It depends on how you define "objectify", but taking a looser definition of objectification also makes it harmless.
So you can say either that "no there's no objectification", or you can "yes there is some, but it's not a bad thing".
Basically, the answer is: Sorry, but guys aren't doing anything wrong.
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I certainly know women talk about men in a objectifying way when men aren't around. I went to a trade school that was 99% female and they would gather around in the break room forgetting I was even in there. And they spilled their guts on things like how to go about screwing over men. To my recollection not a single one of them were in the same relationship or remained married to the same person after they left that school.
I think it would be cool if I could talk to a girl about girls like that like if she was lesbian but yes guys think girls are hot and we'll talk about it or like how they would want to smash
Just like men, Women do the same thing to men, weather or not they choose to admit it... Here is the rub though.. Not all men do that... Just like not all women.. Its just some of them that do it..
Truth. I was at a hangout with my friends a while back and we were all talking about how my boyfriend was a snack. Sharing sex stories, celebrity hallpasses etc. The world prints guys as sex crazed maniacs when women aren't saints either.
Sometimes I do. But I never think or talk of anyone as just a sexual object. If a woman has a beautiful body, then I'm sure it and other stuff will be talked about by someone sometimes, just like it is if a man has a beautiful body.
I would say most. Not all guys and they do not talk that way about all women. I would not talk about kinky stuff the wife and i do the way i would some of my friends with benfits i have had.
Some do. But the conversations are usually short. A few sentences and move to the next topic. I know that girls go into great detail when talking about men.
I usually think of objectifying like talking about the girl like she is a piece of meat or I'd like to this ___ to this women (hypotheticals) Woman are more just likely to give all the details of an experience.
Sometimes, yes. But its only certain types of people that do it, and they tend to be the way more immature type that doesn't respect many people at all generally.
Some do but dont imagine if a co worker or some female passes by men have nothing else to talk to only how hot she is. I heard how girls that I studied with all the time spoke how hot seminarias look and how they want to lead them astray.😂
Yeah, but I also talk about women with these men; and about men with other women or men. Just called being a young person who is attracted to attractive people. Though most the time I'm just trying to be funny or flirty about it.
Depends on the guys. There are the ones out there that definitely do. Young guys like in their adolescent years, I'd say most of them have at some point, but I'd say with adult guys it's the minority
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I'll just say no.
It depends on how you define "objectify", but taking a looser definition of objectification also makes it harmless.
So you can say either that "no there's no objectification", or you can "yes there is some, but it's not a bad thing".
Basically, the answer is: Sorry, but guys aren't doing anything wrong.
I certainly know women talk about men in a objectifying way when men aren't around. I went to a trade school that was 99% female and they would gather around in the break room forgetting I was even in there. And they spilled their guts on things like how to go about screwing over men. To my recollection not a single one of them were in the same relationship or remained married to the same person after they left that school.
I think it would be cool if I could talk to a girl about girls like that like if she was lesbian but yes guys think girls are hot and we'll talk about it or like how they would want to smash
Just like men, Women do the same thing to men, weather or not they choose to admit it... Here is the rub though.. Not all men do that... Just like not all women.. Its just some of them that do it..
Truth. I was at a hangout with my friends a while back and we were all talking about how my boyfriend was a snack. Sharing sex stories, celebrity hallpasses etc. The world prints guys as sex crazed maniacs when women aren't saints either.
@angeliquedevereux2 Right!! my wife had some messed up stories from when she was in college...
How you behave influences how you are viewed. If you act like a piece of meat, people will talk about you like one.
Sometimes I do. But I never think or talk of anyone as just a sexual object. If a woman has a beautiful body, then I'm sure it and other stuff will be talked about by someone sometimes, just like it is if a man has a beautiful body.
I would say most. Not all guys and they do not talk that way about all women. I would not talk about kinky stuff the wife and i do the way i would some of my friends with benfits i have had.
Some do. But the conversations are usually short. A few sentences and move to the next topic. I know that girls go into great detail when talking about men.
I usually think of objectifying like talking about the girl like she is a piece of meat or I'd like to this ___ to this women (hypotheticals) Woman are more just likely to give all the details of an experience.
No. Any conversation about women I've gmhad with my guy friends lasted about 30 seconds.
"That chick is nice,"
"Yea , I'd tap that in a second"
"So anyways, blah blah blah"
That about it
Women are way worse about objectifying men when they talk about them behind their backs.
"Rules for thee, not for me."
Sometimes, yes. But its only certain types of people that do it, and they tend to be the way more immature type that doesn't respect many people at all generally.
I believe that most men talk about women objectively, but not 100% of the time. When a person is with a best friend, it's nice to vent.
Some do but dont imagine if a co worker or some female passes by men have nothing else to talk to only how hot she is. I heard how girls that I studied with all the time spoke how hot seminarias look and how they want to lead them astray.😂
Yeah, but I also talk about women with these men; and about men with other women or men. Just called being a young person who is attracted to attractive people.
Though most the time I'm just trying to be funny or flirty about it.
Guys on this app are misogynistic pricks first off
so they’re all going to say yes
From my experience women drastically overrated their importance among guys. If anything, women talk A LOT more about guys than vice versa.
Both gender do it, admitting or not is another story.
Yes, and women also talk about men like that. Look at fans of any famous male groups
men do not, boys do. boys can be quite old in years sometimes.
In general, no they don't.
Depends on the guys. There are the ones out there that definitely do. Young guys like in their adolescent years, I'd say most of them have at some point, but I'd say with adult guys it's the minority