Why do I keep attracting older men and not my generation?

[Anonymous]

So I’m 25 and here lately a lot of the older man have been looking my way and not really a lot Of men my age. Is something wrong with me.

[MrOracle]

Guys your age want to drink, play video games, watch sports, and have casual sex with different women. Is that what you're looking for?

Older guys (in their 30s or 40s) tend to be looking for a relationship, perhaps a family, and for a more serious relationship. Is that what you're looking for?

And more importantly, how do you think you come across to men? Do you act and dress like the kind of party girl who is likely to attract 25-year-olds, or do you act and dress like the kind of socially-mature young woman who is more likely to attract the 30+ crowd?

[jabariw18]

I'm 28 and let's face it. Our generation is full of flakes and absolutely ridiculous social norms/dating criteria. You're probably more level-headed and mature. That on top of your youth (and thus more youthful appearance) probably attracts their attention. I have a thing for younger girls who have a good head on their shoulders too. I think it's human nature for men to like younger women, it's just not always find ones that are mature.

[MissDawn7961]

I have had 13 year old boys - 63 year old guys complimenting me and showing me attention too ! and I have not done anything to get their attention either so ! if you get the attention of the opposite sex at any time , then thank them and enjoy it ! thanks

[plzfme]

Nothing is wrong with you!!! It just means that you are mature enough for older guys! You may consider going for one of them... Sometimes life throws the unexpected at us... So just roll with the punches!

[Meropatrick]

I do attract older women too. Its because they are the ones that have the guts to make a move. Young people are too insecure to approach. Too vunrable to handle rejection and too fooled by thinking that they would stay young forever and the chance won't go by. They start to wake up when they are already old. And start to wish they had the same chances as when they were young

[Purpleronnie]

Not entirely sure what you mean by the older man , I may look at a younger woman and think oh she is attractive and not want to do anything about it. It may only mean they find you visually appealing. Maybe focusing on approaching the guys you find attractive and take it from there and stop worrying about the things you cannot control

[Asker]

Yeah but I’m old fashion set an a guy come to you first wouldn’t it make you seem desperate or too fast

[Purpleronnie]

There is nothing desperate about asking a guy out , even tradition has to move with the times. It’s progressive

[Rohailhyt]

If my age is considered to be old then i would say at this age girls with mature personality attract us more... who have the ability to take a conversation to next level and so on... I don't know whatkind of attraction u mean but it seem that u have lost the charm of meet and fuck stage.. and now you have stepped in a stage of life to make a stable relationship

[Bad_Man55]

You likely have an aura that is confident, mature and intelligent. Younger immature men will see this as a challenge and work. The more mature man sees this as a positive and very desirable and attractive characteristics

[HeyMikie]

These things happen. Sooner or later you will find someone close to your age who is attracted to you. For many years I found myself in the odd position of not getting any attention from women close to my own age, but lots of attention from women much older and much younger than myself. I used to joke about it saying that the only women who were interested in me were little girls and old ladies. Your luck will change.

[mrdimples78]

That depends do you have an aversion to older men? Most women specifically are interested in older men

[sdrawkcabosmi]

Maybe you give off a vibe of maturity and that could scare off immature guys really easy.

[Anonymous]

Just a coincidence. Have to take it less personally (as in something is wrong with you). Lots of women get this. Advice, you approach guys you're interested in. At least go up to them and try and start a conversation.

[RLovesD7792]

just this question alone would make me go in the opposite direction from ever being with someone like you

[mrdimples78]

I feel like it was a loaded question LOL

[Asker]

@mrdimples78 it’s not a loaded question it’s just I would like to attract someone my own age I got a lot of attention from an older men

[mrdimples78]

Ask her? Is this the same asker I've been talking to about the nice boy wanted to eat her butt?

[LEADFOOTboi]

all women attract older men... unless they a solid 2... in that case, FRIENDZONE

[natannq]

maybe ypu look older than you think or the way you get dressed or the way you think

[Ripper_E]

I attract older women and girls fresh out of high school, but not ones my age.

[MannMitAntworten]

Wrong? Not likely. Might just be how you carry yourself is all. Don’t sweat it.

[BBCanthony]

No your probably sexy and plderen love young pussy and spooling young girls go get u a sugar daddy girl

[Smegskull]

Younger man don't approach women. You can thank your feminist sisters for that.

[spartan55]

Like what? What would be "wrong" with you?

[Anonymous]

How much older if you dont mind asking?