What cause some guys to freeze up around particular girls?

[Anonymous]

[Dongtai]

He hasn’t learned how to see her as human before a woman. So that particular woman might seem so amazing that he becomes hyper aware of his own mortality; his imperfections. It creates that fight or flight response within him.

He flies until he learns to fight.

[Asker]

He must have really like her then?

[Dongtai]

You’ve never liked someone so much that you didn’t know what to do about it or if you could do anything about it?

[Asker]

Urmmm nope

[Dongtai]

You’re a rare person

[eninning]

Fear of rejection would be my top guess. From there I would say that feeling inadequate would be up there, then I guess that he wants to impress so badly that he gets all mixed up

[Asker]

Does it mean the guy really likes her? Os is it just due to physical attraction?

[eninning]

That could go either way to be honest but more than likely his feelings are those that would show that he likes the person, I figure if your out at the bar just to get a piece of ass you have more confidence and really don't care what the women thinks about you but if you like her he doesn't want to blow it long term

[Aaron_Stone]

Fear of messing up.
Lack of experience similar to crowd speech

[Asker]

Why would he fear messing up?

[Aaron_Stone]

If you Loved someone to heart didn't wanted to loose him because of your mistake, Wouldn't you feel the same?
Maybe you never initiated relationship/ asked out your crush to feel the same.

[Aaron_Stone]

There is difference in asking casually and by heart 💜❤

[Anonymous]

Same things that would cause a woman to around guys.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

What causes girls to be an insecure fumbling mess around some guys?

[TadCurious]

They have a crush on her.

[Asker]

What do you think the girl can do to help when the guy freezes up?

[TadCurious]

Just be friendly and warm. Like if he tries to tell a joke or say something funny go ahead and laugh even if he struggles with his words and even if it's not very funny.

[KrakenAttackin]

What do you mean by "freeze up"? If you mean they suddenly stop talking or avoid looking at you, it probably means they don't trust you.

[Liam_Hayden]

Anxiety due to a lack of experience

[Asker]

Means that he really likes her? Or just solely due to lack of experience be freezes up?

[andy530]

Nerves... probably likes you

[Asker]

What can the girl do to help him?

[andy530]

Just talk to him like nothings the matter like everything is normal he will get over the nerves and me talking in no time

[John_Doesnt]

Because she's showing too much cleavage.

[Merls]

FeElInGs

[Asker]

Like what kind of feelings?

[Merls]

Love. He's falling for you, and doesn't know how to act or show it. Well, he might know how to show it, but the way that he does, he fears you'll react negatively. That it could damage the relationship you two already have. He's nervous that he might screw something up.

[Anonymous]

He's nervous.

[Asker]

He's scared of the girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Not that he's scared of the girl, but he probably likes the girl and doesn't want to mess up by saying or doing something wrong that might turn her off.

Either that, or she have done something to him or have something on him that made him actually scared of her. But unlikely to be this though...

[Asker]

If let's say he freezes up because he likes the girl, what can the girl do to help him in the situation?

[Opinion Owner]

That's difficult to say, because it depends on the guy. You can initiate the conversation first, keep doing so until he's comfortable and by then he should not be nervous around you anymore.

You can also acknowledge it, tell him to relax and don't have to be nervous. Once he knows that you know he's nervous, he might relax. But I this may backfire too, coz he might get embarrassed and gets worse. Depends on the person.

Another way is just be straightforward and tell him to grow some balls. That happened to me, and it worked coz now I know I have nothing to worry about. 😂