I'm wondering why this is such a popular topic with the guys.It's not a particularly relevant question, in my opinion, but I think for the Asker who is young, it's understandable to explore this.Girls do this a lot too. Now, probably more than ever. I think many guys would love to hear some of those conversations and comments about them. Oh, to be a fly on the wall. Some girls need to understand that guys are just different. They are more blunt, prefer being able to speak frankly with other guys rather than how they have to choose their words so much more carefully with girls, and compartmentalizing (which is part of objectifying) doesn't mean much. They do that often in other contexts as well.
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I usually think of objectifying like talking about the girl like she is a piece of meat or I'd like to this ___ to this women (hypotheticals) Woman are more just likely to give all the details of an experience.
Maybe it's because you generalized the women as "Big tits", that's her personality, her defining character trait, Tits. For women who are often over sexualized more so than men, being reduced down and refereed to behind our backs as "The one with the big tits" or "The one with the tight ass" just feels degrading. Like the only thing you could remember about me is my tits or ass, not my name or personality. I don't know, if I were to over here it I would just be grossed out. It seems like a lot of guys are like that though, they have they're "Locker room talk" and they just blow it off as just talking and nothing serious but some guys are just disgusting. Like some of the things they say about there classmates and colleges right out of ear shot is just not needed, and i'm not just talking about referring to someone as big tits.
@zollo I have also heard people talk about other physical or. emotional characteristics. Such as the girl who has the cat eye glasses. It's a discriptor. Nothing more.
Truth. I was at a hangout with my friends a while back and we were all talking about how my boyfriend was a snack. Sharing sex stories, celebrity hallpasses etc. The world prints guys as sex crazed maniacs when women aren't saints either.
@angeliquedevereux2 Right!! my wife had some messed up stories from when she was in college...