How can I forget about or talk to my old crush again?

[justcurious2019]

this may sound weird to some people on gag

but back in my last year of highschool 2014 i had a very good looking English teacher she was only 24 i had a crush on her

a few years after highschool i sent her a friend request on facebook and a few messages she never responded what can i do?

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she was my English teacher back in 2014 that was my last year of highschool

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would it be ok if i said this to her I enjoyed being in your class, I hope your doing well. I always thought you were pretty and I was wondering if you were still teaching and how you have been?

[jennifer_bloom]

You have to let this go - even if she did like you - she would not want to risk the embarrassment and gossip that would come if people find out she is dating one of her students - meditate on a celebrity you like - or find something to keep you busy so you don't think about her - or maybe volunteer at a food bank - or do a work out or learn a new language or skill like computer programming or study for the LSAT - do something to keep occupied - I spend my free time with videos and language learning devices and work outs and e books and free computer games and games I bought 14 years ago - I also spend it chatting with people from work

[justcurious2019]

i wrote her a few years after highschool

[jennifer_bloom]

It doesn't matter - if you are seriously dating - people will find out somehow

[justcurious2019]

it has noting to do with dating

[AzureGirl]

Best to let it go if she’s not responding. You can’t force someone to answer you.

[AzureGirl]

At the update: if you’ve already messaged her once then no. Excessive messages can get annoying.

[justcurious2019]

@AzureGirl i just message her once more i will stop for awhile

[YHL6965]

I would personally move on from her, focus on other women or on my own life to move on from that.

[serious]

Both are not the same. Forget or talk to your old crush, you need to decide on one.

[sassy1433]

She prob thought it was weird that a student would send her a friends req or even message her.
She didn’t reply cause she doesn’t want to get involved with an old student of hers. Or maybe she was already in a relationship?
Better to just let her be and not bother her.

[Purplemonkey24]

She probably doesn't want any relations with a student or previous students. She may feel she would put her job in jeopardy, because they may feel she was with you or other students while her students were minors. I have a lot of teachers that dont talk after graduation

[justcurious2019]

i see she does have one old student on her facebook page i have not checked for more

[Purplemonkey24]

That's odd. Hmm. I wonder why she won't reach back out to you

[DizzyDesii]

Thats weird cause she's your teacher and prob doesn't wanna look bad like she was into you back then

[justcurious2019]

she was my teacher this was back in 2014 i wrote her in like 2016 two years after i left highschool

[DizzyDesii]

If someone does the math they’ll thinknshe was secretly fooling around with a minor

[justcurious2019]

i was 18 at the time but i get what you are saying

[Shellyworld]

Talk again - if she doesn’t respond - move on

[justcurious2019]

what should i say in the message

[Shellyworld]

Tell her what you feel for her now. Stay polite and tell her how you see the future with her. If she has a less positive answer please move on. Share your work experience with her. What you’d done after school - where you work now etc.

[Shellyworld]

This work topic can make her feel more comfortable with you.. I did that with a guy - and the consequences were great. I cannot guarantee for you by the way. Good luck

[justcurious2019]

@Shellyworld i told her sorry for the messages before just thought you would not mind if i wrote you on facebook

[Shellyworld]

You have been very polite :) if she doesn’t reply, maybe she was confused because you apologised. I don’t know what you told her before. Maybe she didn't take you seriously. Try to meet her in person then.

[justcurious2019]

she lives in another state far away i lived in that state when i went to highschool

[Shellyworld]

Yes it is a safe message

[Lemia]

Move on

[justcurious2019]

i appreciate your opinion just curious why u say that

[Lemia]

Because that means you were crushing on her whwn you were 14 and a minor

[justcurious2019]

@lemia no it was my last year of highschool in 2014 i was 19

[Lemia]

I'm British Remember I dont know American School system

[justcurious2019]

@lemia its ok i just wanted to make sure u knew all the facts