a great time together and no sex, it was after the sex the guy changed and he expected the lady who lacked a lof of sex experience, to be more exprienced with him on the 3rd date and stop being jumpy when he wante to have intercourse.