I've been hooking up with this guy on and off?

[Anonymous]

I've hooked up with this guy before and he never texts me after we do but this time I've hooked up with him twice within 3 days and even took me to eat one of those days. He’s been texting me ever since asking me about my day and stuff. Is he actually interested in me or just trying to string me along just for hookups?

[cast277]

Seeing as you've bee. Hooking up already I dont thing that's it. Unless you've given him reason to believe the time of the hook ups was ending. Most likely he is becoming more comfortable with you. It's so hard to keep things simple during casual sessions, trust me. He has probably grown to like you. And trust you. The more time he spend being intimate with you the more romantic and meaningful it will be.

Has the sex slowed or had more eye contact or increased word use. Like is he becoming more vocal?

[Asker]

In all honesty, before we would just hookup then leave or fall asleep but now we actually hold conversations and laugh together so it’s a weird situation

[cast277]

It's a great situation but the fact that you dont know what the situation is yea that might be weird. Just take it slow and let things progress as they will. Dont rush dont pull back.

[SentientBrick]

Don't do hook ups, do relationships. Our biology makes it very difficult to separate love and sex. If you need examples look at the never ending stream of questions pertaining to "hook ups" and the resulting emotional confusion and pain. I don't mean to sound harsh or discouraging but I'd rather see others (and you) perusing emotionally and psychologically fulfilling relationships. Better for the ol-noodle in the long run 😜

[Asker]

I tend to only do hookups but lately i have been wanting a relationship so that’s why I’m kind of testing the waters with not only him but someone else I’ve been also strictly taking to :)

[SentientBrick]

Well good to hear and I hope the best for you. Now I know it goes without saying but ill say it anyway. Don't feel pressured into having sex with your partner. I know many girls feel pressured to do so now days and you shouldn't. The guys who can wait show that they respect and value you more than their compulsions. ( my sagely old person advice for the day lol).

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[Bhavin2184]

You should see his behavior for some more time note is he trying to show interest or not. Because it is difficult to predict what he has on his mind right now plus you said it's only been 3 days. So wait and watch and note

[Asker]

Yeah i agree!! That’s what I’m planning on doing.

[hsshannah96]

He’s trying to string you along

[Asker]

It’s always a possibility