my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years through the good and the bad. We love each other but we had a big fight about a week ago. We were out and a guy from my past (I used him to make my boyfriend jealous a year ago when we were broken up) came up and talked to me, he just wanted to say hi, when my boyfriend left for a little bit to talk on the phone. My boyfriend came back and the guy tried to be nice to my boyfriend (I don't think he remembers him). My boyfriend got mad because I talked to him and he remembers that it was a bad time in our relationship and it brought back those bad memories. We had a really big fight about it even though I was trying to explain that I he came up to me and all I did was say hi. I don't think I did anything wrong. Since our fight he has told me that he wanted to be by himself and didn't want to talk to me. I tried to talk to him about it the next day but he would not talk to me. It has been almost a week now that we have not talked. I would like us to talk about it.
Should I wait to see if he will contact me and talk to me again or should I try to contact him again?
How much time does a guy need after a fight to talk to his girlfriend again?
Will he talk to me again?
I said that I was sorry, but I feel that I didn't do anything wrong.
We have not broken up or is this relationship over without anything being said?
I miss him and want to work things out.
any advice would be very helpful and appreciated.
Should I wait to see if he will contact me and talk to me again or should I try to contact him again?
How much time does a guy need after a fight to talk to his girlfriend again?
Will he talk to me again?
I said that I was sorry, but I feel that I didn't do anything wrong.
We have not broken up or is this relationship over without anything being said?
I miss him and want to work things out.
any advice would be very helpful and appreciated.
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While you can't help talking to someone you know, he has a right to be mad. This guy brings up so many bad memories, and a lot of people view using relationships like that to make someone jealous as mainpulative and close to cheating. So what you've done is severely hurt your guy without intending to by bringing up all the bad things in your past. You essentially brought up some old trust issues that you probably thought were worked out.
A week is a long time, though. I would call him and see what's up. At least then you can try to work it out or see if he has decided that he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
I'm uncertain if I understand your dilemma, so correct me if I'm wrong: You and your current boyfriend, Guy A, broke up about a year ago. While you were broken up, you used Guy B to make Guy A jealous. You and Guy A got back together. Recently you talked to Guy B again, and your boyfriend got mad.
Is that correct?
If that's correct, I'd be irritated too, if I was Guy A. I don't think you did anything wrong. But on the other hand, I don't think it's immature to be upset by that situation. If you used Guy B to make Guy A jealous, Guy A is reasonable in being worried; Guy B will probably always stir up a lot of feelings for Guy A. To go a week without talking to you seems like an overreaction, though.
I suggest you leave a voice mail or email for your boyfriend. Explain that you didn't initiate contact with Guy B, it was a happenstance encounter. Your boyfriend will probably relax and talk to you eventually.
Good luck!
i would tell him what all you just said and you are exactlly right YOU DID NOTHING WRONG! and if it made him mad you were talkin to a guy then he is insecure. make him understand the situation and let him know that you don't want anyone but him
if he won't tlk to you on the phone find out where he is and talk to him there
if he loves you he will understand